Amy Glaspie Clayton

Thank y'all so much!!! For the pass week 1/2 I've done so much research that I can either perform it or be a life coach myself!!????????????????, But I know there is never enough info we can receive on topics like these.. I have my 1st appt. On tomorrow. My husband will be still at work.. I was upset earlier, I didn't to tell him how excited I was about it. I'm not sure if doesn't approve of me going, I do believe that he want me to be happy tho... Whether he agrees or not I'm still going and want the surgery.. I guess there lye some of my guilt. I'm not sure if he want me to go...

Thank you for that.... So me choosing to live is choosing the surgery? I know that's my decisions, but I want to know your thoughts...please.

I really appreciate this question... I'm reading what you all are saying, and it bringing tears to my eyes... This is my story as well... I dreaded having this conversation to my husband of 12 years. He know firs hand how I have struggle with my weight. The ups and down of it all. I lost my mother in 2006 due to a heart attack.. It tore me apart. No she wasn't laying up in the hospital waiting to pass, it was all of a sudden on a Wednesday night.My life changed forever!!!!! My it will be a year July 28 2015 my dad will have been passed he died of lung disease called sacoidois. They both suffered with HBP, Heart disease, and diabetes. My mother was on insulin at the time of her daeth. Although I am not there, I will be. I had gest.diabetes with my last three, I have5 beautiful children. Never any major problems with HBP. I am 5.4 currently weighing 240lbs. I've already looked into my ins, they are covering more than 80% of the surgery. Money is not the issue here. I'm not saying I am rich.. But it will be taking care of.. So I let my husband know that I have a doc appt.coming soon, let's just say we didn't get to talk about it... I do feel like he believe that I shouldn't do it. I wanna know why? With that being said now I feel guilty , because I want this change in my life to happen. I've been overweight my whole adult life. I'm only 33 and in that short time I have put everyone else before me when it comes to being taken care of.. And I am tired. I have thoughts of dying at my age. My mother was 48 at the time of her death, my father was 58 to me that was young... I have been depressed and stressed about my before I started to gain my waist size was 5/4 now I am wearing size 20 to 24 for comfort. I do not feel like the have the support I need for this journey. Should I move forward or just give up. I wanna live!!!!!!!!! I'm tired of being obese!! I've tried all kinds of things to much to mention. Please someone answer back... I really appreciate this question... I'm reading what you all are saying, and it bringing tears to my eyes... This is my story as well... I dreaded having this conversation to my husband of 12 years. He know firs hand how I have struggle with my weight. The ups and down of it all. I lost my mother in 2006 due to a heart attack.. It tore me apart. No she wasn't laying up in the hospital waiting to pass, it was all of a sudden on a Wednesday night.My life changed forever!!!!! My it will be a year July 28 2015 my dad will have been passed he died of lung disease called sacoidois. They both suffered with HBP, Heart disease, and diabetes. My mother was on insulin at the time of her daeth. Although I am not there, I will be. I had gest.diabetes with my last three, I have5 beautiful children. Never any major problems with HBP. I am 5.4 currently weighing 240lbs. I've already looked into my ins, they are covering more than 80% of the surgery. Money is not the issue here. I'm not saying I am rich.. But it will be taking care of.. So I let my husband know that I have a doc appt.coming soon, let's just say we didn't get to talk about it... I do feel like he believe that I shouldn't do it. I wanna know why? With that being said now I feel guilty , because I want this change in my life to happen. I've been overweight my whole adult life. I'm only 33 and in that short time I have put everyone else before me when it comes to being taken care of.. And I am tired. I have thoughts of dying at my age. My mother was 48 at the time of her death, my father was 58 to me that was young... I have been depressed and stressed about my before I started to gain my waist size was 5/4 now I am wearing size 20 to 24 for comfort. I do not feel like the have the support I need for this journey. Should I move forward or just give up. I wanna live!!!!!!!!! I'm tired of being obese!! I've tried all kinds of things to much to mention. Please someone answer back...

I really appreciate this question... I'm reading what you all are saying, and it bringing tears to my eyes... This is my story as well... I dreaded having this conversation to my husband of 12 years. He know firs hand how I have struggle with my weight. The ups and down of it all. I lost my mother in 2006 due to a heart attack.. It tore me apart. No she wasn't laying up in the hospital waiting to pass, it was all of a sudden on a Wednesday night.My life changed forever!!!!! It will be a year July 28 2015 my dad will have been passed he died of lung disease called sacoidois. They both suffered with HBP, Heart disease, and diabetes. My mother was on insulin at the time of her daeth. Although I am not there, I will be. I had gest.diabetes with my last three, I have5 beautiful children. Never any major problems with HBP. I am 5.4 currently weighing 240lbs. I've already looked into my ins, they are covering more than 80% of the surgery. Money is not the issue here. I'm not saying I am rich.. But it will be taking care of.. So I let my husband know that I have a doc appt.coming soon, let's just say we didn't get to talk about it... I do feel like he believe that I shouldn't do it. I wanna know why? With that being said now I feel guilty , because I want this change in my life to happen. I've been overweight my whole adult life. I'm only 33 and in that short time I have put everyone else before me when it comes to being taken care of.. And I am tired. I have thoughts of dying at my age. My mother was 48 at the time of her death, my father was 58 to me that was young... I have been depressed and stressed about my weight. Before I started to gain weight, I was wearing a 4/5 size in my teen year early adult... now I am wearing size 20 to 24 for comfort. I do not feel like the have the support I need for this journey. Should I move forward or just give up. I wanna live!!!!!!!!! I'm tired of being obese!! I've tried all kinds of things to much to mention. Please someone answer back...