NeedaBreak4Me

I think my best experience was this girl at uni who would constantly make comments about my weight... back then i was really big and had no self esteem so i wouldn't say anything because I didn't want to be left out of the group.
I finished uni and didnt keep in contact with her... i had my band and lost all my weight... i ended up bumping into her and she didn't recognise me!
The icing on the cake was she had GAINED so much weight she was literally my initial size!!!
That was the most gratifying situations ive encountered to date. .. i normally wouldn't be satisfied with someone's misfortune. ... but in this instance i was like.... karma is a b!tch and so was she lol

Hahaha its so annoying... now that its been a few hours since it has happened i have thought of like 50 comebacks to say to him.. dont you just hate that!!
Well... to make my day better... a lady that i see on the train home from work actually came up to me and said that i am looking good.. so that made me feel a little better...
I know ive only lost a small amount of weight but it shows fairly quickly on me.. so yay me...

Yes true.... i should have said.... maybe you should take a page from my book and eat a little.... you are too thin!!! Seriously a size 0 would squash this dude lol
Funny how its okay to make fun of overweight people but not thin people.

hair - not much
Young - 52
Dumbass - definitely
Now that ive calmed down a little... its actually sad.. that we as a society are so focused on size.... yes i am chubby... but for a fatty... i can outrun any of my little tiny friends at the gym... im active and confident... thankfully... so to be judged is kinda annoying

Oh wow... some people have no filter.. they seem to forget that just because we are overweight that they do not need to sensor themselves... they forget that there is a normal sensitive person who has feelings.

Yes.. completely normal... try to sip it slower... and take smaller sips, let it rest in your mouth and slowly swallow.... this should help ease the trapped air..

Wow.... you belong in the same category as the dude i made the post about.
Calling us childish and irrational?? Thats so supportive of you..
This is posted in the "rants and raves" section for exactly that purpose... to rant.
Please do not tell me how to post or what to say.. as irrational as they may seem to you.
I am entitled to let of some steam, in whichever manner i deem appropriate.

OOOoooooh i hate that. Its like ..wow... what did you think of me before... oh wait... you just told me what you actually thought... grrrrrr
But.. i guess its a good thing for us in the future... we will be healthy, thin and fabulous... with empathy and we will know how to not hurt people..
There is a girl at work who is a big girl.. ... like twice the size of me now... she is only 20 years old... she eats the worst food ever.. in one week she would eat the amount of crappy food that i would eat in a year! She is that bad!
Her stomach apron is down to her knees and sits around a metre away from her desk because of it.
I feel like i should go up to her as a fellow fatty and say something... but i know its not my place.. it breaks my heart because she is so young and a really nice person and she is literally eating herself to death.
Its times like this i wish i didn't have to censor myself.

Hahaha its so annoying... now that its been a few hours since it has happened i have thought of like 50 comebacks to say to him.. dont you just hate that!!
Well... to make my day better... a lady that i see on the train home from work actually came up to me and said that i am looking good.. so that made me feel a little better...
I know ive only lost a small amount of weight but it shows fairly quickly on me.. so yay me...

I know.. but i was completely dumbfounded i didn't know what to say... its been a while since anyone has actually called me fat...

Wow.... you belong in the same category as the dude i made the post about.
Calling us childish and irrational?? Thats so supportive of you..
This is posted in the "rants and raves" section for exactly that purpose... to rant.
Please do not tell me how to post or what to say.. as irrational as they may seem to you.
I am entitled to let of some steam, in whichever manner i deem appropriate.

Are you taking what we say as literal?

Me too... like i said in an earlier post.... i came up with so many comebacks AFTER all was said and done....
Now i am just hoping he says something again so i can use some of them... no doubt if he does... my mind will go blank again lol

Yes i did.... and i also had furry teeth that no matter how much i brush.. wouldn't get them smooth... it all resolved itself once i was on soft foods

Actually thats a tactful way of pointing out rudeness.... I just might use that one....
I usually am gobsmacked and say nothing or i fly off the handle.. lol
No medium for me... i am one for extremes lol....
Even with my weight... im either really fat or really skinny hahahaha
I either eat the whole bag or dont have any at all.
All or nothing... i really should learn how to control that lol probably what got me here initially lol

Actually thats a tactful way of pointing out rudeness.... I just might use that one....
I usually am gobsmacked and say nothing or i fly off the handle.. lol
No medium for me... i am one for extremes lol....
Even with my weight... im either really fat or really skinny hahahaha
I either eat the whole bag or dont have any at all.
All or nothing... i really should learn how to control that lol probably what got me here initially lol

To all the people in post op... what have you learned about your sleeve....

- i have learned (tonight)... don't let yourself get too hungry.. cause you will eat too fast and puke!

- i have learned that you do feel actual hunger

- i have learned that stalls do break

- i have learned that i really have more willpower than i thought


Now over to you.... what have you learned?

I have learned that you need to be kind to your body whist its healing
I have learned that i am overly critical of my body
I have learned that obsessing over my weight is not going to you lose weight any faster

To all the people in post op... what have you learned about your sleeve....

- i have learned (tonight)... don't let yourself get too hungry.. cause you will eat too fast and puke!

- i have learned that you do feel actual hunger

- i have learned that stalls do break

- i have learned that i really have more willpower than i thought


Now over to you.... what have you learned?

To all the people in post op... what have you learned about your sleeve....

- i have learned (tonight)... don't let yourself get too hungry.. cause you will eat too fast and puke!

- i have learned that you do feel actual hunger

- i have learned that stalls do break

- i have learned that i really have more willpower than i thought


Now over to you.... what have you learned?

I have learned that you need to be kind to your body whist its healing
I have learned that i am overly critical of my body
I have learned that obsessing over my weight is not going to you lose weight any faster

I have learned that you need to be kind to your body whist its healing
I have learned that i am overly critical of my body
I have learned that obsessing over my weight is not going to you lose weight any faster

To all the people in post op... what have you learned about your sleeve....

- i have learned (tonight)... don't let yourself get too hungry.. cause you will eat too fast and puke!

- i have learned that you do feel actual hunger

- i have learned that stalls do break

- i have learned that i really have more willpower than i thought


Now over to you.... what have you learned?

I think my best experience was this girl at uni who would constantly make comments about my weight... back then i was really big and had no self esteem so i wouldn't say anything because I didn't want to be left out of the group.
I finished uni and didnt keep in contact with her... i had my band and lost all my weight... i ended up bumping into her and she didn't recognise me!
The icing on the cake was she had GAINED so much weight she was literally my initial size!!!
That was the most gratifying situations ive encountered to date. .. i normally wouldn't be satisfied with someone's misfortune. ... but in this instance i was like.... karma is a b!tch and so was she lol

Wow.... you belong in the same category as the dude i made the post about.
Calling us childish and irrational?? Thats so supportive of you..
This is posted in the "rants and raves" section for exactly that purpose... to rant.
Please do not tell me how to post or what to say.. as irrational as they may seem to you.
I am entitled to let of some steam, in whichever manner i deem appropriate.