Suppose to be supportive my husband is worrying about the wrong thing he feels that I'm making this change to leave him I feel that he just say things to discourage me from doing my surgery well my day is tommorow and I'm happier then ever even if this mean I have to be the only

That is happy about yay fa me!!!!! Every one keep me in there prayers

A lot of people feel insecure. They think that no one will love them b/c of their looks. He probably thinks u r going to loose all this weight & then will no loner want him.

You are in my prayers! this is the best thing you can do for yourself. You hubby is being insecure.. just re-assure him.. men ><. that this is for your health and not to go out there trying to find someone new. Good Luck!

You are in my prayers! this is the best thing you can do for yourself. You hubby is being insecure.. just re-assure him.. men ><. that this is for your health and not to go out there trying to find someone new. Good Luck!

LOL, How true!

Thoughts & prayers with with you Lanna!

Plenty of support here for you!