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I lied.

I lied. I took his flirting with me in TJ to mean more then it was. From these posts you can see how easy it could happen - woman are now saying he tried it with them because he "touched their arm" or "said they were beautiful" I don't want people to second guess the care they received. I know he flirts w everyone but I read it as more than it was and got it in my head that he liked me. I think We did have a connection and at a time where I was most vulnerable. I took this too far and it's spiralled out of control - i only wanted speculation and for him to know I was mad, not everyone! I didn't want his name out there. But costing his career is too much , he is as I HAVE stated before, a very good Dr and I don't want to take that reputation away from him because of my bipolar behaviour ... I'm not a troll but also have no evidence he has slept w any patients. But this punishment doesn't fit the crime. I took it the wrong was and felt rejected and stupid when he set me straight. I just want to retract my claim we slept together and apologise to the other Drs and company because none of them deserved this backlash, i didn't think it through before I posted and didn't think about who else would get hurt by it.. I'm sorry to everyone effected

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I'm thinking the doctors in Mexico need to be warned to beware of some of their female patients!

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Seems like people are missing the point. Doctor's are not to sleep with their patients willing or not. Ever. Period. If nothing else, it confuses the doctor patient relationship as you've seen here. Yes, she's responsible for her actions. It doesn't change the fact he was clearly not acting in the best interests of his patient. That's what being a doctor is about, looking out for their patients. Don't attack people who expect doctors to live up to their obligations. Laura-ven was following her convictions, not launching a vendetta against the guy. Let's be mature about this and let it go. Dr. Garcia has dealt with the situation.

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I remember the long thread about rolla when she was all about vanity and had a really low BMI and people thought she was doing it for the wrong reasons..I wouldn't be surprised if it was her lol

Yes, yes, let's all believe everything that Laura ven says.

It certainly isn't fair to attack the woman in this situation but I can't say it's fair to attack the doctor either. A part of me wonders if these two people got married and lived happily ever after, would he still be working for dr Garcia. Or if she would feel like she was preyed upon on whatever.

I think the lesson here for the doctor or any professional is don't s h ! t where you eat. And for the ladies, no one would buy a cow that already gives them free milk.

Some ppl are not missing the point. They only disagreeing with the severity of Dr. Luna punishment. I bet they fire less doctors for medical mistakes that endangered or killed patients.

Some ppl are not missing the point. They only disagreeing with the severity of Dr. Luna punishment. I bet they fire less doctors for medical mistakes that endangered or killed patients.

Exactly to fire him because these women decided to contact dr. Garcia directly..god only knows what they told him.

What I want to know is when the OP retracted her story why 2 women on here continue to ask why is she lying like she wasn't lying before. The OP stated she is bipolar.

I know someone who is bipolar and she makes up these outrageous stories about her family and friends to get people to feel sorry for her. I'm imagining that the OP is the same way.

Shame on the women still defending her actions just because a "man" scorned her. She said nothing happened after all so why are you still saying it did? Did he not hit on you and it hurt your feelings?

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That is disgusting. A man's life is ruined because someone didnt know the meaning of a one night stand. I understand it was unprofessional of him but I guarentee it if they were still "together" there wouldn't be an issue. Or if she knew someone who she just met overseas doesn't want a relationship.

Just like she made the choice, HE made the choice. He just had a lot more to lose. It's bizarre to me that they were both equally responsible for this nonsense yet you feel that HE is the victim. Did he really think that no one would ever turn on him? That's quite egotistical IMHO.

He was just as wrong as she was and he should have kept it in his pants. That's the bottom line.

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What I want to know is when the OP retracted her story why 2 women on here continue to ask why is she lying like she wasn't lying before. The OP stated she is bipolar.

I know someone who is bipolar and she makes up these outrageous stories about her family and friends to get people to feel sorry for her. I'm imagining that the OP is the same way.

Shame on the women still defending her actions just because a "man" scorned her. She said nothing happened after all so why are you still saying it did? Did he not hit on you and it hurt your feelings?

im bi polar and I don't go around telling story's to get attention. Bi polar is a mood disorder. It doesn't cause people to make up outrageous stories or purposely ruin people's life. Shame on you to say that just because you know one person who has bi polar.

Just like she made the choice' date=' HE made the choice. He just had a lot more to lose. It's bizarre to me that they were both equally responsible for this nonsense yet you feel that HE is the victim. Did he really think that no one would ever turn on him? That's quite egotistical IMHO.

He was just as wrong as she was and he should have kept it in his pants. That's the bottom line.[/quote']

Hello she said she lied about the incident so why are you still talking like she didn't?

im bi polar and I don't go around telling story's to get attention. Bi polar is a mood disorder. It doesn't cause people to make up outrageous stories or purposely ruin people's life. Shame on you to say that just because you know one person who has bi polar.

I didn't say all bipolar people do. Just the girl on here who made up the story and the girl I was talking about.

im bi polar and I don't go around telling story's to get attention. Bi polar is a mood disorder. It doesn't cause people to make up outrageous stories or purposely ruin people's life. Shame on you to say that just because you know one person who has bi polar.

Vixey she said the OP could be not everyone..

I didn't say all bipolar people do. Just the girl on here who made up the story and the girl I was talking about. Stop trying to argue with me.

you are jumping to conclusions based off of a person you know and a mental disorder you don't know much about.

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