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PaulStephens1975

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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from bini120 in Sex After Surgery   
    My incision sites hurt for several weeks so me and my gf had to enjoy low impact closeness at first. I'm a month out now and I'm finally feeling back to normal. I had a little longer recovery though since I had my lap band removed before I had the sleeve.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from OKCPirate in What my band should have done.   
    I'm only a few weeks post op from my band to sleeve revision but I can already feel the difference. I love being able to eat only a small portion and feel full without all of the stupid green zone crap.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from OKCPirate in What my band should have done.   
    I'm only a few weeks post op from my band to sleeve revision but I can already feel the difference. I love being able to eat only a small portion and feel full without all of the stupid green zone crap.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from OKCPirate in What my band should have done.   
    I'm only a few weeks post op from my band to sleeve revision but I can already feel the difference. I love being able to eat only a small portion and feel full without all of the stupid green zone crap.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from OKCPirate in What my band should have done.   
    I'm only a few weeks post op from my band to sleeve revision but I can already feel the difference. I love being able to eat only a small portion and feel full without all of the stupid green zone crap.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from Lifestylechange45 in Gas in my shoulder   
    Roll your shoulders, walk, Gas-x, heating pad, hot Water bottle. Those are the best recommendations I can give to try.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from OKCPirate in What my band should have done.   
    I'm only a few weeks post op from my band to sleeve revision but I can already feel the difference. I love being able to eat only a small portion and feel full without all of the stupid green zone crap.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from OKCPirate in What my band should have done.   
    I'm only a few weeks post op from my band to sleeve revision but I can already feel the difference. I love being able to eat only a small portion and feel full without all of the stupid green zone crap.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from dvons in What happens when you eat too much?   
    Great responses. Thank you!
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from OKCPirate in What my band should have done.   
    I'm only a few weeks post op from my band to sleeve revision but I can already feel the difference. I love being able to eat only a small portion and feel full without all of the stupid green zone crap.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from OKCPirate in What my band should have done.   
    I'm only a few weeks post op from my band to sleeve revision but I can already feel the difference. I love being able to eat only a small portion and feel full without all of the stupid green zone crap.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from OKCPirate in Sharp pain on my left shoulder   
    It's called deferred pain and it's your body's way of telling you that it hurts internally. Sometimes it can be caused from the gas they pump you up with during surgery. Rolling your shoulders, walking, and taking Gas-x can sometimes help if the pain is gas related. Otherwise, healing will help. You can also try using a heating pad or a hot Water bottle on your shoulder for some mild relief.
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    PaulStephens1975 reacted to hapend2016 in Sharp pain on my left shoulder   
    Thank you [emoji4]
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from dvons in What happens when you eat too much?   
    One good thing about previously having the band is that it prepared me well for the sleeve. I eat slowly, pay attention to how full I am, don't drink with meals.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from PrinceVanHalen in Black drainage   
    I was glad when mine finally closed up. At one point I was just standing over the toilet kind of massaging the area trying to get all of the nastiness out. So far I'm two days ooze free!
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from SammyVP in Butter chicken after gastric sleeve   
    It's weird the stuff you'll crave after surgery. I never really cared for onions and now I love them in everything. I'm only a few weeks out and I haven't found anything I can't tolerate. I eat very slowly and I stop at the slight hint of feeling full.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from dvons in What happens when you eat too much?   
    One good thing about previously having the band is that it prepared me well for the sleeve. I eat slowly, pay attention to how full I am, don't drink with meals.
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    PaulStephens1975 reacted to Tssiemer1 in What happens when you eat too much?   
    I get the hiccups for like an hour.
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    PaulStephens1975 reacted to BigViffer in Black drainage   
    You had a hematoma. That black blood is just dead blood cells that did not get absorbed back into your body. lol, I had to wear a maxi-pad taped to my stomach I was bleeding so much.
    So I was bloated and swollen, moody from hormones, and I was wearing a maxi-pad while walking around the house in stretchy comfy pants.. I was totally a woman for a couple days.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from mreckner in Band removal nightmare   
    Unfortunately it's no longer a question of 'if' someone gets their lap band removed but 'when'. I'm honestly surprised that they still do the surgery in this country.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from lolarose13 in My lap 7-year lap band journey!   
    I had a lap band for over 7 years. I was one of those people that followed all of the rules with my band. I chose a great doctor and had great success with the band. I made tons of friends, well over a hundred, that also had the band. I sit here today honestly amazed that they still perform this surgery in the United States. For every one person I know that I can say is happy they still have their lap band I can think of 20 that regret the decision. I was enamored with my band and it took me a long time to realize how much of a flawed surgery it really is and how it's such a temporary solution that's nearly guaranteed to fail in the long run.
    I still believe in weight loss surgery. In fact, I just had a revision over to the sleeve. The heartburn and acid reflux along with always trying to find the elusive 'green zone' became too much and I was unwilling to let my band do any more damage to my body.
    I don't write this post to discourage, but to encourage people to really dig into the posts on this site. Understand that I have been on this site and others like it for almost 10 years and I can absolutely say without a doubt in my mind that the lap band is not a good surgery. If you don't believe me then just look through the posts on this site that have been here for years where people are in pain and have lost not just one, but sometimes multiple bands.
    Obviously, we are all adults and if you still choose to get a lap band or if you are someone that has gotten and band and has been successful then that is fine and I have no ill words for you. Just realize that those that get banded and keep their band for over 5 years successfully are extremely rare and they should count their lucky stars.
    I leave this here as a testament to my lap band journey. I started it at 325lbs, lost 127lbs, then regained 102lbs back after having to have my Fluid removed. I tried to love my band, I really did. It's just really damn hard to succeed at something you are set up to fail at from the very beginning.
    **EDIT** Please forgive the title and any spelling/grammar mistakes as I blame them on my current pain medication!
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from becomingmandikaye in Calling all June '16 sleevers!   
    Got my sleeve and the first thing the dietician asked me when she came in my room was if I wanted any ginger ale! I said, I'm not supposed to have that. Then she started arguing with me!!! She said, it's a clear liquid so you'll be fine. I asked her to verify that with the surgery staff. She promptly came back and apologized. Can you imagine how much pain I would have been in from ginger ale right after surgery? OMG.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from Christinamo7 in Finally revised from band to sleeve!   
    After 9 long months of jumping through hoops to get approved by insurance, I finally got through surgery! For my lap band I just went home after surgery. With my sleeve I stayed in the hospital for two nights. While having its share of annoyances, I thought staying in the hospital had several advantages such as always having someone there to take care of you and being able to catch any medical problems that might arise.

