I am horrible with words but im gonna give it a shot...i think what your saying is you didnt want advice on the whole relationship you just want help on how do u make him understand how you feel ....if thats the case its so hard to try and make men or for that matter anyone understand your feelings when they don't live in your shoes ...also hes not a mom and moms and dads are totally different ive just learned to accept it i personally just feel like some people dont use common sense like we do lol ..i love my husband to death he is a great husband and excellent father to our daughter but sometimes he does or says things that hurt and when i finally talk to him about it he feels bad because he didnt think about it the way i do