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You look amazing. That dress fits you soo well. You go girl!!

I am lactose intolerant and most protein shakes makes my tummy hurt. I am drinking premier protein and it has milk protein. That maybe the issue I am having.

Thanks. I thought it was just me. I was starting to get nervous.

Maybe he is upset at the progress that you are making and the confidence that you are gaining and is starting to worry about where he fits in all of this. Also he should either try to get the sleeve to join you or he can try to do it himself. Either way, he is never going to understand you until he is actively doing his part in getting healthy. Counseling would be a great option but not everyone can afford it. If you both are a part of a church, the pastor provides counseling as well (it is more religious and spiritual but can help). As of now my Boyfriends jokingly calls me annoying because every thing is about this surgery. He understands that my hormones will be different and that my attitude will change from time to time. The lovely thing is that we are both Geminis and Geminis are known for the mood swings. We understand each other.

Yogurt, can count but it needs to be sugar and fat free or low fat. Since I am lactose intolerant, I cannot have yogurt, however this is my following regime: Breakfast: Protein Shake Snack: 1 Cup of Broth Lunch: Protein Shake Snack: Sugar Free Popsicle Dinner: Protein Shake Snack: Sugar Free Jello I am allowed cucumbers and non starchy vegetables. So every other day I will have cucumber. Your protein shakes are your meals. The yogurts, jello and popsicles are considered your snacks. In between that time is a ton of water. It takes me about 15 minutes to drink my shake which I do not mind.

I am sure that this is TMI but I just have to ask: While you guys were on your liquid diet, did you have the runs? The reason why I am asking is because every 2 hours I am heading to the bathroom with liquid results. I am just wondering if this is normal. Again I do apologize if this is gross, I just want to know, what are some things you did to relieve this issue without breaking your diet. Thanks,

I am sure that this is TMI but I just have to ask: While you guys were on your liquid diet, did you have the runs? The reason why I am asking is because every 2 hours I am heading to the bathroom with liquid results. I am just wondering if this is normal. Again I do apologize if this is gross, I just want to know, what are some things you did to relieve this issue without breaking your diet. Thanks,

I am sure that this is TMI but I just have to ask: While you guys were on your liquid diet, did you have the runs? The reason why I am asking is because every 2 hours I am heading to the bathroom with liquid results. I am just wondering if this is normal. Again I do apologize if this is gross, I just want to know, what are some things you did to relieve this issue without breaking your diet. Thanks,

I do not think that anyone is the poster child for WLS. I tend to not mind talking to people about it because I feel like just letting people know my story and where I am heading, will allow them to truly understand my decision. I also do not care what people think about it as well. When they start saying it is an easy way out, I hit them with this: "Oh, so having to learn how to eat protein first, then vegetables and then carbs sound easy. Better yet, being pain and having to heal your body sounds easy. Changing your mindset on how you view food sounds easy. Making mistakes of eating something too spicy, too sweet or just does not agree and having dumping syndrome sound easy? You would not tell a drug addict that it is easy to stop using, yet you will tell me that it is easy to take this path?" Sorry, sometimes I go hardcore. This is a godsend to people like us that have tried everything in our power. From the failed fad diets to the large sums of money spent, this is the last option. I believe that you can choose who you want to inspire and who you don't. To me, not everyone needs to know your business and whats going on in your life. I use this forum mostly, as people will be able to understand me more. I could just be rambling at this point as well.

I choose the sleeve because I felt like it was the better option for me. Both are great and with the Bypass, you will lose way more weight on average. Due to my surgeon saying that I would not be good candidate for Bypass, we went with the sleeve. I

You should have some test done. It could also be stress as well. I mean some of us just cannot seem to get a break in the weight loss department, no matter how hard we try.

You are mostly stressed out which will only keep the weight on. I am on day 4 of my liquid diet and honestly, I feel a lot better. I will weigh in tomorrow to see how much I have lost. However, I am a supervisor in a fast pace, stressful job. I have put on my stress shades (meaning, I do not let anything get me overwhelmed). I do that because stress drove me to eat. I have also moved to the early morning shift in which I am going to bed early and waking up early. This is allowing me to get some sleep. I have been drinking tons of water as well which keeps me busy with the bathroom lol.

I do not have Health Choice but I have United Healthcare. Each plan and state requirement is different. It is best that you contact them and ask a representative. The reason why I suggest this, is because each is different. Someone can live in Chicago with United Healthcare Plan A and not be required to 6 months of dieting, while someone could live in New York with Plan A and be required to diet for 6 months.

My surgery is 3/26 and I am already on my pre-op diet. It will get easier as time goes and I am sure that you will succeed. Positive thoughts brings postive results. Know and believe you can and you will.

Look at you!! ?Steps towards your overal happiness. I am proud.

Good luck!!! You will go great!!

For me, it was pretty much easy. He asked the following questions: 1) Relationship with food 2) support system 3) Any history of depression. 4) any other mental illnesses Mines was pretty laid back as we talked a lot about myself and my life. I was very outgoing and open with him. I think it depends on the Pyschologist as well. Some have stated that the person they have spoken with is very judgemental and cold. It should not be bad though.

I started my liquid diet on Sunday and I broke that same day. I have the option of cucumbers and those are the highlight of my day. I am not missing food now but when someone is eating, I remove myself from them. If a commercial comes on, I just look at my phone and drink water. Have you tried sugar free popsicles? I have some and they aren't that bad.

Please do not be embarrassed. No one is going to judge you. I would say speak with your physician, they would be able to tell you if your medication will need to change. Good luck on this journey!!!?

My surgeon told me the same thing, I have horrible GERD now and he said it may get worst. He also said that you never know because everyone is different.

I have not had my surgery as of yet but if it is anything like my ankle, I should be fine. I am returning back to work after 7 days for now. If I need the additional time, my job is aware and have the FML forms ready just in case. I do not think I will need to use them as I got board after the first 4 days. I will keep you posted as my Surgery is March 26th.

I would tell her to not use food as her best friend when she got to college. I would tell her that this decision will be the hardest thing she would ever have to do but she will do it and be proud. I would inform her that she was almost going to end up like her dad (which she feared more than anything). I would hug her and say don't lose your love for adventure and the outdoors because it will keep you healthy and one day you will miss it. And most importantly, I would tell her that she is an awesome kid and will be an even more awesome adult. That people would look up to her and think she is brave because of the surgery she is getting. (But hope that would fix the habits before she would need it). I could go on for days about what I would tell my 16 year old self.

I am looking forward to Virginia Beach and a much needed vacation.

Good luck to you as well. I was a little agitated by the end of the day.