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BayougirlMrsS
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Husband is so negative about my Weight Loss Surgery :(
BayougirlMrsS replied to Totoro's topic in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums
I'm glad I had my LB surgery. For me it was the best choice. Like I said before my husband has never been supportive. It has been a hard road that's for sure. Would I have done better with his support.... I don't think so. Would it have been a happier road.... Yes. We still struggle everyday. Five years ago a veteran bander told me that if you have a good marriage to start with you should be ok. I thought back then we did. But I have come to realize that we don't. And for now we are hanging on by a thread. I hope you all the luck in the world and I hope you keep us all posted. Chris -
Wednesday was the first time since my surgery that i went for an unfill.... he took out 1cc and for the past two days i have been reflux free. I feel great
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Husband is so negative about my Weight Loss Surgery :(
BayougirlMrsS replied to Totoro's topic in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums
My husband didn't want me to have surgery either. But I did it any way. He thought the same thing.... That I wasn't that big and I did t have health issues. He said.... You can do it if you really want to. He just didn't understand how hard it is. He like your husband is very insecure. He didn't have a weight problem he is s 6'4". So fast forward three years and 80lb lighter he HATES that I lost weight said that my losing weight was the worst thing ever. He hates men looking at me and the attention I get. I would suggest that you do some couple counseling if he will. If not the probability of yall lasting is slim. My husband won't go and as a result our marriage is in trouble after 24 years. But it m so glad I did it anyway..... For me and no one else. Good luck -
I bought mine from a company in the UK. I know it's scary, but I have bought lots and have never been disappointed. Once I had to return a bra, but it was because I didn't read the discription. I sent it back with no problem. Belle Lingerie: Womens Lingerie, Big Bras, Plus Size Bras, Bikini www.belle-lingerie.co.uk/
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Why do I do this to myself?
BayougirlMrsS replied to ooffa511's topic in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums
It was a great visit. He took out 1cc and I can feel the diff already. He thinks the marriage issues I'm having is contributing to my reflux and weight gain -
Why do I do this to myself?
BayougirlMrsS replied to ooffa511's topic in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums
Omg. I know exacting how you feel. In fact I'm on my way to dr now to get back on track -
Hate this lying!
BayougirlMrsS replied to DoneItForMe's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
you own them NOTHING.... no explanation. it's no of there business. I felt the same way when i had surgery. That i had to hid what i was doing. My standard answer to .... Wow, you have lost some weight, how did you do it..... I simply said, I watch everything i eat, cut down my portions and started exercising..... which was the truth. and then i walked away.... unless it was one of the bitches that use to say bad things about fat people, but who has now gained weight..... To them i would say... the same thing, but i added...Wow you have put on some pounds... what happened to you? Watch there face and the expression, flip my hair....and walk away.... boop!! -
How old are/were you?
BayougirlMrsS replied to ELI.p.m's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
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im re reading The Beauty Trilogy..... by Ann Rice AKA A.N. Roquelaure..... She wrote these books in 1983, 84 and 85. Best Erotica i have ever read. Makes 50 Shades read like childs play.... the last of the books is being released in April... so im re reading.
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so i just went back and re read this thread.... i miss these fun days.... Hey... any knew "progress" lol
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you look great.... -
where have all our fun friends gone?
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amazing transformation -
Kennedy Amato Before
BayougirlMrsS commented on Dr. Sowemimo's gallery image in Member Photo Gallery
this one blows my mind.... great job -
Valentine’s Day Question: Has Weight Loss Surgery Improved Your Relationship?
BayougirlMrsS replied to Alex Brecher's topic in General Weight Loss Surgery Discussions
i really wish i could say that it got better.... but no, if anything it got worse. So i was pretty vague with my post.... so let me explain better. We have been married 24 years. And in those years he has seen my weight go from 100lb to my highest at 230. He never said anything about me getting fat, but our "relationship" was strained to say the least. He never wanted me to have surgery, but i did it for me... No one else. When the weight started coming off i have to say it got better. He was "interested" in me again. Went from twice a year... to twice or more a week.... I was in heaven. I loved all the attention. But then other men started noticing me and he saw that... and didn't like it one bit. He has even said that me losing weight was the worse thing ever. We are back to once every three months or so... which is terrible because i woke up one morning with the drive of an 18 year old boy... lol. But i hang in there.... for how long, im really not sure anymore. I think it must be wonderful to have a spouse that supports you and encourages you.... so too all of you that have that.. i envy you..... I know that Envy if the Thief of happiness.... but i do. -
Hey David....
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Feeling sad and hurt today.... but it's ok. Life does go on...
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You know when you come here, you make friends and in some way, even though you have never met them, they become close. We share our struggles, achievements, sometimes our secrets..... And when you had that connection and the other person just stops all contact with out any word... it's hard. Especially when us as fat/exfat people, we are always looking for acceptance and even thought it's hard to admit... the compliments are always nice. Especially when you don't have that at home...... for me losing this "friend" was almost like a death. So i was sad... Thanks for asking.
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Wow it has been a long time since i have been on here.... How is everyone?
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good for you blue... i need to do the same... miss ya
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I feel great.... happy everyday with the choice to have the LB done.
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Thought i would ask.... How many of you have LBT as your secret place? Meaning that you come here and talk to follow LB people and are able to speak your mind and not have to worry if someone you know will see..... I do... my hubby don't know about the site and i love it that way... i can come here and say what i want and not have to worry about what people that "know" me will think... Just curious Does your Husband/Wife know you come here...?
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Oh... my beautiful CG.... you are such an inspiration too so many... myself included. I remember the first time someone said that to me... OMG it hurt so bad....Of course i left and went sit at my desk and cried... Then i sat an pondered... my response for the next person that said that too me. So now i just catch them off guard and say.... O really, and why is that? And when they say, I didn't need a surg to do all the work for me.... I say... good for you... neither did I. Then i say... the band doesn't stop you from eating and it doesn't drag my ass to the gym.... I do all that. My band is no more to me than a person that Does WW, Jenny Craig, Nutra-system... etc. With out counting the points, buying the "food" or taking diet pills.... Nothing works... Dahhhh. Only things that do are eating right and exercising.... Fast forward to a few years later...in the grocery store.... Me, looking fabulous... lol... Happens to run into that person.. I am now a size 6-8...... She is now a much larger size (i won't say the size to not offend). But it is double digits.... She says wow Chris you look great, you have lost so much weight, that LB really worked for you.... I said, well thank you Cindy, yes the LB has been a great tool, but i have worked my ass off in the gym 5 days a week. But thanks for noticing. (me doing the eye scan... up and down looking at her and say)... But what happen too you..... You use to be so skinny. How much have you gained..? She just looked at me .... I then looked at her and said.... You know, i go to the YMCA M-F... Maybe you should start joining me. She looked at me and said... we'll see.... I said.... you have a great day now... Smiled and sashayed off. Karma.... creaked up on her and bit her right in the A$$.....
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Have not lost not even one pound since my surgery
BayougirlMrsS replied to Aylani07's topic in Tell Your Weight Loss Surgery Story
Exercise is the key.... no matter what your eating or not eating ... Drinking or not drinking. If your not burning calories.... you will not optimize your potential with your band. -
Plastic Surgery Question
BayougirlMrsS replied to Ale817's topic in Plastic & Reconstructive Surgery
mine remove all my fill. Only because if you are allergic to any of the meds they give you, throwing up could damage your band. At least that was the reason i got. In a way i was glad... the first week after the swelling made my band tight and hard too eat.
