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So I have this problem I have lost 82 lbs since having my surgery a year ago almost to date. My wife has gained half of everything I have lost. With this she has grown distant, doesn't want much of anything to do with me let alone sexually. She has never been much of an affectionate person but still she would have sex at least once a month. It's been like 3 so what should I do she told me it is my problem figure it out went to a psychiatrist and she was telling me the opposite did couples counseling and that was a joke. Anyone else have this problem with there spouse resenting them for losing weight and basically stopped caring anything about them? :tongue2:

I am a Commercial Account Manager for OfficeMax Business. (I sale paper clips for a living.) lol

I am really wanting to do more than just walking/jogging I am almost 2 weeks post op and really wanting to get to the gym. I was curious how soon everybody was able to start working out.

Thanks for all the responses. I think I will just adjust to drinking decaf tea.

My Dietician told me I had to have decaf tea only is this true or is it just there preference? I mean I know Decaf is supposed to be better for you but Decaf tea just doesn't taste the same to me it's like it's missing something.Does anyone have to do the same is this the norm?