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Everything posted by JMinDallas
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Any Regrets?
NONE! I'm 2 months post-op and love my band! Where else could I lose 30 lbs in 2 1/2 months!
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Gas pain in shoulder and chest???
Walking helped a lot. Even just walking around the house. Heating pad at night on the shoulder helped to get through the night. I also used the gas x. I would say about day 5 I noticed a huge diff in the gas pain being gone, or just occasionally hurting.
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Two Months Since Surgery So Far So Good
Glad there are others! I was banded 2 months ago as well, and you've beat me by a few lbs on weight loss. I just had my first fill yesterday, so hopefully I'll continue to lose.
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Banded in May....Not losing well.....meal ideas?
Sounds like you need a fill. How far apart are you getting them? Can you go more often. I've only had one fill (yesterday) and have more cc's than you...so I would think you need more. My meals haven't been all good or elaborate up to this point. Bowl of Cereal in the morning (oatmeal, or regular cereal w/milk) sandwich for lunch (egg salad, tuna salad) w/bag of 100 cal chips, or lean cuisine meal Apple for snack w/peanut butter dinner is a variety - could be chicken and rice, or Pasta, or some meat w/ vegies. I serve myself small portions and don't allow myself to get seconds even if I'm still hungry. I'll have a sf popsicle for after dinner as a treat. Once I have another fill, I'm sure my portions and what I eat will go down.
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What parts of your body are getting smaller?
My butt thankfully! It was practically growing up my back! LOL! My thighs, my waist. I don't notice as much in my boob area, but around it has shrunk. My side boob handles are shrinking! I'm still wearing the same shirts & capris, just with a belt on the capris. Dresses & skirts I've noticed differences. Some are too big and fall off, others that didn't fit, fit really nicely.
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Question about vomiting
From what I understand, in general it's not good to throw up with the band. Yes, I've heard they give you meds to not throw up if you have a stomach virus. What I'd do is tell the anesthesiologist to give you some anti-nausea meds. I had a hyster last yr, and recovered really fast and well. No issues at all with being sick or anything (I didn't have the band though). So I'm sure you'll be fine.
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Sharp Pain when swallowing....Not stuck.
So glad to hear that! Things like this worry me, since I'm also self pay. Take it easy. You've done an awesome job! Keep it up!
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your scale of Drs?
I use the dr's, since I don't own a scale. It's been a little tough, since I went about once a month, and I didn't know how much I've lost. I bought a balance board for the Wii, so I used that last week. I'll wait til I go to dr on Monday and then use the balance board to see the diff btwn the two, so I can estimate loss better. I don't want to get obsessive and weigh myself constantly, so I'll do it once a week.
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Is there something wrong with me?
I too was the same as you. I didn't take any of the pain meds besides Tylenol, and just at night to help with some of the gas pains. I did have some left shoulder gas pains, but moved around a lot really helped. By day 2 I was up and about. Had to keep reminding myself to be careful with the kids because I didn't feel bad. I had no swelling at all and minor bruising around the 5 incisions. There are many of us who do well, but most don't post how good it went. It's usually to ask for help on problems someone might be having.
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Discouraging friends anyone?
I didn't tell anyone either. None of their business. Don't want anyone judging me. My hubby and my sister are the only ones that know. I even at times regret telling my sister (but she helped finance me!) since she says are you sure you can eat/drink that? OMG! Glad she lives in another state and only visits every few months. I've had people ask if I've lost weight. I say yes, just trying to eat better (which is totally true) and that's all I say about it.
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Need help from +4 week bandsters please :)
I was really similar to you. I'm now 6 wks post op and nut didn't give me a fill, since I'm doing good without it. I can eat about 3/4 to 1 cup of food. I can eat more at times, but usually later in the day. I don't usually allow myself to eat a lot even if I could. He did say most people have anywhere from 1-3 cc's in their band. Something like when they flush out the line and then cut it, some cc's remain. I would suspect you probably have some saline. Enjoy it while it lasts! I'm hoping mine continues!
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What if this isn't enough?
I too felt the same way you do. I'm a self payer, so even more so I worried if this was the right thing. I am still worried about it at times, but I don't let it consume me. I read the negative side of things to help me get a better perspective as to how I should be, and that has helped. I read where people say they can eat whatever they want and they're not full. Well, we shouldn't be eating whatever we want...we should try eating better, even if we do feel hungry at times. I've lost 30 lbs in 2 months! I am still amazed that it's happened! What has helped me though is to try and watch for the signs from my body. When I feel satisfied I get up and take my plate/bowl to the kitchen. I'm not stuffed, nor do I ever feel that way any longer because I don't let myself get that way. I never force myself to eat a large amount, I don't even serve myself a large amount any more. I still go out to dinner, and I share it with my toddler. Usually 3-4 bites for him to my one bite. That has helped a lot! It helps me to breathe in between my bites, and also takes a lot of food off my plate so that I'm not tempted to eat. Best to you! Keep us posted on your progress!
