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Call your doctor. You should be still a little uncomfortable still but not in pain. Most important, you shouldn't be dizzy--this is probably from dehydration or your blood pressure. You definitely shouldn't be driving if you are dizzy.
I had extremely low blood pressure after my surgery and had to postpone my return to work. I went back to work at 3 weeks once my blood pressure was better. I still felt a little weak at that point but able to commute to work and do my desk job.
hope you are feeling better soon!--Lisa

Congratulations!--it's the start of a new life. Not sure what advice I can give except listen to your doctor and work their program. Also, keep coming back here or to a support group---it's important to have support from people who have been there. If you do that, you'll be successful. Best of luck tomorrow--I'm sure all will go well--make sure to keep us updated on your progress through out the months/years to come--Lisa

I guarantee its not as noticeable to others as it is to you. Mine came back and It's full and as healthy as it was before. You'll be able to wear it as long as you want!--Lisa

I totally get your fear--I'm there with you. I was sleeved in November 2013 and hit my lowest in 10/2014. I had my gallbladder out and then the holidays hit--I did put on about 3-4 lbs and rightfully so but in the last month, I have reduced my calories, cut out all sweets and I lose 2 lbs and then gain 2 lbs-it's so frustrating. I don't mean to hijack your thread just hoping someone out there has some words of wisdom for you (and for me). --Lisa

Don't be blue--Not everyone understands; that's why you have all of us!. seriously, only people who have walked in your shoes can fully understand the decision you have made. Others, even the ones we love and love us, don't always understand ---they may not express it well, but most of them are just worried about surgery & complications.
If you've done your research and you're committed to this process, then just remember you are doing this for yourself and it shouldn't be based on everyone else's opinions--just yours & your doctor's. I know that everyone in my life that was against the idea of surgery has since changed their minds now that they see how my health and my self confidence has changed. I'm truly happier and that shows in my relationships as well.
Best of luck on your surgery and your journey; Keep us updated on your progress!--Lisa

Hi Lisa---great news! I know it's a bit scary but it's wonderful as well; just keep your eye on the prize and you'll be on the loser's bench before you know it. The first few days of the liquid diet aren't easy, but after those first days, you get used to it. (and yes, it's totally worth it!) Best of luck on your pre-op diet and surgery---keep us updated on your progress---cheers, Lisa

Don't be blue--Not everyone understands; that's why you have all of us!. seriously, only people who have walked in your shoes can fully understand the decision you have made. Others, even the ones we love and love us, don't always understand ---they may not express it well, but most of them are just worried about surgery & complications.
If you've done your research and you're committed to this process, then just remember you are doing this for yourself and it shouldn't be based on everyone else's opinions--just yours & your doctor's. I know that everyone in my life that was against the idea of surgery has since changed their minds now that they see how my health and my self confidence has changed. I'm truly happier and that shows in my relationships as well.
Best of luck on your surgery and your journey; Keep us updated on your progress!--Lisa

1 Year ago today I had my sleeve surgery. It was the best decision I've ever made for my health--diabetes in remission; no longer have high blood pressure--off all medications and down 119 lbs. I was hoping to hit my goal by today but i've been in a 3 week stall so I'm 3 lbs short of my goal but I'm thrilled with the results. Even if I don't go any lower--I'm happy with my size 12 self. Sorry for no pictures--I'm not very techy (need to work on that). Best of luck on your journey to those just starting out and continued success to the rest of us!! Lisa

1 Year ago today I had my sleeve surgery. It was the best decision I've ever made for my health--diabetes in remission; no longer have high blood pressure--off all medications and down 119 lbs. I was hoping to hit my goal by today but i've been in a 3 week stall so I'm 3 lbs short of my goal but I'm thrilled with the results. Even if I don't go any lower--I'm happy with my size 12 self. Sorry for no pictures--I'm not very techy (need to work on that). Best of luck on your journey to those just starting out and continued success to the rest of us!! Lisa

1 Year ago today I had my sleeve surgery. It was the best decision I've ever made for my health--diabetes in remission; no longer have high blood pressure--off all medications and down 119 lbs. I was hoping to hit my goal by today but i've been in a 3 week stall so I'm 3 lbs short of my goal but I'm thrilled with the results. Even if I don't go any lower--I'm happy with my size 12 self. Sorry for no pictures--I'm not very techy (need to work on that). Best of luck on your journey to those just starting out and continued success to the rest of us!! Lisa

1 Year ago today I had my sleeve surgery. It was the best decision I've ever made for my health--diabetes in remission; no longer have high blood pressure--off all medications and down 119 lbs. I was hoping to hit my goal by today but i've been in a 3 week stall so I'm 3 lbs short of my goal but I'm thrilled with the results. Even if I don't go any lower--I'm happy with my size 12 self. Sorry for no pictures--I'm not very techy (need to work on that). Best of luck on your journey to those just starting out and continued success to the rest of us!! Lisa

1 Year ago today I had my sleeve surgery. It was the best decision I've ever made for my health--diabetes in remission; no longer have high blood pressure--off all medications and down 119 lbs. I was hoping to hit my goal by today but i've been in a 3 week stall so I'm 3 lbs short of my goal but I'm thrilled with the results. Even if I don't go any lower--I'm happy with my size 12 self. Sorry for no pictures--I'm not very techy (need to work on that). Best of luck on your journey to those just starting out and continued success to the rest of us!! Lisa

1 Year ago today I had my sleeve surgery. It was the best decision I've ever made for my health--diabetes in remission; no longer have high blood pressure--off all medications and down 119 lbs. I was hoping to hit my goal by today but i've been in a 3 week stall so I'm 3 lbs short of my goal but I'm thrilled with the results. Even if I don't go any lower--I'm happy with my size 12 self. Sorry for no pictures--I'm not very techy (need to work on that). Best of luck on your journey to those just starting out and continued success to the rest of us!! Lisa

