But I just wanna share with everyone. I hate when you get close to someone on here and disappear. This person got surgery same day as me we have written to each other everyday for the past 2 months and suddenly she's gone. This worries me.

Hopefully she's just on vacation.

You've been sending PMs? PM her again and let her know you're worried. Most people have their PMs sent to email to them. Hopefully she's just on vacation or got so busy living her life that it's too crazy to get on the boards right now.

I've spent a lot less time here the farther out from surgery I am - especially since the weather has gotten so nice and the kids are busy with sports, etc. I wouldn't worry too much about it, just send another PM and ask her to check in with you. Chances are she's just busy!