mb20mom
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I'm in a bit of a mourning period right now since I'm only 2 weeks out and on mushies, but I know that it's only temporary until I can have solid food again in a few weeks. But I'll admit I am reminded every day that what I've done is permanent and I will never be able to eat like I used to. It is reassuring though knowing that I will eventually be able to eat anything I want in the future, just not much of it. It's definitely something to think about thoroughly before getting surgery, so good question.
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Someone please help
mb20mom replied to tennessee1031's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I had this exact feeling on my left side sort of between 2 incisions. I had to hold my belly while I walked or it felt like I would rip apart if I let it go. But no worries, it went away in a few days. I just woke up one day and it was gone. -
I've had applesauce, mashed potatoes, and Jello sf/ff instant pudding made with added protein powder. Tonight I tried egg salad and it was great!
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Yoplait now makes Greek yogurt
mb20mom replied to mb20mom's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Well now I understand why everyone adds Splenda to greek yogurt...yuck! I don't think I can learn to like it. I might have to stick with my Yoplait light. -
Yesterday at my post-op appt. the surgeon said to start on mushies! I ran home and made a scrambled egg and thought I'd never had anything so good in my life. I couldn't finish it, but it was so satisfying. I don't think I have alot of choices on my mushies list, but I'll take anything over a protein shake. Just now I ate some refried beans and it was just like eating a burrito. I managed almost 1/4 cup and stopped because I'm deathly afraid of over filling my sleeve. I know I'll have to supplement with a shake eventually since I'm not eating enough protein, but for now I'm enjoying every bite!
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Oh yeah, I do feel better, thanks. How was your post op appt.? Did he clear you for food yet? How much have you lost? I'm down about 11 lbs and sick of protein shakes and soup. Sure would like to chew something. It's still hard to tell when I'm full or hungry since when you're sipping constantly, isn't it? Let me know how you're doing.
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Surgery Recovery Sucks!
mb20mom replied to MINI-Me's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I feel much better too! Every day gets easier. I ventured to the grocery store today and that took it all out of me. Time for a nap! Nice to know I still have several days off work to rest up. -
I had surgery 6 days ago, and my lower abdomen is like a rainbow of bruises right now from the heparin shots, but the bruises don't hurt. I have minimal bruising around the incisions, and they don't really hurt anymore. The pain I have since yesterday is an ache on my left side. It's very tender and sore, and feels like a muscular bruising on the inside. It's always good to get as much information as possible, so good that you're asking. I found that I didn't prepare myself enough for the actual pain and nausea during recovery. I had to stay 4 days in the hospital due to the continued nausea and lack of Fluid intake. I was miserable and wished I hadn't done it. Now I feel better and am concentrating on learning my new tummy's signals and a great journey of weight loss. Not everyone has a bad recovery, but it wouldn't hurt to expect the worst and be prepared.
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Surgery Recovery Sucks!
mb20mom replied to MINI-Me's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Wow I wanted to post almost the exact feelings about recovery, but didn't want to scare potential sleevers. I'm 7 days out now and I remember waking up in recovery thinking what had I done? I had not prepared myself for the pain and the nausea. Every few hours someone was poking me with something and I wanted a time machine to reverse the whole thing. I would hit the pain pump button in order to get back to sleep, and I'd wake up with such a feeling of despair and regret. I thought why didn't someone talk me out of this, and that this is totally not worth it. I feel much better now, except for this odd pain on my side. The intense gurgling has relaxed a little but I still get spasms like my stomach is being squeezed. My only trouble now is trying to read the signs of my new anatomy. Don't always know if I'm hungry, full, satisfied, just not sure, so I keep trying to suck down the Protein shakes and creamy Soups for meals. The Water is actually more uncomfortable but getting better. So thanks for being honest about recovery because everyone needs to know. We spend so much time preparing ourselves for the new way of eating, but not about the recovery feelings. -
I got home last night. I had to stay longer in the hospital because of the nausea. I wasn't able to drink enough and keep it down. Recovery was awful, glad to be home but kind of regret getting the surgery. I didn't anticipate feeling this bad. The gas pains are still bad, I don't know if or when I'm supposed to eat or drink, I have to carry my stomach around when I walk or the big incision burns too bad and I don't even care about losing weight anymore. Even after telling Dr. Zane many many times I can't tolerate codeine, he sent me home with the Tylenol 3 anyway...?? WTF? My husband's at the store now looking for some ibuprofen I can swallow.
I know it will get better and I will change my mind, but for now I wish someone would have talked me out of this. I just don't think it's worth all this discomfort. Diet and exercise would have been easier.
Sorry to unload, but wanted to let you know I'm home. Hopefully I'll cheer up next time I write.
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I'm with ya sista! Having my surgery today also. Of course we are making the right decision! See you on the loser's bench. Good luck.
