Krimsonbutterflies

What kind of meals are you people preparing and freezing in advance? I need ideas. Not that it matters, I'm getting the sleeve.

I'm also having surgery soon and this major. This entire site is mostly full of encouragement, Greenteal said, think positive about your future and you should. Generate positive energy and thoughts. Of course its not unusual to be nervous, consult with your medical team about what your fears are and talk to your support system and come back here. Pray & meditate.

What is your medical team advising you to do?

They won't be big girl panties for much longer, lol.

This is what this journey is about, shedding the dead weight. Being accountable for self and finally working on self preservation. This journey to health is about so much more than weight, its the other things that are weighing us down and hindering our happiness. Unhappy relationships, be it professional, personal, with material, food, self, attachments, substances, health or mental issues, or whatever your varying factors are, check what applies...the weight provides shelter from reality. I have my fears, I have things to contend with that I will deal with when the time comes...but the most important person and thing that I've had to deal with is myself and it hasn't always been pretty on this journey, but so very worth it. I'm not backing down, changing my mind, giving in to anxiety, stressing out or mind tripping myself out of this. I don't know what is going to happen or what to expect or than happiness and blessings, because that is what I believe. I know this is going to be hard, being obese is hard. Cracking knees and all of these crazy health issues are hard, so I'm choosing a hard that leads to better health. I'm going to use BadWolfGirl's quote from her therapist because I'm a secret sleever. My people who know what this procedure is for are very few, the other's believe it is for pre-existing conditions. I know people are going to talk about us either way, so get your popcorn sit down and enjoy the show ??????!!!! Can we get a standing ovation for a job well done and a shot of Whiskey, for when I heal....lol

Rene50, as long as your husband is in FULL SUPPORT of your plan, what else do you need. Bonnie and Clyde...

The beauty in this is that you don't owe anyone an explanation. Therefore if you do or don't have any preexisting health conditions isn't dialogue that you should have to go into with anyone. This type of badgering will definitely get you thar middle finger BadWolfGirl mentioned. You should be free to take a sabbatical during your trip and go have your surgery in peace, the only person who needs to know are the ones who've been entrusted with your care. I'm very clear about my boundaries being respected and my energy not being violated with negativity or unsolicited advice. Rene50 stay your course and follow your heart...?

Pre-op the chocolate sugar free pudding has been my friend. I don't particularly care for chocolate items, but I enjoy this. The vanilla is gross. I hope my new stomach continues to enjoy sugar free pudding.

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I instantly started singing this to the Melody in my head as I read along. Lmaooooo...

Did your surgeon provide an abdominal binder?

Going to borrow the confetti for after my surgery, the January thread needs to celebrate.

I like this thread, I'm going to be able to have a pity post of my own post op life soon. I shall return, stay tuned....

On a serious note: sugar free Popsicles count as 2 oz. of water for our daily goals. 1 popsicle = 2 ozs. of water Hydration is key

Jello & popsicles the new favorite food group, I'm going to pick up a couple packs to keep my inventory well stocked.

I was waiting for you to post, how'd it go? I was there forever as you saw, but productive. This is really happening and you before me. You'll be home before I become a banana, lol. No, seriously I'm proud of this entire January class of 2020, you guys are AMAZING PEOPLE!!!!

Has the shedding slowed down?

I went to the long awaited pre-op appointment today at Kaiser. I was there for 3.5 hours and I will have to go back on Monday to complete the disability papers. Appointment recap: I was weighed , 251.4 , BP 118/78 pulse 77. I was given a folder with the documents detailing my pre and post op dietary guidelines. 1 day liquid diet prior to surgery ( I put myself on the liquid diet to get the excess weight off gained from meds and etc.,I did it!!!) , 3 days clear liquids immediately post op, 14 days full liquid diet and I have to get my folder to properly explain the rest. I just remembered that 2/15/20 is my last day of the full liquid diet. I will go into the food more on another post. We went into vitamins and pain management, hydration, walking, miralax and prilosec. My hospital is providing an abdominal binder, which I thought was nice and saved me a few $$$. Went to give the lab an offering of my blood per usual , swung by admissions, spoke with the dietitian, the surgeon, I was asked to wear a light nail polish color if were to keep my nails, I was advised to wear something loose to the hospital and most people wear the same outfit home and choose slippers. Ohhhh, a hard one for me no chapstick!!!! I check in at 8:15 AM & surgery is at 10:19 AM on 1/31/20, with checkout being the next day on 2/1/20. I will have a private room and someone can stay there with me if I would like.

Great to hear that you all had moderate to mild success. I wanted to love it, unfortunately it made me very sick and I had to discontinue using it.

I'm excited too Rene50!!!!

Hang in there and trust the process, it gets better. A slow loser is better than not losing, right?

The best of luck to you Mustang.

Omg, I'm laughing at you because are we the same person split into 2 people. I'm going to my pre-op today and after my appointment today I'm going to get my pedicure and I get my hair braided tomorrow in preparation for surgery on the 31st. I like to look nice. I have my personal standards.

Awwww, I'm sorry for the heavy emotions and feelings you are experiencing. That was a real team player of you to join him for dinner, classy move. Hopefully you will get a good night's rest and some of the discomfort will start to subside. How long are you going to be at the hotel? Try to continue sipping and walking, passing the gas from your body and sipping and walking and repeat ?. Thank you for checking in with us, post whenever you feel like it and share your journey with us. Congratulations graduate, you are doing well. The hard part is almost over, next week will be easier to all of you feeling pain. It may still be painful, but not day one pain.

I learn so much on here everyday. I didn't know that we could block/ignore others but, good to know if really needed. I truly value and appreciate all of our differing opinions and views on BP, this is what makes us individuals. I'm opening my mind to other's cultural views and approaches to how we all choose to remedy obesity with this tool being the common denominator amongst us as humans. I don't offend easily, nor do I intend to give negative energy and contribute hate to anything in life. I'm thankful for your healing and for you taking whatever time you want to invest back into the universe to help heal us... I appreciate each and everyone of you and all of our uniqueness that we bring...