1 Year ago today I had my sleeve surgery. It was the best decision I've ever made for my health--diabetes in remission; no longer have high blood pressure--off all medications and down 119 lbs. I was hoping to hit my goal by today but i've been in a 3 week stall so I'm 3 lbs short of my goal but I'm thrilled with the results. Even if I don't go any lower--I'm happy with my size 12 self. Sorry for no pictures--I'm not very techy (need to work on that). Best of luck on your journey to those just starting out and continued success to the rest of us!! Lisa

I don't know where there is a list but my suggestion is:
phone & charger
lip balm
and a pillow to keep around your stomach for the way home if you have a long ride home
you won't feel like reading etc so leave the ipad etc at home!
Congratulations--sounds like your surgery's coming soon----Lisa

1 Year ago today I had my sleeve surgery. It was the best decision I've ever made for my health--diabetes in remission; no longer have high blood pressure--off all medications and down 119 lbs. I was hoping to hit my goal by today but i've been in a 3 week stall so I'm 3 lbs short of my goal but I'm thrilled with the results. Even if I don't go any lower--I'm happy with my size 12 self. Sorry for no pictures--I'm not very techy (need to work on that). Best of luck on your journey to those just starting out and continued success to the rest of us!! Lisa

1 Year ago today I had my sleeve surgery. It was the best decision I've ever made for my health--diabetes in remission; no longer have high blood pressure--off all medications and down 119 lbs. I was hoping to hit my goal by today but i've been in a 3 week stall so I'm 3 lbs short of my goal but I'm thrilled with the results. Even if I don't go any lower--I'm happy with my size 12 self. Sorry for no pictures--I'm not very techy (need to work on that). Best of luck on your journey to those just starting out and continued success to the rest of us!! Lisa

1 Year ago today I had my sleeve surgery. It was the best decision I've ever made for my health--diabetes in remission; no longer have high blood pressure--off all medications and down 119 lbs. I was hoping to hit my goal by today but i've been in a 3 week stall so I'm 3 lbs short of my goal but I'm thrilled with the results. Even if I don't go any lower--I'm happy with my size 12 self. Sorry for no pictures--I'm not very techy (need to work on that). Best of luck on your journey to those just starting out and continued success to the rest of us!! Lisa

1 Year ago today I had my sleeve surgery. It was the best decision I've ever made for my health--diabetes in remission; no longer have high blood pressure--off all medications and down 119 lbs. I was hoping to hit my goal by today but i've been in a 3 week stall so I'm 3 lbs short of my goal but I'm thrilled with the results. Even if I don't go any lower--I'm happy with my size 12 self. Sorry for no pictures--I'm not very techy (need to work on that). Best of luck on your journey to those just starting out and continued success to the rest of us!! Lisa

1 Year ago today I had my sleeve surgery. It was the best decision I've ever made for my health--diabetes in remission; no longer have high blood pressure--off all medications and down 119 lbs. I was hoping to hit my goal by today but i've been in a 3 week stall so I'm 3 lbs short of my goal but I'm thrilled with the results. Even if I don't go any lower--I'm happy with my size 12 self. Sorry for no pictures--I'm not very techy (need to work on that). Best of luck on your journey to those just starting out and continued success to the rest of us!! Lisa

I don't know where there is a list but my suggestion is:
phone & charger
lip balm
and a pillow to keep around your stomach for the way home if you have a long ride home
you won't feel like reading etc so leave the ipad etc at home!
Congratulations--sounds like your surgery's coming soon----Lisa

Crystal---you'll be fine---I remember it is a really emotional time. Just act like you normally would, pretend it never happened and all will be well with your parents. You really are in the toughest time right now--it's gets easier after this so enjoy the journey, it's going to be great! Lisa

oh and they'll come around eventually. I think time will resolve it once they see how great
you'll be feeling over the next few months! good luck--Lisa

Some people are supportive; others are not. I was first hurt that my mother wasn't supportive but she's come around enough that we can meet in the middle. I do what's best for me and if she
doesn't understand that, then I've learned enough in the last few months to let it go.
From reading your post, it sounds like your parents show love with food. Maybe they just aren't
able to understand why you've made this choice and just can't relate. It doesn't mean that you
can't continue to be close--it just means that they continue to live their lives how they want
(even if it's not healthy; it's their choice) and you live yours the best way for you and your
son. You can't let them push you into unhealthy choices but it also sounds like they aren't open
for healthier choices in their lives and unfortunately, you have to accept their decision on that.
Good luck-- sounds like you just had surgery and it's an emotional time without dealing with this.Relax, pamper yourself, and try not to take it personally. Sounds like they love you alot or they wouldn't have come in the first place; just sounds like they may not understand all the
changes you have made & want to make in the future. Lisa

Some people are supportive; others are not. I was first hurt that my mother wasn't supportive but she's come around enough that we can meet in the middle. I do what's best for me and if she
doesn't understand that, then I've learned enough in the last few months to let it go.
From reading your post, it sounds like your parents show love with food. Maybe they just aren't
able to understand why you've made this choice and just can't relate. It doesn't mean that you
can't continue to be close--it just means that they continue to live their lives how they want
(even if it's not healthy; it's their choice) and you live yours the best way for you and your
son. You can't let them push you into unhealthy choices but it also sounds like they aren't open
for healthier choices in their lives and unfortunately, you have to accept their decision on that.
Good luck-- sounds like you just had surgery and it's an emotional time without dealing with this.Relax, pamper yourself, and try not to take it personally. Sounds like they love you alot or they wouldn't have come in the first place; just sounds like they may not understand all the
changes you have made & want to make in the future. Lisa