Well, I'm still moving forward! After more research and consultation with my surgeon, I've decided on a gastric bypass. He has a large bariatric practice and his results show that banding will not likely result in my losing the amount of weight I'd like. Another bypass benefit is getting rid of the diabetes.
So, I have a date the end of Sept for the procedure. I've been to the shrink and nutritionist, had the EKG and chest Xray, have a date for a gall bladder ultrasound and fasting labs. I also have a pre-op liver detox diet to start three weeks before surgery.
I've been reading the GBS forum and note that the vast majority of complications are the result of either non-compliance with restrictions/instructions or unawareness of such. My surgeon did talk a bit about some of his colleagues who simply do the procedure and abandon the patients. His practice has a comprehensive program using the team of select practitioners (pysch, nutrition) and support groups.
I have plenty of time to reflect as the date approaches and so far I have no trepidation.
Good luck on your journey!