I had my surgery last Wednesday, 10/22. I remember feeling EXACTLY the same way many of you are feeling right now... the anticipation, the excitement, the nervousness. The surgery itself went VERY quickly, even though I had a hiatal hernia that needed to be repaired. The doctor gave me a picture of the hernia and then a picture of it repaired, then finally a third picture of the band around the stomach... with absolutely no restriction whatsoever - darn it! In any event, the important thing, as you know, is to take it easy but still get up and move around a little. We cannot stress enough the importance of walking. It doesn't have to be fast or long.... just move and you will feel better! Also, taking a shower on the second day (with your BACK to the Water, of course!) makes you feel a little more human. I have stuck very closely to the liquid restriction diet, but 1/4 cup every other hour just wasn't getting it done, so now I eat 1/2 cup about every 3-4 hours and that seems to work just fine as far as me not wanting to gnaw my own fingers!
I am not on any pain medicines now (because I have to go back to work tomorrow/Monday), and the pain on my "port side" (which also happens to be my left side, so I should ALWAYS remember port and starboard!) is pretty yuck. Applying direct pressure seems to help - very similar to when I had my hysterectomy last year. One other thing.... important to remember... if you have not had a bowel movement in 2 or 3 days, you might seriously think about taking a Dulcolax or something of the sort. It was mentioned VERY BRIEFLY in my discharge papers, but you had to look for it!
In any event, best wishes to you all and I pray that each and every one of you has a wonderful experience. We definitely have a special bond that is exclusive to us. How fortunate are we???