Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

lovenessa

Gastric Bypass Patients
  • Content Count

    22
  • Joined

  • Last visited


Reputation Activity

  1. Like
    lovenessa reacted to Sajijoma in has anyone found a DR or program you don't have to lose a ton of preweight (newenglad, MA, NH)   
    Here's my two cents. You may think the classes sound dumb or stupid and a waste of time, but even if you look stuff up online, a lot of it contradicts itself and is often in the vein of rumor or "I had a friend who did _____" you need to take the classes to heart and commit them to memory for long term success. Most of my classes weren't about how to eat healthy at that moment, but about how to survive the changes I was about to undergo. Let me tell ya, those classes really made a difference immediately post op when I would feel like I had morning sickness or couldn't tolerate my Protein Shakes or when the desire to just lick food to taste something showed up. I didn't walk out after surgery confused about what was going on, the various stages of regret, funky tastes/smells, desire to chew to name a few, that I would experience because I learned all about those things in my classes. I learned what to do at each stage post op and how to go about it the right way and how I didn't need food funerals because after I reached my goal, many of those things I was "giving up" would be able to have a new place in my life again. There are those who choose not to follow those rules and honestly those people don't succeed. Going in with the mind frame that the classes are stupid and you don't want to have to lose any percentage of weight beforehand is the wrong idea at looking at it and is why you are getting such a negative response. Let me tell you a short story. There was a guy in one of my NUT's classes who had surgery and on his first day out of the hospital tried to blend and eat a taco! He nearly died! The hard shell fragments he "blended" got stuck in his suture line and he ended up in the hospital for emergency surgery to save his life. He also didn't believe our NUT about dumping syndrome and called it BS and tried to eat a king size snickers bar a few months later. It's that kind of behavior everyone fears when someone comes on saying 'hey how can I avoid the stupid classes and not have to lose weight to have surgery.' It sounds like you have no idea what you are doing and aren't at all prepared for what you really need to do to be prepared to be successful. If you think the classes and information are BS, save yourself the money and just don't go down this path, because you need to be able to trust and follow your NUT and surgeon's instructions to the letter especially in those first days, but for the whole long term process. No surgery will do the work for you. You have to show up every day and work hard. The surgery is just a tool to help. It won't do the work for you and you will only get out of it what you put into it and since it sounds like you aren't willing to put the effort in to change and do your best going in, it really sounds like it will be a waste of time until you do reach that point.
  2. Like
    lovenessa got a reaction from The Candidate in I've been approved!   
    @@wannaBthinsoon thank you so much. I'm truly excited to embark on this journey. I cannot wait to feel the way you do!

    @ thank you so much!
  3. Like
    lovenessa got a reaction from momofsparky in I've been approved!   
    thank you @@momofsparky That is such wonderful news! Congratulations darling!
  4. Like
    lovenessa got a reaction from Klolojadie in Surgery date set!   
    Hello Everyone,
    I spoke to my surgical coordinator yesterday and my surgery is set for Monday, December 7th. Looks like I'll be celebrating the night before at my sister in laws bridal shower with the liquid diet
  5. Like
    lovenessa got a reaction from Klolojadie in Surgery date set!   
    Hello Everyone,
    I spoke to my surgical coordinator yesterday and my surgery is set for Monday, December 7th. Looks like I'll be celebrating the night before at my sister in laws bridal shower with the liquid diet
  6. Like
    lovenessa got a reaction from Cervidae in Tomorrow I find out if I'm approved!   
    @@RNYDawn thank you so much for thinking of me. I got approved (:
  7. Like
    lovenessa got a reaction from Cervidae in Tomorrow I find out if I'm approved!   
    @@RNYDawn thank you so much for thinking of me. I got approved (:
  8. Like
    lovenessa got a reaction from Klolojadie in Surgery date set!   
    Hello Everyone,
    I spoke to my surgical coordinator yesterday and my surgery is set for Monday, December 7th. Looks like I'll be celebrating the night before at my sister in laws bridal shower with the liquid diet
  9. Like
    lovenessa got a reaction from The Candidate in I've been approved!   
    @@wannaBthinsoon thank you so much. I'm truly excited to embark on this journey. I cannot wait to feel the way you do!

    @ thank you so much!
  10. Like
    lovenessa reacted to AngelaWilliamsMD in I've been approved!   
    Congratulations!
  11. Like
    lovenessa reacted to Djmohr in I've been approved!   
    Congratulations!
  12. Like
    lovenessa reacted to momofsparky in I've been approved!   
    Congrats! I just found out today I was approved too!
  13. Like
    lovenessa reacted to wannaBthinsoon in I've been approved!   
    Congrats!!! Your life is about to change in a BIG way! I have zero regrets!
  14. Like
    lovenessa reacted to The Candidate in I've been approved!   
    That is spectacular news! Congrats!
  15. Like
    lovenessa got a reaction from Chelle Bean in I've been approved!   
    I got the call from Cigna that I've been approved for gastric bypass. I'm so excited! I cannot wait to find out when I'll be scheduled for surgery.
    ☺️
  16. Like
    lovenessa got a reaction from Chelle Bean in I've been approved!   
    I got the call from Cigna that I've been approved for gastric bypass. I'm so excited! I cannot wait to find out when I'll be scheduled for surgery.
    ☺️
  17. Like
    lovenessa got a reaction from Chelle Bean in I've been approved!   
    I got the call from Cigna that I've been approved for gastric bypass. I'm so excited! I cannot wait to find out when I'll be scheduled for surgery.
    ☺️
  18. Like
    lovenessa got a reaction from Chelle Bean in I've been approved!   
    I got the call from Cigna that I've been approved for gastric bypass. I'm so excited! I cannot wait to find out when I'll be scheduled for surgery.
    ☺️
  19. Like
    lovenessa reacted to silkouj in Going to be a big week!   
    Awesome! My surgery date is today! I'll check out your videos! How are you feeling after?
  20. Like
    lovenessa got a reaction from Sean Morrison in Going to be a big week!   
    Congrats on having a successful surgery Sean! I'll def. be keeping up with your WLS journey on YT.
  21. Like
    lovenessa got a reaction from The Candidate in The Beginning   
    Hello! My name is Vanessa. I am in the process of getting approved for Gastric Bypass Surgery. It's been quite the emotional roller coaster but everyone's pre and post op stories truly motivate and help me stay hopeful. Though I don't have a surgery date (have to wait for all my paperwork to be submitted to insurance after my last PCP appt. next month) If approved I think I will be getting my surgery late Nov. sometime in Dec.
    The pre op process is so stressful. Time is not in my favor simply because my insurance will cover the surgery 100% (since I've met my deductibles for the yr) flipside? I would have to be approved before Dec. 31 because new enrollment period starts Jan 1. I have a huge "to do" list, however, I am the type of person that when faced with a challenge I plan and give 110% so that the end results is a reflection of my efforts. With that said I will do everything within my possibilities to comply with everything that is asked of me. Just hoping and most importantly praying that after all my paperwork is submitted mid Nov. my insurance reviews and approves my surgery. I cannot wait to share with you my pre op and one day my post op progress.
    With love,
    Vanessa! ❥

PatchAid Vitamin Patches

×