I am not even 4 weeks post op and my husband just told me that i'm not fun anymore because I didn't want to go to the (smokey) VFW with him.... Can't drink, quit smoking before surgery... yeah that sounds like the place for me... NOT!!!

Go ahead and give him the stink eye for telling you that! Oh well, guess you'll just have to stay home and BE HEALTHY and LIVE LONGER instead.

I'm not married, but I can tell you that my friends definitely think I'm no fun anymore. I am just less than one month out from surgery now. All I can say is hopefully this part is temporary. I fully plan to be "fun" again when I'm healed and back to myself!

How far out after surgery before alcohol is allowed?

I agree with Gamergirl. Stink eye coming from over here too

Im 7 months out and my friends think im way more fun now than i ever was. Not embarrassed to go out in public anymore, and more adventurous than ever.