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hey girl, I read what you told lady-t, about not being afraid of the surgery, and about getting all worked up about it. because im doing the same thing, getting all worked up because of what Im hearing some say. I needed to hear those words fromone. thanks much, you're the only one that I've heard say dont be afraid, and dont get worked up........THANKS!!

hey guys, If you have already had your surgery, was it hard for you to go to sleep the night before going to the hospital? I'm one week away from having mine and I cant even sleep now. I'm too anxious and nervous. It seems as if im waking up every 30 minutes thinking about it. Let me know how you dealt with it.

Hi, I was surfing old blogs and see that you had your surgery date the same time last year as I will be this up coming 8-4-09. its good to hear that you went back to work in a weeks time, because I am suppose to do the same if all goes well. reply if you can, Thanks!

thank you for the words of encouragement. Yes, I did belong to a support group, but I cancelled out of having surgery 2 or 3 times and when I finally made up my mind to do it, they were in the process of refunding my pre-op money. The Doctor Im seeing now also have a support group, but they only meet once monthly and not weekly. The process here is moving along so quickly that I've only met with the group once, and only 4 people there. The weekly support group was much larger but the people didnt talk to you at all. This smaller group is a lot more open,freindly,and we have even exchanged phone numbers. They are very helpful. And Yes again, I do want everyone here to be my support group...Thanks!

hi, I too had to go through cardiac test for a host of things. One thing you were so right about, and thats the fact the we have to find a way to lose this weight. My Doc has been telling me for years now to lose the weight. I have tried and tried with little success. Lets keep in touch. I will post pics soon. I will be banded on 8/04/09. Keep me in your prayers, I need it. Thanks!

Hi, I will be banded in 2 weeks and getting nervous. I really do want and need to do this, but I guess Im looking for all the support and encouragement that I can get. I will be posting pics soon.

hi there, my date is also on the 4th. I was immediatly approved too. I am also excited, but nervous and scared as well. I've been thinking of doing this for years and now the time is here. Let's keep in touch I will post pics soon. If not tonight, than by tomorrow

hi, you have so many responses that I started not to. But I had to let you know that I needed to see those pictures for inspiration to me. I'll be banded in 2 weeks and afraid of the whole thing, both before and after. thanks for posting

hi, did you go through with it? I have my surgery set for 8/04/09. I had stage freight and backed out several times before, but Im hangging in there this time. keep me in your prayers and i'll keep you in mine. good luck!

Hi, wells it good to hear that you didnt need pain meds. everyone is telling me that when they woke up, they said Lord, What have I done. my date is set for 2 weeks away, I hope I do as well as you. thanks for some positive words.

hey,I am. August 4th. When is yours?

you've done well. keep it up. hope to join you with my own journey in about 4 weeks. hopefully, you can give me some helpful tips.

you go girl! I will be banded in 3 weeks. Am I nervous? Yes. Am I ready to start losing? Yes. This is an inspiring comment. Thanks a lot. bigmama3974@yahoo.com you and any other banders feel free to email me and keep in touch.

Hi, I am so excited about posting on this forum. I am hoping to find a lot of friends here that are having the lap band procedure done. Please feel free to respond to this post. I am in the sc area. If you are having lap band, lets keep in touch!

Hi, I am being banded by Dr. Bour as well. I am already going to the pre-op meetings