My surgeon has a thing about my boobs.

When I saw him at my last appointment when I finalised everything for the op, he asked if I had put on weight (I probably did) as my boobs looked bigger. I just laughed him off and said it was a good bra. Then upon exiting the room, he said that I'll lose them (I'm a DD/E cup) with the weight, to which I replied that I'll just replace them.

I saw him the other day for 2 and a bit month post op review and said that my boobs haven't gotten any smaller (which they haven't, as I'm still same band/cup size).

Your thoughts?

^{lol...is he just thinking that you might like them as much as he apparently does, and that you might miss them as much as he would have if they got smaller? Maybe he was sure they'd be gone, and now he's surprised they aren't.}

^{Maybe you should check if he has a ring on and feel things out!...punn in tended, haha! Go for it! Is he cute?}

Oh my!! Is he young and Handsome??? Wink wink

That's my question: are you offended or interested?

^{lol...is he just thinking that you might like them as much as he apparently does, and that you might miss them as much as he would have if they got smaller? Maybe he was sure they'd be gone, and now he's surprised they aren't.}

^{Maybe you should check if he has a ring on and feel things out!...punn in tended, haha! Go for it! Is he cute?}

Married with I think 2 kids and 41 LOL. He actually told me his age yesterday because he initially thought I was older than I was and now says I look as though I'm in my late 20's (bless him).

His pic is on the profile (see clinic link in my sig), but he doesn't look like that LOL.

I work in a hospital myself and deal with a lot of the doctors. Not many good looking doctors, but there's a yummy physiotherapist that us women perv on LOL.

Does it make you uncomfortable when he comments on your boobs? I wonder what he does in the OR and the patient is a sleep. It could be considered sexual harassment. Just curious......

No, not really, just wish he wouldn't each time he sees me. My sister said I should say something.

I would agree that you should say something. The decision is whether you think he's crossing some ethical line that needs to be addressed by an employer and/or licensing board.

So you can keep it between you and him, or you can bring it up with a higher authority.

The concern to weigh is: is he being inappropriate with more of his patients than just you?

No, not really, just wish he wouldn't each time he sees me. My sister said I should say something.

If I do stay anything, I don't want to be awkward at future visits.

I'll see if I can suss out some of his other patients from another forum.

Maybe you could just turn the subject to something else, or mention that you prefer to talk with your ob/gyn doctor about that area, now that your surgery is complete...something like that. That should give him the hint.

Mine also does restorative surgery including boob lifts. The issue came up with me as well. Many gs patients have their boobs go seriously south...or would that be. North? Anyhoo, if he comments again ask if there is a problem does he do restorative work. His answer will probably answer your comcerns without thoroughly insulting him.

If I do stay anything' date=' I don't want to be awkward at future visits.

I'll see if I can suss out some of his other patients from another forum.[/quote']

It won't be awkward. He will never be alone in a room with you again or he will transfer you to another doc with warnings. If the man is googling and fondling you.....leave. If he is asking normal bariatric questions follow my other advice above.

I'm not sure which is worse: Googling, oogling or oggling.

It won't be awkward. He will never be alone in a room with you again or he will transfer you to another doc with warnings. If the man is googling and fondling you.....leave. If he is asking normal bariatric questions follow my other advice above.

No he's not...fully clothed. First post op review, he only looked at my wounds and yesterday didn't even examine.

No other doctor in my town who does the surgery, if things came to that.

And yes, the girls will be/are heading south, but they have been for years.

I'm not sure which is worse: Googling' date=' oogling or oggling.

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Lol, dang auto correct!

No he's not...fully clothed. First post op review' date=' he only looked at my wounds and yesterday didn't even examine.

No other doctor in my town who does the surgery, if things came to that.

And yes, the girls will be/are heading south, but they have been for years.[/quote']

Next time it comes up calmly say why do you ask? This will not offend if done in a clear and normal voice.