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Newman19

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    Newman19 got a reaction from Dar61 in Wondering how April 2015 sleevers are doing ?   
    I am down 60 pounds as of today. Some days I eat more than others. Some days I have to remind myself to eat. Very strange but I make sure to get my Vitamins and eat Protein first. Lots of Water too.
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    Newman19 got a reaction from Dar61 in Wondering how April 2015 sleevers are doing ?   
    I am down 60 pounds as of today. Some days I eat more than others. Some days I have to remind myself to eat. Very strange but I make sure to get my Vitamins and eat Protein first. Lots of Water too.
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
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    Newman19 got a reaction from McButterpants in Quite a few questions and scared sh*tless of changing my life. Stupid, huh?   
    Before surgery, I would have told you that I just liked the "taste" of food and that's why I was overweight. I am 4.5 months out and I can tell you that was only half of the story. I also liked the quantity of food that I ate. Once I was back on regular food at 6 weeks, I was excited to be able to go out to eat again. After a couple of times going out, I found myself saying "oh what the hell. I might as well not eat at all because I can only handle a couple of bites anyways." Now if I really only liked the "taste" of food, then eating out would have still been enjoyable. What I really missed was being able to sit around with friends for an hour and gorge on food. I never realized that until after the surgery which seems so dang obvious now. I have now gotten used to only being able to eat a little bit and it's not a problem for me anymore. I can enjoy going out to eat and not feel bummed out about it. The head game after surgery was much harder than the physical part of it. I went to a wedding a couple of weekends ago and they had an amazing chef cater the food. He did about 15 different appetizer type dishes and I was bummed that I could only have one bite of about 5-6 of them. What I wasn't bummed about was being 50 pounds lighter and not hiding when everyone pulled their cameras out. It is absolutely worth it but it IS an adjustment for sure. I feel better because I am eating food that is good for me and also because I am a couple of sizes smaller now. As for alcohol, I can take about 2 sips of beer and it makes me feel way too full. I can drink a small amount of wine but too much makes me feel sick. I think it's the sugar. Also, if I finish an entire glass of wine, I am seriously blitzed. It doesn't last long but I am a super cheap date now. Hopefully that answers some of your questions. Best of luck to you.
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    Newman19 got a reaction from McButterpants in Quite a few questions and scared sh*tless of changing my life. Stupid, huh?   
    Before surgery, I would have told you that I just liked the "taste" of food and that's why I was overweight. I am 4.5 months out and I can tell you that was only half of the story. I also liked the quantity of food that I ate. Once I was back on regular food at 6 weeks, I was excited to be able to go out to eat again. After a couple of times going out, I found myself saying "oh what the hell. I might as well not eat at all because I can only handle a couple of bites anyways." Now if I really only liked the "taste" of food, then eating out would have still been enjoyable. What I really missed was being able to sit around with friends for an hour and gorge on food. I never realized that until after the surgery which seems so dang obvious now. I have now gotten used to only being able to eat a little bit and it's not a problem for me anymore. I can enjoy going out to eat and not feel bummed out about it. The head game after surgery was much harder than the physical part of it. I went to a wedding a couple of weekends ago and they had an amazing chef cater the food. He did about 15 different appetizer type dishes and I was bummed that I could only have one bite of about 5-6 of them. What I wasn't bummed about was being 50 pounds lighter and not hiding when everyone pulled their cameras out. It is absolutely worth it but it IS an adjustment for sure. I feel better because I am eating food that is good for me and also because I am a couple of sizes smaller now. As for alcohol, I can take about 2 sips of beer and it makes me feel way too full. I can drink a small amount of wine but too much makes me feel sick. I think it's the sugar. Also, if I finish an entire glass of wine, I am seriously blitzed. It doesn't last long but I am a super cheap date now. Hopefully that answers some of your questions. Best of luck to you.
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    Newman19 got a reaction from McButterpants in Quite a few questions and scared sh*tless of changing my life. Stupid, huh?   