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Went for 1st fill - didnt need it
So I went for my 1st fill today. Kind of nervously excited about it. Since I don't have a scale at home I didn't know if I've lost any weight this past month since my last check-up (so 6 wks post-op). I lost 10 lbs in the last 4 wks! Nut said no reason to give me a fill since I've done so well. He said to come back in 4-6 wks, but if I felt hungrier I could come back sooner. I know it's hard to judge, but do you think I'll be on of those lucky ones who doesn't need a fill? Or does this staying full last only so long? He said I probably have about 2 cc's in my band from surgery. It's a little strange, but I almost feel a little sad I didn't get a fill. Nut laughed and said he could poke me with the needle if I wanted! I'm just glad I'm still losing. I was so afraid I'd be one of those that didn't lose anything.
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OMG!!! EOB from insurance
I was self pay, since my insurance doesn't cover WLS. I made the mistake of giving the hospital my insurance card, since they told me in case I have a hernia. I just looked at my insurance online and the hospital billed them $63,000!!! My insurance paid $43,000!!! I have no idea what they billed them for. If it was just for the hernia repair, or what. It doesn't give me details. Does anyone know if I can fight the hospital and ask them to give me back the $6000 I paid them? That was supposedly the only amount I had to pay...I can't imagine the hernia alone costing that much money. And my dr billed them for the hernia I think, as well as an assitants fee. Both were not paid, since it falls under the amount for my deductible. Any ideas on what I can do? That seems like a ridiculous amount of money, and darn it, I want my $6K I paid back!
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Question to successful lapbanders
Would you tell me what app you use?
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Billing Vent!!! Did this happen to you?
You're comments worry me. I too was self-pay and have insurance, but they don't cover WLS. I had a hernia repaired that I didn't know about beforehand. My deductible is a whopping $5K, so I'm hoping they don't bill me or my insurance, cause I can't come up with more money for that too. Hospitals are usually behind, so I figure in the next month or so I'll know if they billed it out.
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Is this infected? (warning, pic of incision)
Sorry about the MRSA outbreak. It is a little scary at first, but it seems once you finally get rid of it it's gone for a while at least. My daughter had it a couple of years ago. She was only 2 yrs old. We don't know where or how. She had 3 separate outbreaks over a year, the last one requiring her to be hospitalized. She was there for 5 days while she had IV antiobiotics, and had to be cut open and the sore drained. It was horrible. We did daily bleach baths. Small amount of bleach to a tub of Water. It's been 2 yrs since then, and she hasn't had an outbreak. If you're able to, I'd ask your doc if you can take baths. I forget the ratio, but I want to say 1 cup of bleach to a tub of water. We did this for a few months. Just a suggestion. Hope you get better soon!
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Curbing the not real hunger
SF popsicles really help me. I too am not hungry, but I'm craving something. I'll start hunting in the kitchen (thankfully no junk food around), and then remember my popsicles which I keep on supply. Those really help!
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What are your post op lifting restrictions?
Mine were nothing over 25 lbs for 2 wks. After that, I was ok to lift a few more lbs, nothing over 40 lbs for total of 6 wks.
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Other OTC pain meds besides Tylenol?
Thanks you! I think I will take one at night until the pain is gone. I actually took an advil the night before last (just one) and I slept so good until about 2 am when the pain woke me. Last night I didn't take one, and I was tossing and turning all night in pain. Thanks also for the suggestion of tylenol w/codeine. You girls are the best!
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Other OTC pain meds besides Tylenol?
Thanks for the suggestion. I just called dr and they said no, only Tylenol. Oh well, guess I will suffer longer. It's been a week...my eardrum ruptured infection was bad. I'm hoping a few more days and pain will lessen. And yes, on antibiotics and ear drops.
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Other OTC pain meds besides Tylenol?
Does anyone take any other OTC pain meds besides Tylenol? I found it doesn't work well at all. I've always used advil/motrin which works the best in my opinion. I have a bad ear infection and tylenol isn't doing the job. Any meds by prescription are just too strong for me. Anyone who uses something else that works, pls let me know. Thank you!
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Letter of Necessity
Sorry but I had to laugh! As I was reading this, I was thinking crazyinlove was typing too fast. Then when you said word for word what they wrote I had to LOL! Spell checker anyone?
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The Scales of Justice...
This is exactly me! I only get weighed when I go to the dr. As I reach closer to goal I'll buy one just to make sure I'm staying on track. But right now, I don't need the obsession of weighing myself constantly and getting more discouraged if I don't see a loss.
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No Advil or similar?
We were told we could never take Advil/Motrin/Aleve or anything similar ever again with the band. I too don't feel tylenol works well at all.