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I started this process in June/2015 the surgery was August/2015. I went through so many different emotions, one of the largest hurdles was bored eating. My family didn't support me. The only 2 people that did was my husband and sister. Everyone else said it was the "easy way out". I couldn't play with my children. Go on field trips with them or anything like that. I would sit on the bench during the time at the park because I couldn't keep up with them with out feeling out of breath and embarrassing them. I Had to sleep downstairs sometimes because I couldn't make it up stairs. (Laziness) Coming to this decision was never an easy task, but ultimately the best decision I've made in a long time. I've hit stalls, have extra skin, boobs are non existent etc,   but I wouldn't change anything about this journey. Sure I can't eat like I did before but who would miss that when that's the reason I was overweight to begin with. There are days that I want a burger with the works lol, but I'm learning to curb my cravings or wants. I love the new me and I won't allow food to win ever again.

Wow. You are the first person I've ever heard of revising from RNY to VSG. In fact, I think you are the first person I've ever heard of having their RNY reversed. I know they say that RNY is reversible and that's one of the reasons some people choose it over sleeve in the first place (since sleeve clearly isn't reversible), but I'd never heard of it actually being done! I am very curious to hear more about how your journey goes. I hope that you can be successful with your sleeve!

My name is Sandi and I'm a few days away from 43. Today is the beginning for me. My first appointment with Dr Slayden at St Lukes is in an hour. Journaling the process here seems like a good idea for reasons of accountability and support. I've read so many stories already and I can't wait to get started.
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I remember the day when I actually threatened my son-in-law a chain saw death if he ate my last SF popsicle! They, by far are what got me through.
I also made SF lemon Jello with cottage cheese on the bottom. I would serve it on a bed of lettuce. It was really good and fresh tasting.
You got through another day. You got this!!!!
Drink Crystal lite until your eyes float. That helps fill you up.
Good luck, Girl friend.

I just had my Surgery yesterday and I feel great they're sending me home tonight!
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1. Walk
2. When you are not walking, sit in a rocker or glider. Cross your arms across your abdomen and lean as far forward as you can while rocking back and forth in the chair.
PS I assume you are talking about surgical gas -- CO2 -- not intestinal gas. For intestinal gas, try Gas-X for the symptoms. Gas-X doesn't work on surgical gas though, at least not according to my surgeon.

Here you go! Lost 94, but close enough!

I'd love to see any before and after pictures of people who have lost around 100lbs, give or take. I can't even picture myself down 100lbs. I could use the motivation as my surgery date approaches. Thanks!
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Just wanted to introduce myself. I am now the proud owner of a " sleeve". My surgeon
Dr. Anthony Maffei did a wonderful job!! It's an exciting journey each day...and also tiring
I can't wait until next week when I can have a soft Protein. It's so worth it, after only 1 week I lost
10 pounds!!!!!!! It is taking adjustment but my daughter had it when she was 28 , she's two years out amd her entire life changed around....so she is my role model:) she tells me how proud she is of me ...I have had a lot of health issues including autoimmune disease....I know that won't go away but I will have a healthier body to take anything on...this was an early birthday gift to myself. ???? Surgery was February 17 ...Wed....I will cherish
Starting weight 308
Pre op dieting and surgery weight loss to date ...286!!!
I'm happy to have found this support group!

He needs to understand this is your journey and you're on your way to making your body the healthiest it can be. Though, I can understand his concern. Maybe he can go to your next appointment with you and your doctor can explain that your goals are realistic and healthy. Hopefully that will allow him to feel better about. You look gorgeous! Keep up the great work!!

Keep losing he will get over it. Even if you tried to stop right now, you will probably keep losing anyway, at 7 months you still can't eat enough unless you eat all day to drop yourself into maintenance.

I am almost 7 months out from surgery and down around 110 lbs. I am still considered "overweight" as far as the bmi scale is concerned (26). I currently weigh 165 and I'm 5'7". Dr suggested I shoot for a goal weight of 155. I had originally hoped to get to 145, even 125....cause what the hell, right?!! Lol. Currently I am a solid medium as far as clothing goes, and around a size 8. Husband has been super supportive thus far, but is now asking me if I should be eating more carbs and stuff as he is concerned I will keep getting thinner. I really would like to lose 15-20 more pounds but the husband just seems so concerned. How do I get to a happy medium, where I feel like I utilize this tool the the maximum, without making him overly concerned in the process? I do know that I have always been able to carry/hide excess weight well, and that I always look thinner than I am, due to my build/muscle mass. But this soon out from surgery seems too soon (and too high of a weight) to go into maintenance. He is probably just used to me being overweight and this seems so quick to become thin, I just need to know how to bridge the gap between his fears and the reality of the surgery. Thanks in advance! Attaching a pic for reference.

This is my first post, so I hope I am doing this right. I was diagnosed with diabeties last August. My parents both have diabeties and I have to help with their care. I do not want my son to have to take care of me.
I also was remarried two years ago. I am so happy in my marriage but I hate that I have to take up part of my husband's space when we go to Detroit Tiger games, on an airplane, or at the movies.
I want to be proud of myself. This is one of the hardest decisions I have ever made. I am only 9 days out of surgery, and although it has been difficult I am hopeful.
I have enjoyed reading about everyone. Thank you!
Robyn

The Final Straw for me was going to a doctor and stepping on the scale and it hitting 540 pounds . when my mother saw the scale she looked me dead in my eyes and started crying. My mother already lost my sisters 4 years ago from complications from Multiple Sclerosis .i know when she saw that scale she saw me in a grave next to my sister. i had also been having back issues and blood pressure issues. I saw myself in a full mirror and did not recognize who i was starring at. At that point i decided that i had to do something. A Lot of people say that this is elective surgery but for me it was not elective at all. Either i have the surgery or i'm dead by the age of 30. Best decision of my life

I've already warmed your spot on, "The Losers' Bench".. We are all here waiting for you to join us.
We will all help you at every trial, ache, stall, frustration and question.
We will also be here to hear your victories, progress, milestones, and thrills.
"BRAGS AND BITCHES"---We want to hear them all!
You will NEVER be alone as long as we are here.
I promise.
Prayers going up for you.
You got this!

