Everything posted by rking
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So hard to stay positive when there is always someone to beat you down.
Omg! I was just sitting here whining about how cold I am. It is about 44 degrees LOL. Forget the walk hahaha
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Onederland
YAY!!!! Fantastic job!!!!!!
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So frustrated!
I had a meniscus repaired about three years ago. I have had an ACL reconstruction and a partial replacement. I thought the meniscus repair would be easy peasey but it wasn't that simple. I was still pretty sore. I also had a surprise microfracture done and I'm sure that didn't help not being a big deal. It wasn't horrible by any means, but I really thought it would be absolutely no big deal.
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Have a bathroom question
I think that it is very normal.
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So hard to stay positive when there is always someone to beat you down.
It seams I am missing something previous to this thread, but @@Fat2Phat2016 if someone is dogging on you for whatever reason, forget them. Not sure why someone would "attack" you, but it seems ridiculous. If you did attack first, then so be it. Sometimes we say things out of anger. I have done that plenty of times believe me and many times I have regretted it. Just be done with all of this. Move on. Don't even respond anymore to anything you consider negative directed toward yourself. Just get rid of the thread, don't start any more unless it deals with WLS and move on. You are a wonderful person and we all have many wonderful things to be thankful for. Start focusing on all the pounds we are all losing!!!!!!!!! Well, all of y'all, haha, I seem to be stuck AGAIN. Go out, my dear, talk a long walk, and clear your mind of the negativity. Like I said, think about all the great friendships we share Have a wonderful evening my friend!
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Sitting in the hospital crying
Thank goodness you are home and ok! Great news to hear. Thanks for the update. Nothing but good stuff from here!!!'n
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Rough night
I'm sorry . Husbands can be such pains in the a$$.
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Sodas
I drank real Coke, until I started my pre op diet. I am 8 weeks post op and haven't had one. Doc said it would stretch my sleeve. Do I still want them? Hell yes. I want one now but I refuse to have one and risk my weight loss at all. I have been through too much. Maybe one day I will never want one again.... Who knows.
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Pic time
GORGEOUS!!!!!
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New to this group
What can you have? I was only on liquid and premier protein shakes saved me. I wasn't really hungry at all. Head hunger is tough. When you get it walk. Read. Clean house. Do something. Take your mind somewhere else. You can do this! I never was starving. I also had millions of sugar free Popsicles. There are some in a clear bag which tastes great. Drink water or broth when hungry. YOU control your mind. Don't let it be the other way around. We all go thru pre op diet, well most of us. Kick its butt!!
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Having a bad night
Take oxy as often as bottle allows you. I was supposed to crush pills and did a few days then said screw it. It was as close to puking as I came. Get that oxy down girl! Good stuff.
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what to expect
Ditto
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What does it feel like right afterwards?
Stomach was sore but not painful. I was on morphine pump from 2:00 pm to 7:30 am and was real groggy but definitely no pain. No nausea. Then started on hydrocodone. Did the job. Never had any pain or nausea. Few days later body felt normal. What is different is only sipping a little bit at a time and trying to get all fluids in. Easiest surgery I have had.
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Is there any hope?
@@HopeandAgony you hit the nail on the head! Most have not been to the dark inner depths of depression to the point of contemplating suicide. Outsiders see it as selfishness when, indeed, the person actually believes the world and its people would be better off without them. They think they are doing a service for their loved ones. My sister suffers greatly. Thank you for posting such wonderful advise.
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Is there any hope?
Please, please, please find another surgeon. He sounds like a complete ass. You need a caring doctor who truly cares about you. He is not that. Most of the people on here have wonderful surgeons who they love, including me. Where are you from? Maybe someone can recommend someone. It is important to me that you have a surgeon you love and trust. It makes all the difference in the world. I am so deeply sorry for your loss and I am glad you are realizing it is not your fault. Bless his heart, depression is a horrible disease. We are all here for you sweetheart. YES! You can do this. You have a fabulous tool to help you! Good luck to you!!!!!
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Alcohol and Weightloss
You are almost at goal at 15 weeks???? Wow! That is amazing!
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Having a bad night
I agree with Cherri. Stay ahead of your pain meds. Take as often as prescribed whether you feel you need them or not so pain won't sneak up on you. What pain med do you have? Hopefully you have something prescription.
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The post op return to work
I had surgery on Tuesday and could have gone back to work the next Monday or Tuesday if I had to but was off the week for thanksgiving.
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Liquid Protein
That's why I get a glass of water, about 15 oz or so and pour 1/3 of the tube in. I just bought a berry one today and it tastes great. Have a message into my doc about the collagen protein. I looked at the amino acids and am talking to my nephew about it who was a biology major and knows protein and amino acids very well.
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Starting to lose it ????
Try some sugar free Popsicles.
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Liquid Protein
actually my nurse suggested them for me. I had about a third of the tube to a glass of ice Water. I like the grape flavor. Do not get the fruit punch. It is nasty. You can add some lemon if you like. It tastes like grape kook aide. I have been doing them everyday. I have not heard it was junk Protein. I am going to call doc and see what they say.
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I can't believe I can wear this sort of thing now!
Cute cute!!!!
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Need help getting water in
you and me both! i just am not getting 64 oz. however, i just found the trick for me. i visited with my nurse about not getting enough Water. she suggested New whey Protein. it comes in a tube, is 3.8 oz., and has 42 grams of protein. i bought the fruit one and almost passed out from the smell. it was rank. it tasted horrible mixed with water. she suggested putting it in water and adding lemon. it was still horrible. i bought the grape flavored. much much much better. the first time i tried it i put it in water and added lemon to try to negate some of the nastiness. it actually tasted good!!!!!!!!!! now i just add about 1/3 of the tube to a glass of ice water and it tastes like grape kool aid. i dont even add lemon. been doing this four days i think, and i am getting lots more water in. i do have to make myself drink it; i am not thirsty either. sit it by you and set an alarm every 15 min if necessary. at the end of the day i have added 42 grams of protein to my diet and that takes so much pressure off of me meeting my protein goals. i dont seem to have a whole lot of appetite either; i have to make myself eat most of the time.
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New~ Any ideas to help greatly appreciated~weening myself off Soda and wandering if there is anything to help me not to have bad headache?
take as long as you can. if you drink 2 cokes a day, drop to 1 immediately. you will still get plenty of caffeine. then drink a little less every day until you are having just a little caffeine. skip a day, then have a little more, skip a day, little more, then skip two days, have some, skeip two more days. something like that....... i am weaned off, although i do have coffee and tea sometimes and never get caffeine headaches.
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Looking for people in their 50's to go on this journey together
i am 50 8 weeks out. you will do great. i was afraid of failure also. 33 pounds down