Went for the 2 week post op and was all proud that I lost 23lbs, 13 preop. Doctor squints at me and says- ugh you should have lost 20 lbs by now. Wow, and I thought I was doing ok. . He said well its alright but you better lose 25 by the end of October. Way to get motivated.

hw-272, preop diet day 1-267, day of surgery- 255, 1 week post op 250

Two week post my weight was still up from surgery. It took me a few weeks for it to go back down. Your body will move at its own rate despite ypur doctor's expectations. Congratulations on a job well done.

Your doctors an ass

Your numbers seem great to me!

He is a funny little man. Great doctor, terrible bedside manner. Lol I told him to kick rocks

hw-272, preop diet day 1-267, day of surgery- 255, 1 week post op 250

omg! I wonder do we have the same surgeon... lol

mine does me the same... ugh!

i'm a life coach with a MS in psychology... and I taught him the "sandwich theory'

compliment

criticism

compliment

your advice and admonitions are better accepted when you work it this way... grown folks do not take well to being 'fussed at'

lol

It has been my general observation that it takes a particular personality type to be a good surgeon (cough*ragingnarcissist*cough.) That's not always the case of course, but I think it's a good thing in a lot of ways. I want a surgeon who's a competitive, detail oriented, driven perfectionist! If I want to talk about my problems and need a good listener who will offer insight I make an appointment with a therapist.

Lol- I really told him to kick rocks! It was so funny. I thought he made a bet he was do pissy.

hw-272, preop diet day 1-267, day of surgery- 255, 2 weeks op 245