hey! im in a similar situation to you, im 22 years old, and am in canada, so im a self-pay patient. so although i dont have to deal with insurance, its been quite a journey trying to get the ball rolling.. ive dealt with a family doctor who just doesnt listen, and ive been sent twice to consultations with doctors who dont deal with the lap band.. anyways to make a long story short, after 10 months of trying for this im currently waiting on my appointment with the anethstesiologist, and then if all goes well i'll get a date! i think its tough for younger people to go through the process of being banded.. because i think we are often discredited based on our age. I know for me, ive been dieting since i was 8 years old.. and i fear for my future. even at 22 i can honestly say this is not a vanity thing, i want one day to be able to have children, and my fertility is compromised with PCOS, and im borderline diabetic. i need to get this under control and i need to do it now. just know that you are not alone, and the waiting is so hard, but it will happen for us if we dont give up.
good luck on your journey!