    When I had my lap band I wasn't able to pee for days and when I finally called my doc's office they instructed me that I should go to the ER to get a catheter put in. I had not idea how dangerous it was not to urinate after surgery. However, when this same thing happened to me in the hospital they caught it early and worked with my right away to take care of the problem.

    Some other general thoughts on both surgeries: While both surgeries left my abdomen very sore, the revision to sleeve left me with less internal pain from swallowing, burping etc. When I had my band I felt like I needed to burp for days and it was super uncomfortable.

    Also, with the band, I could tell when I needed to slow down drinking because I would immediately be in pain or feel like it was coming back up and I don't have that so far with the sleeve. I take a sip and let it go down and I don't really have any signal that lets me know my stomach is ready for the next sip. This may mean that I could drink faster than I am but I'm not willing to test that theory out at the moment.

    That's about it for now. So far I'm doing well and I'm looking forward to getting the weight back off!

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    PaulStephens1975 reacted to sharonintx in Stomach stretching   
    I eat bread every day. Never once has it caused a problem.
    What's the big deal about bread anyway. If you eat it - enjoy. If you are for some reason 'prohibited' from eating bread, then don't.
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    PaulStephens1975 got a reaction from donnaqtpi314 in The absolute best number one thing to take to the hospital will blow your mind!   
    Take a back scratcher! OMG this was the best decision I've ever made and that is no joke! You'll thank me later.

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