Smye

@jane13, absolutely

There will be a blog update tomorrow on gaywifeconfusinglife.blogspot.com with a full update on how I'm doing. On the bright side, the parasomnia is, if not gone, certainly improving.

Making it... not thrilled, but making it

Thanks so much all!

And Jane13, I'm making it. Just back from a 3-night solo B&B stay which was, to be frank, delightful

If only. I intentionally forward-date all posts to protect Mrs. Smye's privacy should any of those she's not yet told stumble across the blog. That way major life events mentioned in the blog don't line up with real-time, thus throwing them off her trail wink emoticon

Thank you Emma4884! And I will

Many thanks Steve, now if I can just convince her of that

@OKCPirate, thank you!

Thankfully I made half a gallon so there's plenty to bring with lunch today.

@Pinkgirl1234 - yes! But if your first batch isn't as hot as you want, I don't recommend doubling the red pepper powder for the next batch... though it is incredible!

@Chrystee... you say that now... but you didn't eat half a pint in a sitting

@jane13, thank you and - although I've never been there - I agree!

@Mountaingal, thank you! I'll admit thought that I'm eager for the dating over the friend - it's corny I know, but out of the several dozen I've been in contact with, this one is incredible!

@Djmohr, thanks!

Thanks - it's certainly a little nerve-wracking... Or else I've misinterpreted the woman I'm interested in and I've got a new good friend - I should know by a week from today

@jane13, thank you for asking, I will PM you

You can also email me anything particularly good and, if it passes muster with my chef neighbor I'll gladly add it to the blog as a 'guest post'

@proudgrammy - I do, it's here: http://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/338407-real-food-real-weightloss-still-delicious/

You've got this!

HOORAY!

Thank you! And well done to you also Sreeves!

Congratulations and happy birthday!

Thank you @_Kate_!

Well, despite my therapist's recommendations, I'm not ready to look for dating just yet. OKC, however, has the option to 'look for friends' so I'm giving that a shot. I'll pay the mulah for match once I'm solidly ready for romance.

Holy cow, congratulations!

Thank you Steve

@lauraellen80 and @Mountaingal, agreed on all counts - dating websites can be fantastic! I'm just frustrated given the context (see 'so it turns out my wife is gay' in the Mars & Venus collide section, or else gaywifeconfusinglife.blogspot.com.