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Rough time before surgery

I am scheduled for surgery this Friday! I have been so excited and doing very well on my pre-op diet. Today everything has started to crumble. My boyfriend broke up with me today, on New Years Eve and a few days before my surgery when he knows how important if means to me. I feel like I can't breathe! I want to go eat, I can't stop crying.... Someone please say something to help!

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    • t2dav
      t2dav

      I'm so sorry for your heartache but just think you are doing this for YOU and above all you should love yourself! You are beautiful and although it hurts today on day you will look back after your sur

    • FLORIDAYS
      FLORIDAYS

      I know it hurts but When a door closes...a window opens.... You surgery is your window to a whole new world. Throw yourself into it and flourish. Best wishes for your success!!!!

    • Rojasanoll
      Rojasanoll

      YOU are only the one that can control feelings and emotions. Think of the band surgery and how good YOU will be for yourself in your quality of Life and hopefully better health. It's all about YOU dea

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    Sam

    How are you doing today?

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    I'm doing ok! Playing with my kids and trying to keep busy! It's just hard to have so many unanswered questions. I really couldn't have gotten thru this without y'all! Thanks!

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    Are any of them questions someone on this forum can help you with?

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    I'm doing ok! Playing with my kids and trying to keep busy! It's just hard to have so many unanswered questions. I really couldn't have gotten thru this without y'all! Thanks!

    I logged on to check on ya ... this really puts a smile on my face!! gooooo get em tigeress!!!!!!

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    You've been on my mind today. As I stated in my private message, I've been there. Hope today is better. Stay positive girl. This to shall pass. And before you know it, surgery day will be here, and then one month out and then 6 months out and bam, you will look back and say I did it, and look at all the weight you will have lost and will feel better. You are worth it!

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    Glad to hear you are doing well! Hang in there....

    Remember,....

    No one ever said it would be easy,

    Only that its worth it

    Xoxo

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    In my thoughts & prayers!

    You need us, we're here.

    I'm so happy and proud of our LBT family, a lot of loving, caring ppl here.

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