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I would much rather have it all done at once and only have one hard recovery time than have multiple surgeries and multiple hard recovery times. I do wonder though if having it all done at once means less total work. ie. legs are still giggly, belly isn't as fat, things like that. Amy

Congratz! I still will have to use them, no matter how small I get. I am always dragging two kids with me, and we all fit easier in a handicap stall. Amy

I talked to my doctor about the "munchies" between 7pm (when we eat dinner) and around midnight (when we finally go to bed). He told me to eat something that is very uickly digested, that is high in protien, and Jello is the best food for this. If you buy the premade jello cups you can really watch portion control, the sugar free fat free cups are 10 calories each and have no carbs. I can have one of those if the craving or hunger gets really too bad, then I make sure that I have a glass of Water each night right before bed to flush my system. I have heard this is really good to do when you have the band, so that there is no undigested food left sitting in your pouch before laying down. Amy

How is your Water intake? My joints get really bad when I am dehydrated, and holding water, which also causes me to gain 4 or 5 pounds. Increase your water and flush out the bloating you might be experiencing. You might find that the liquid helps your joints too. Amy

OMG I went to Neiman's over the weekend. I found a pair of size 2 Dolce and Gabana jeans for 2980.00!!! DH said if I get to a size 2 he'll buy them for me LOL Amy

Breakfast is usually a yogurt (yoplait lite about 100 cals), then I usually have fruit for a snack sometime before lunch (apple, or some florida citrus, or a banana), lunch is usually a half a sandwich and a bowl of Soup (sandwich is lean meat, mustard, and lettuce, or simple a tomato sandwich and soup is one of the lean Soups usually around 100 cals), and another snack of fruit, then dinner is a frozen michelinas lean meal (they range around 120 to 300 cals) and fat free sugar free pudding or Jello for dessert. I only drink Water for liquids. That is a typical day for me. I stay in a range of about 800 to 1000 cals a day. It is tough, but if i focus on it I can do it well. Amy

Call the local bar association on him. file a complaint. either he will do something, or you will get your money back. Amy

Oh that is awesome!!! I hope that your bandiversary sees you in that dress!!

I couldn't think of anything. So I went and looked. That was a really bad idea. You know how the meat and cheese drawer covers the lower shelf? Well there was a plate, with something on it, covered by celophane. I don't know what it was. It refused to come off the plate. Everything went into the trash. It is a plate from a set we no longer use. I am so afraid of what it might have been. Other than that, my fridge is pretty empty. I go grocery shopping once a week, and only keep the food we will eat in that week in there. It is a new tactic. That way I won't eat what isn't on my diet, because I wouldn't be able to have anything to eat at the end of the week. Amy

Only thing I have been able to buy at lane bryant for the last few years is bras and panties. I did, on a whim, go in about a year and a half ago and find a really sexy nightgown (red satin, plunging neckline, floor length skirt) that fits wonderfully, but it will be so nice when i can go there to buy jeans. I am wondering how long it will be before I buy a skirt again. That is a big one for me. Skirts are so NOT on my list at the moment. So it will be really nice to be able to buy cute clothes. Amy

I heard a rumor from a friend who is related to one of anna nicole's chefs that she had the band. and she had lots of complications from it too because she refused to follow the rules when it came to eating, but eventually it made her so sick she started following the rules. she left the country to have it, and she has actually been "altered" in the head less due to less drinking and less pill popping. but it has really helped her back pain losing all that weight. And she did use trimspa after the surgery. It helped raise her resting metabolic rate, because she refuses to work out. she says she likes the soft look, and doesn't want muscles. Amy

LOL I am a big wuss when it comes to scars. But even if I just wear this in the presence of my close family or friends, it will be well worth it. Hek, even just being able to put it on alone in the bathroom will make me do a little wiggle dance. LOL Amy

