Hi Pat,
I am 59 and was banded on 9/4/08 in Mexico because my insurance would not cover the procedure and the cost was a major factor in my decision. I am doing great and have not had any problems. I have already lost 18 lbs. I am looking forward to my first fill in mid October.
I know exactly what you mean by wanting to be able to keep up with the family and can't. For me it was hard to walk and I would get short of breath. I think one of my most painful moments was when my grandson wanted me to ride the roller coaster with him and I could not get the safety belt buckled. Therefore, I had to get off the ride. Even though he said he was okay with it. I know it had to be embarrasing for him to hear the giggles of the people watching.
On my surgery date I weighed in at 227 and I am 5'2". I opted to go with the band because I felt it was a safer procedure. I try to think positively and keep telling myself that if it works for others then I know it can work for me.
Best of luck to you in what ever you decide. Remember every one is different and just because your friend hasn't had good results with her band does not mean you won't.
jahinokc :teeth_smile: