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Doesn't believe in counselling? Lol I know people like that. It wouldn't be getting thin that would make me leave someone like that. It's the lack of consideration for your feelings and if getting counseling will help your marriage and he can't even do that what is he prepared to do for you ? Good luck. Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

You look like a new man ! Weldone Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

I eat them see how you feel Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

Stop worrying prematurely your wasting your energy. Your body is used to eating solid food then suddenly shocked into not eating. People will keep repeating it's different when your on dense protein. Listen to people. Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

Your very welcome. I can't see the reason why anyone would make such a post to bring people down .. she is obviously aware those who make those minor mistakes would read this comment and we all know the lows we can have after surgery .. no one wants to be laughed at. You were kind in your comment and your right the best thing is to just let them talk to themselves because some people you just can't get through to Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

She just said no one on here has a disability they are just lazy. This is below the belt. And absolutely disgusting. I can't believe what is acceptable here. There are many of us here with disbalities. We are not lazy. That is a discriminate comment.Whatever the word is! This is a derogatory reference towards a group. I.e disabled. Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

No one on here has a disability they are just lazy ? Because one person said they didn't ? I have never come across someone so ignorant in my life. Now I know for sure your joking. Wow.. I think your the troll because no one can make such a stupid comment. I'm not even coming back to read your replies. So I will let you reply to yourself. That's just too far. I know many people on here with disabilities that can influence how they type. And your comment is just disrespectful. Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

Your not the only one who felt that way though so it's not your prospective out of wack. I read it the same. English is not alot of people's first language either. We are all doing what we can. Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

No ones mad. It's more the sort of eye rolling when a drunk is rude at the bar. No ones angry . People just find the petty Ness pathetic. And just not funny. Don't flatter yourself that people are so in invested that they are mad lol. Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

She isn't making you sound anyway . That's actually how your coming across. Take it as feedback. Your delivery needs working on. Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

I died. That's so funny Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

"who you loose in their daily life " I can't even translate what you are saying. Lol. And actually no I don't use the word lose. It bothered you that much ? You should seek some support. You posted looking all high and mighty you were not posting to educate kindly you posted to mock. That is the difference. People called you out on it and your response was just to say people were attacking you and are trolls. It is an embarrassing read. I would accept that this post wasn't a 'joke' neither was it funny. This is a support group. Does it really matter with all the things going on in this world how someone spells a word. Put it into prospective . I am off this negative post now. As you said you don't post much.. but you chose to post something not so supportive. Good for you. Hope you got what you wanted to achieve. Everyone else is the one with the problem.. you don't realise we are all strangers so we can't all be wrong feeling this post was really uncalled for and mean. Were the ones with the problem because we didn't find your post funny .. I'd take a breath and reflect before responding insulting people. Bye. Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

You always see me like.. "are you going to tell us what your eating ? Or should we guess " lol Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

What are you eating during the day Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

Hi similar starting weight! 244 cw 186 4 months post Can you swap to a sweetner? May not make any difference but I use '0cal sweeteners' occasionally. If you eat 3 ounce dense protein like steak. Do you still feel hungry 30 mins later? Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

No drain Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

My point is. If she is eating nothing. How can we help her . As she can't eat any less if that is all she is eating. It's a valid question. Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

Who's being rude ? I'm telling the facts unless you have a medical problem you can't gain 20lbs eating 500 or so calories I am being supportive by speaking the truth. She should see her doctor. Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

Hmm that seems like everything. I also take calcium. I have noticed I have been Ill more I don't know if it's the eating less food making us more vulnerable . Keep hand sanitizer around and make sure if you have little kids like I do they are washing their hands when they come in from school and when they sneeze etc. Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

I'm so glad you understood my comment was coming from a good place I read it back and it was quite blunt. But I meant nothing bad by it. And I just read you have a 19 month old !! Aww that's so amazing . What ever you decide to do. Change your eating now throw away and give away the junk food and start living a healthier lifestyle for your self I would never push or say someone should or shouldn't do anything I just know from my prespective my kids are telling me wow mum you look amazing mum your tummy is getting so small and I'm able to do more stuff with them it's amazing for me. Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

Hi. I didn't exercise one bit. But many people do. I dont make recipes to be honest with you . And I wouldn't worry about that yet as you will have to try little bits of things to see what you can tolerate for your tummy aswell as your changing taste buds. I eat simple Protein. Fish meatballs steak eggs occasionally bacon I pair it with a veg Spinach. Cucumber . Lettuce tomatoes And sometimes dairy Like cheese I ate cottage cheese alot at first now it makes me feel sick. I can't seem to enjoy yogurt either. In terms of carbs my plan isn't low carb so can't quite help you there but I didn't have mash potatoes till a few months post. You can make colliflouwer mash as you suggested. Any other questions? Im happy to help though I only have four months experience lol I remember being so nervous. But I'm so glad I did it. Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

No ones upset ? Who's upset the questions are just to try and help. I don't think he meant 6 ounces this early I would stick to 4 ounces. And try not to worry because your still healing so you may not recognize your new full feeling. I don't eat till I'm full . Sorry for assuming you are a male I thought your name was leo my apologies. Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

I'm the same I don't eat breakfast my tummy hates me if I do . Your lunch. No wonder your hungry Soon after that's not lunch lol a 3 ounce steak will have you going longer than a protein bar. The deli turkey is good but is it like thin slices ..your eating sounds really good but do you have vegs at all to bulk out a meal ? I would say it's all about training your tummy so don't allow your self to eat at night when those urges come drink your water or even hot tea will help it helps me if I'm hungry but not ready to eat my body thinks it's soup. Your still early too I think my hunger reduced Bout 3 months suddenly I wasn't hungry so you still have time ! Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

Fluffy she doesn't even understand what your saying.. Which is shocking to me as she's got to the point of high intelligence were she can post to make fun of people's spelling on here. Then shout out she's being attacked trolled lol. Sounds like attention seeking behavior... Perhaps I shouldn't feed into it. Lol Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app

Can I be your best friend ? [emoji23]. You write so well!! I write this clever in my mind sometimes. Sent from my Vivo 5R using BariatricPal mobile app