    Before surgery, I would have told you that I just liked the "taste" of food and that's why I was overweight. I am 4.5 months out and I can tell you that was only half of the story. I also liked the quantity of food that I ate. Once I was back on regular food at 6 weeks, I was excited to be able to go out to eat again. After a couple of times going out, I found myself saying "oh what the hell. I might as well not eat at all because I can only handle a couple of bites anyways." Now if I really only liked the "taste" of food, then eating out would have still been enjoyable. What I really missed was being able to sit around with friends for an hour and gorge on food. I never realized that until after the surgery which seems so dang obvious now. I have now gotten used to only being able to eat a little bit and it's not a problem for me anymore. I can enjoy going out to eat and not feel bummed out about it. The head game after surgery was much harder than the physical part of it. I went to a wedding a couple of weekends ago and they had an amazing chef cater the food. He did about 15 different appetizer type dishes and I was bummed that I could only have one bite of about 5-6 of them. What I wasn't bummed about was being 50 pounds lighter and not hiding when everyone pulled their cameras out. It is absolutely worth it but it IS an adjustment for sure. I feel better because I am eating food that is good for me and also because I am a couple of sizes smaller now. As for alcohol, I can take about 2 sips of beer and it makes me feel way too full. I can drink a small amount of wine but too much makes me feel sick. I think it's the sugar. Also, if I finish an entire glass of wine, I am seriously blitzed. It doesn't last long but I am a super cheap date now. Hopefully that answers some of your questions. Best of luck to you.
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
    When people show you who they are, believe them.
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
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    ~Maya Angelou~
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
    When people show you who they are, believe them.
    ~Maya Angelou~
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    Newman19 got a reaction from Jason In Houston in Work in progress, but already a success   
    You are amazing! I had surgery on 4/15/15 and I am down 52 pounds as of today. It has been slow but so worth it. You are a success for sure.
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
    When people show you who they are, believe them.
    ~Maya Angelou~
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
    When people show you who they are, believe them.
    ~Maya Angelou~
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
    When people show you who they are, believe them.
    ~Maya Angelou~
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
    When people show you who they are, believe them.
    ~Maya Angelou~
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
    When people show you who they are, believe them.
    ~Maya Angelou~
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
    When people show you who they are, believe them.
    ~Maya Angelou~
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
    When people show you who they are, believe them.
    ~Maya Angelou~
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    Newman19 got a reaction from KnowUrWorth in Unsupportive partner   
    When people show you who they are, believe them.
    ~Maya Angelou~
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    Newman19 reacted to Bufflehead in Help   
    Hi Toni,
    The important thing is to go back to a healthy post-wls diet. For me, that is high Protein and low carb. I stick to 3 ounces of lean meat and a couple ounces of green veggies for each meal. For Snacks, I have things like a piece of fruit, a small handful of nuts, or a Protein Shake. I am sure you were fed all sorts of unhealthy crap in jail -- carb-heavy stuff like bread, noodles, and potatoes. Cut out all that and focus on lean meat and green veggies and carefully watching your portions. If you do that, you should lose weight -- but the first several days will be HARD! Your body is used to getting a bunch of carbs and it will protest with "head hunger" -- cravings for carb-heavy foods. If your body is telling you, "I am starving" -- ask yourself if you would be happy to eat a piece of lean chicken breast and some broccoli. If the answer is no, then you aren't really hungry, you are just having a craving. If the answer is yes, go ahead and have the chicken breast and broccoli.
    How much you "should" be down is irrelevant -- there is no such thing as "should" be down by a certain time for anyone, whether they have been incarcerated or not. That's past -- don't focus on it. You haven't destroyed your surgery. You do need to honor it by focusing on lean meats and green veggies and curbing any tendencies to over-snack, graze, or drink liquid calories (other than protein shakes). You can do this. Good luck!
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    Newman19 got a reaction from _Kate_ in grazing, overeating and weight gain :(   
    I don't have great advice about recipes, meal plans etc. because I kind of just go with the flow. I had my surgery on April 15, 2015 so I am exactly 15 weeks out today and am down 46 pounds. My urge to snack and graze has just come back within the last couple of weeks so I understand what you are fighting. It was easy at first because I didn't feel like eating but now I certainly have that part back. What has helped me so much is that I track everything I eat throughout the day on myfitnesspal.com. It allows me to track my Protein intake and I also watch the carbs and try to keep them below 40g. My problem time is after work and before I go to bed. Since I track my calories religiously, I know when I head home from work exactly where I am at and what I have left to work with for the rest of the evening. I hope that helps. Just know that so many of us know exactly where you are right now and how you feel. You can do it and you should be very, very proud of how far you have come. You have accomplished a lot.

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