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Wow that's awesome that you lost 10lbs already! I bought a bunch of protein powder, hope I still like them after surgery. I'm waiting for my call today and hope I go in early tomorrow. Those blood thinner shots you mentioned...did they do that after surgery or during? I'll keep you posted when I get home, probably Thursday! And thanks for all the info, it really helps.
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Good luck and congratulations on getting your surgery. I know just how you're feeling since my surgery will be on Tuesday! I'm anxious to get it over with and start the healing. We can heal together! Keep us posted, and welcome to the new you!
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Confused whats better the sleeve or bypass
mb20mom replied to ladybashful's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I'm choosing the sleeve because it's less evasive, with no re-routing of the intestines. Also with the sleeve you can eventually eat anything, whereas the bypass limits you and there is possible "dumping". -
Questions about Pre-OP Tests
mb20mom replied to FreeToBeMe's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I had an EKG last week for pre-op and it took longer to set it up than actually measure my heart beat. The nurse put a dozen electrodes all over me while I laid down. I did have to take off my bra. I think the test was one minute of heart activity. No xray required for my pre-op, just blood tests. -
Well my first question has been answered, 2 days I see! Was the pain bad? Was there a leak test? Did you heave? Do we wear underwear during surgery? Any catheter? Did they let hubby in the prep area before the surgery? Oh, aren't you so glad it's over??? Congratulations!
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Whoo Hoo you're on your way!! Great to hear from you and I hope you're feeling good and have a smooth recovery at home. :thumbup:
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4 days our and - BORED OUT MY MIND!!!
mb20mom replied to filodough's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I agree with Mini-Me. I am looking forward to my 2-week break from work and housework. I could watch crap on the Bravo channel for hours! -
I have less than 24 hours!!!!!!!!!!!!
mb20mom replied to Ready2BHealthy's topic in Tell Your Weight Loss Surgery Story
Hey Sleeve Sister! I bet you just got out of surgery and I'm thinking of you...hope it all goes well and you have a great recovery! Let us know how it went when you can. -
OMG that pre-op appt. was nothing. I think I was outta there in 15 minutes. And I took the whole day off for that (for the driving mostly). Tomorrow's IT for you, isn't it? You must be freaking out. I'm starting to really get nervous. But we can't really get any sympathy from anyone since we are asking for this surgery, huh? Good luck tomorrow. I will be thinking of you! Post when you can. I want to know everything.
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Protein Powder Survey - PLEASE READ
mb20mom replied to Behemoth845's topic in Protein, Vitamins, and Supplements
Well I was in the grocery store the other day just thinking that I'm surprised that they haven't come up with a bariatric section yet. WLS is so common now that having a source to go to for what we need would be ideal. As far as Protein goes, I recently have experienced the confusion of picking products for my upcoming surgery. I took Tiff's recommendation of ordering the sample pack of the Gold Standard brand so I could try their flavors. That's the one thing lacking in the protein market...smaller dang quantities! What's with the 5-lb tub? I can't think of any other product that I buy in such a large size. As far as the common consumer is concerned, the only difference between them all is the taste and consistency, so why would I buy such a huge quantity of something I might not like? I wanted to try the nectar brand, but couldn't bring myself to buy so much. They all need to offer samples!! Or a combo pack. I know that The Vitamin Shoppe carries the Gold Standard brand, but that sample box I ordered online is not available there, nor are many of the good flavors, so I will order mine online again. Ya know what would be handy? A survival kit for the first 2 weeks after WLS. Soup, protein, shaker bottles, 2oz, 4oz cups, Jello, smoothie recipes, etc... there is definitely a market for the bariatric industry right now. -
Protein for the rest of your life?
mb20mom replied to jenn20's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Oh yes there are a few on YouTube that I've been following. "Thinjourney" has an awesome before/after video: YouTube - thinjourney's Channel I would also recommend "WeightNoLonger", "faithkp" and"jrzygirlforlife". -
Funny you brought this up because I'm still on the other end of the spectrum by waiting until the day I can get my wedding ring back on! I've gained so much (married 18 years) that I finally had to take it off because it was so tight. It's one of my mini-goals that I look forward to.
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Recommendations for last day of gluttony
mb20mom replied to Bambi's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I did this the week after Christmas, tried to say goodbye to my favorites. I had to have Claim Jumper Black Tie Chicken Pasta and sliders from Chili's! It is definitely food like this that got me to this obese weight, so bad for you and full of fat and carbs. I was so sick of food by the end of that week that I was glad to get back to my 1500 calories a day gig. I only have to do 2 days of liquids for pre-op, and the doc said it was because I lost so much weight so far, so I didn't want to gain any by eating more. My surgery is 2 weeks from today, OMG! -
I've been MIA on here, but look what's happened!
mb20mom replied to TennJenn's topic in Weight Loss Surgery Success Stories
Wow wow wow! Post before/after pics so we can see!