hahahaa...knew it! I've been dating for years since my divorce and I KNOW how they come and go. Well, I had my surgery on the 4th of this month (Dr. Aceves--LOVEEEEED HIMM)MMM!) and I wasn't sure if I could pull off not telling my boyfriend when I arrived home. I told him I was on vacation with a friend for a few days, but had my story ready if I HAD to. I was NOT looking forward to that though. Guess what...didn't have to! :001_tongue: He still doesn't know and the lil' stiches are healing quite quickly, so I think it's smooth sailing. I KNOW, as much as he loves me, he would judge me. Because he has to work his ass off every day at the gym, do without his beer, etc. and if he knew I had it easier, it would be "well, SOME PEOPLE have surgery to make it easier." He and his buddies talk all the time about so and so's girlfriend getting fat, etc.
A girl who was having surgery with me the same day (38 yrs old) had her boyfriend there with her, but she said she didn't want to tell him, but didn't think she could pull it off without telling him. If she could have, she would have, but she said NO ONE else will know. So LOTS of people think this way. SILENCE IS GOLDEN :thumbup: