ive lost 125 pounds since sugury june 5th and am more depressed then ive ever been i really need a friend that understands me... but am happy in so many ways i mean to go from 465 too 340 so fast feels awesome only 80 more to go

Why is it that you are depressed now?

The surgery causes some hormone changes. I had my surgery on Oct. 12th and I get weepy at the drop of a hat. The whole cooking for Thanksgiving is stressful enough, but to me it is a major hurdle. I do understand your depression.

Congrats on your weight loss!! I hope I can see some results like that!

Still pre-op here, but I've read a lot about how your hormones fluctuate while you are losing weight. Some people experience issues with their short term memory, some have a hard time concentrating, and other get depressed. It's totally normal and should hopefully balance itself out when you lose the weight. It's worth discussing with your doctor. A therapist could help with all the stress in your life and the changes going on because of surgery/weight loss, and your MD might put you on a mild anti-depressant. I'd take advantage of both, if you can. But if you can't do counseling or aren't interested, I think a mild anti-depressant for a short term use is your best bet. Meds don't make the problem go away, but it does help with the emotions.

In the meantime, try to spend time with people who make you happy. And the boards are here to lend an ear, and you're welcome to PM me if you need someone to talk to.

It will get better. It's up to you if you want to wait it out or get help. Good luck, focus on taking care of you right now.