In my basement is a 20 pound kettle bell that I cannot even lift off the floor. I can't even imagine that I could carry several of those attached to my body now. No wonder I was exhausted all the time.
If you have around 150 pounds to lose, that is like wearing a two-month old colt and a bale of hay for a belt. As you lose the weight, the difference becomes discernable very quickly. You will be soooooo glad you did this, and you will have a better quality of life for it.
Here is my favorite thread on this forum. It now has 1,281 reasons why the rest of us decided to take the plunge and get bariatric surgery.
http://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/219831-what-was-your-final-straw-that-broke-the-camels-back/?hl=%20final%20%20straw

I had the surgery at 38 and I wish I would have done it sooner. In 9 months my life has changed. I am off my Metformin, I am in normal clothes, and I am physically fit. I have energy to work full time, pursue a Master's degree, take care of my 11 month of baby, and activities with friends and family. Before, I could barely get my butt off the couch on weekends. Now I am up early to go for a run and then all day shopping and errands and then family time. I can offer my daughter so much more now that I am healthy.

It's normal to be scared. It's normal for your brain to be all over the place. Don't let that stop you from doing the most positive thing you feel you can do for your long term health. You don't want your son to grow up with a parent disabled by obesity. No matter how "well you carry it", You are carrying the weight of another adult human being on a body designed to carry ONE human being. the wear and tear on your bones, joints, and internal organs is real, whether you feel it at 27 or not.
Family and friends who object to the surgery generally do so because they're scared. How scared are they of you getting disabled due to your overweight?
You have the chance to reclaim your health and run and play with your son as he grows and model for him how to live a healthy, active life. You have the opportunity to reclaim your health so that you and your wife can live long and healthily enough to run and play with your grandchildren.
Could you lose 150# without surgery? Possibly. Statistically, it isn't likely. Realistically, keeping your focus long enough to lose that amount without the assistance of the sleeve is an extreme challenge. Hoping to both lose that amount and keep it off is something all of us here likely wish we could have done. History has proven that we can't, that's why we're here.
Don't let your fears hold you back. Isn't that what you want to teach your son?

Everything you are going through right now is 100% normal. Almost every single one of us has these last minute doubts. Remember that the risk of complications with sleeve surgery is EXTREMELY low. Ultimately you will be giving your son a better life. You will be able to do more with him. You will be able to set a better example. And you will live to see him grow into a man, graduate, and start a life of his own. It will be so worth it in the end!!!

Take it from someone 62 years old. If it had been available when I was your age and I know what I know now, I would have done it in a HEARTBEAT. My life is so much more active now, even after only 3 1/2 months. The most beautiful thing about this surgery, from my perspective, is the fact that I am no longer CRAZY hungry all of the time. It's much easier to take this path because the craving has been removed. Something is removed when they do the sleeve that takes away the feeling of hunger. For me it was a gift. It is much easier to stay committed to a healthy eating plan when I am not obsessing about eating. It's a great tool. If I were you, I'd take advantage of this opportunity.

I'm 23 and I have to tell you, I was there with you on the "Really? Your fat behind can't even put the fork down and so you gotta get _surgery_??"
But here is the thing. There are an infinite number of reasons we gain weight- mental, physical, and emotional. This is just a tool to help us get some control of our lives back and that's what's important.
The possibility of you getting seriously messed up during surgery? Pretty low. The possibility of obesity eventually killing you after your son has to watch that slow, miserable decent into sickness and suffering? Very. Very high.
It will be okay, really

I am a 27, 6 ft, 375 lb male. I've always been told I carry my weight very well and have been very active. The last few years I've noticed how much harder it is to play sports like basketball and football. I am scheduled for the sleeve in the morning and I am so nervous. I have a three year old son and I want to see him grow into a great man some day. I'm afraid I'm going to eat myself to death but honestly I feel ashamed that I'm getting this done. My mind keeps saying, "Really?!?! You need something this drastic?!?" Did anyone else feel this way before? I've almost called 3 times today to cancel the surgery.
In 2010 I was at my ideal weight which was 215. I've been slowly putting weight on and it seems no matter what I try I can't stay with it. I feel like with this I won't have an option because I won't risk my life for a cheeseburger. My father in law gave me a spiel last night about how if something happens to me that my son will suffer. I just can't get it out of my head. I tried explaining to him that without something like this surgery I don't have a control point. If I overeat today what is my punishment? Some shame, a pound on the scale. If I overeat after the surgery I could die, and that is motivation.
I've made it through the pre-op liquid diet and in some way this has made me feel confidence in myself again. I feel like I can do it without the surgery. I don't know. My mind is just every where.
Forgive me for venting this is my first post and too many things in my mind right now to be coherent

To add, I had a pretty significant delay in my process because of financing issues. You just have to have faith that everything happens for a reason and as long as you do your part, it will happen when it is supposed to happen.

How heavy is your dog?? Possible hernia? I'd call the dr

I remember not being able to wear anything even slightly snug around my waist because of a pain on my left side.
Your Dr. knows best. Be kind to yourself and this too shall pass.