I am going to go for the full monty. I have a BADLY sagging belly. I forget what it is called, but I don't see anyway that is going to absorb back the way it is supposed to. And my butt is HUGE so I am sure there will need to be lifted. My legs aren't too bad in the lower half, but my thighs will prolly need to be lifted when the tummy and butt is. And my arms will need to be done I am sure, but they aren't as bad as the tummy. I had a breast reduction about 9 years ago, and they have lost some of their perkiness after the kids were born, so I will prolly have them lifted, and maybe made slightly bigger. Depends on how much volume I lose. My face should be fine. No need for a chin lift I don't think. Amy

The funniest thing my DH said to me the day I scheduled my surgery and made it all definite... "It makes me want you more now because I know I am never going to make love to you, the way you are now, again. It is like I am going to get a whole new wife." This took me a bit of time to digest, and in his weird male way (sorry guys) it was touching. LOL He has even suggested renewing our vows after I reach goal. Amy

I have United Healthcare, and they are really pushing companies to put in the written bariatric surgery exclusion. This is something new, and unfortunately something I am being blocked by. I have to self pay for my surgery. Hopefully they will not have the written exclusion for my mom, because it would be hard for her to save up that cash. Amy

Anyone out there with before and after photos with reconstructive surgery after WLS? I would love to see the "final product"! And those who have decided they are good without the surgery, show off those tummies!! I am concerned about how much sagging skin I will be left with and want to see how well you all "shrunk" back to you final sizes. Amy

Congratz!! That sucks they didn't pay for the surgery initially. My mom wantws the surgery done and she has pacificare. Amy

Not banded yet, but I have lost almost 40 pounds on my own, and YES! DH is very happy. Plus after two kids, my drive was totally gone, but not lately! It is like we are newlyweds again!! LOL Can't wait to see what nooky is like at 100 pounds lighter! Amy

How much of all this cost is offset by the cost of food we are NOT eating! After the band I am going to put away the amount of money i save on food and put it towards clothes!! Amy

Congradulations!! This weekend I got into a size 26 jeans. They were tight as hell and I didn't wear them all day, but the freaks zipped up!! Amy

I actually checked with my insurance comapny for a similar situation. Only I was checking for Tubal Ligation. My insurance will cover that surgery in full. But if I have the lap band put in at the same time, they will cover NONE of it. I have United Healthcare and there is a written exclusion of any bariatric weight loss surgery. So that nails the coffin shut on insurance covering any of my WLS. Amy

Another way to look at calories vs. weight loss is there are 3500 calories in one pound of fat. If you burn an extra 500 calories a day or reduce your diet by 500 calories a day, you can easily and consistantly lose one pound a week. At least that is what my nutritionist has told me. For 2 pounds a week you can do both. More than that can sometimes be muscle burning, unless you are very obese, then the weight will come off quicker. Learning what your resting metabloic rate (RMR) can also be helpful to you. Find that and you can make the calculations for how much to eat and how much to work out each day. I have used this formula for the last 4 or 5 months, and have been losing. I need the band because I always gain weight back when I get lazy again. But I have lost about 40 pounds so far with these two formulas. Amy

Kirstie Alley (sp?) i don't think had the surgery, but keep in mind, they do not ever show what the actual weight lost is. It is a marketing thing. They are trying to bring in the folks that have 20 or 30 pounds to lose. Not the 100's. If they show that she has lost 80 or 90 or 100 pounds on their system, those with 20 or 30 will think "well at least I don't have that much to lose. Their program is probably too strong for me. I'll just eat more apples." It is a bit of a joke in the weight loss industry. Usually you can at leasst double the number posted as the actual weight lost. Oprah I just can't tell though. I don't think she has had the surgery, because she does fluctuate so much, and because she has a chef and personal trainer employed. But I don't think she is against it for anyone else. I have seen her and Dr. phil praise people who have reached a healthy life through the WLSs and Dr. phil even had a woman on last week who he is buying all of her plastic surgery for. Amy

I keep imagining when it is time to try it on, and finding that it is too big. It really is great motivation. I even made sure it was a style that will cover scars if I have a lower body lift afterwards.

Who banded you in Mexico? And because of this complication, will they put in a new band for you so you can have one with a port? Amy