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OMG! That totally sounds like me! Like I said I have not gotten the band, but I plan on getting it the first half of next year. I know in my life I have wanted nothing more than to lose weight, but continue to eat the junk instead of salad! Don't be too hard on him on this front, because many of us are in the same rut of eating crap when we know it is hurting us:sad: It sounds like he has some food issues and now that you are not "junking out" with him, he doesn't know how to handle it and is taking it out on you. Just talk to him when you are both calm and tell him how you feel! I'm sure he loves you and maybe does not realize what he is doing!

I think we will always be moms. My husband pulls the same crap t the store. I have not gotten the surgery yet, but he's got another thing coming if he thinks he's gonna by junk and I'm gonna eat it with him!! Maybe he is scared about the future you. I hear a lot about husbands that "act out" when their wives are getting surgery or lose a bunch of weight. They get scared that the new you won't want them and try to keep things status quo, sabotaging your efforts. I would talk to him when you are calmer and there is no poop!!