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Melissas husband had cheated on her before and during and while she was in hosp.
When the confidence increases sometimes we are not willing to put up with as much. I think it is natural.
An open relationship is where people in relationships see other people but are ok with it. Telling each other and getting a divorce is simply being honest, but not open to it. Everyone is different. People can grow apart over the years too. What we want at 20 is not the same as at 50.

Wow, why did she put your business out there? She is just being selfish and need some serious counseling. She has ISSUES!! Good
riddance!

I'm thinking @@LipstickLady WASN'T making a joke about her 50+%!

I don't understand these attempts (by women) to shame women out of talking about sex, as if it's not a vital part of any relationship. Discussing this does not make one a "horndog," merely a human. I'd like to thank those women who spoke frankly about why they might have been attracted to a particular body type in a man; for being proud of their sexuality. I believe the points they brought up were perfectly relevant to the OP's query.

I have to agree with the sex aspect. My husband is 160 pounds and 6 feet tall.

But it DOESNT HURT!! Crap, now Im on the Horndog team!! Lol

you know that makes complete sense!! never saw it that way. thanks

Lets keep it real, like real real...if u get in a relationship with a person and the sex is bad, u are not going 2 stay for long. Seriously, u will try 2 and u will probably try 2 teach them what u like but if it doesnt get better, you WILL leave. Be honest with urself

That was a lil much ..lol sorry

I tend to agree that it is a personal preference. I've had weight issues my entire life and have dated all different shapes and sizes, I tend to gravitate to a bigger guy. Taller etc. not just weight (I'm also fairly tall ,so I think proportion as opposed to weight). In my dating experience I've met guys who only wanted larger women, that to me is more fetish than attraction. Real attraction come from the whole package, in my opinion.

Maybe .. And I mean MAYBE, it could be that the majority of BBW are sincerely not happy being BBW and being with a BBM is just a reminder of what they dont like about themselves. It's like looking in the mirror all the time. In general, Women are way more sensitive to things that, for a variety of reasons, don't bother men. Just a thought.

Tentatively I havee may 23 scheduled for all preop testing and consults. June 12th is the tentative surg date. My insurance is crappy so i have to self pay. I found places in the U S where it can be done for 11,900. That includes everything. Even 2 weeks Optifast, 1 year of follow up, and minimal blis complication insurance. With my insurance in WV it was going to cost me 23,000. The clerk at dr rossi office did not even call my insurance. She just told me that self pay was 32,000 for doc and hosp not including tests and consults. My insurance only pays 10,000 max. My new doctor is 3 hours away but they work with u if u travel there to get apts and testing in one day.
My dtr wants me to schedule the end of june so she can take off so i may rearrange them. I also need to find out if i need to have surgery before i start my biologic med for rheumatoid disease.

I am switching to DePaul, I filled out the paperwork and sent it in today.
I also filed a complaint with Joint Commission.