L-in-NJ

So what happens the next time you are at a family affair? You can't keep using the stomach virus excuse. Sometimes you just have to put your foot down with people and stand up for yourself. You don't have to be rude but be firm and let people know that you won't force your new lifestyle on them and they shouldn't force anything on you.

Well you've already said that they know you're dieting. Just stick with that and be firm when they insist on you breaking your diet. Just tell them your committed to it and you would appreciate if they didn't try to deter you.

Prayers for a speedy recovery Andrew. Hope you feel better soon.

The pain isn't as bad as you think. Of course everyone has different experiences but you can check with the surgeon and hospital to find out their pain management system. I am 11 days post op and I don't have any pain at this point. I stop taking pain meds the next day. I can sleep on my stomach and side again. I'm still cautious with my activity but no pain. Don't let fear stop you from doing what you know will give you the opportunity to live a better, healthier lifestyle. For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. 2 Timothy 1:7

It's better to quit now then have surgery and try to eat past your sleeve and risk serious complications. I remember reading another post where someone who was a nurse told the story of someone a week out of surgery eating a half chicken then dying from the complications. This is a serious lifestyle change and if you're not ready to commit then don't do it. I wish you all the best of luck in whatever journey you decide to take.

I went walking around the mall yesterday for exercise. It's way too cold to be outside in NJ. I'm now 10 days post op.

Your losing weight and that's all that matters. You shouldn't be worried. Everyone's results will vary based on their individual body types and other health issues. Don't be discouraged. You're doing just fine.

I'm 9 days post op and yesterday was the first day I was able to drink 64 oz. I increased my intake daily until I was finally able to do it. Hang in there. It will get better.

Why are you letting someone who's in the same situation as you make you feel bad about your brave decision to do something about your health? I wouldn't give a second thought to whoever it was. You're not doing this for people. You're doing this for YOU!!!

Yes and even when I'm not drinking lol

15lbs pre op 15lbs post op 30 pounds total Surgery date 12/4/13

Have you contacted your doctor? If not it sounds like that should be your next step. You need to make sure everything is ok. I pray & hope you feel better soon.

Just a question to those drinking so soon after surgery - Are any of you worried about dehydration? I'm not that much of a drinker so I can't relate to the feeling of having to have a drink but it seems pretty risky since alcohol makes you urinate more than if you just drank water or another liquid. I'm not trying to be judgmental. Just curious is all.

Happy Birthday!! Have a fabulous day!!

Thank you. I'm am feeling pretty good. Each day gets better. Just remember you're not alone in this. The people on this site are wonderful!

I was also sleeved on 12/4. Congrats on your new journey!! With that being said you are headed into unknown territory and it can be scary but you've prepared yourself for this by taking your nutrition classes and going thru all the pre-op prep. Speak to your nutritionist if you need to. Hang in there it will get better. I can't wait to see your posts 6 months from now.

Hang in there. It's a huge change and anxiety is understandable. You will be just fine. You've come too far to turn back now. Good luck tomorrow.

I also have pcos. I was fortunate not to have an issue prior to surgery but I was worried about it. Last time I lost weight it came on extremely heavy and for long periods of time. I was told its because fat stores estrogen and when you lose weight the estrogen gets released.

You look amazing!!!

I was sleeved on the 4th also and I had terrible gas pains as well. And you're right about the stomach spasms...ugh!!! However I am coming along well. I've actually been able to sleep on my side for 2 days and I'm much less sore each day. I'm still working in getting enough liquids but each day I get closer to goal. Today will be the first time in able to get in all my protein. I bought liquid protein shots to help me along. I hope by mid week to be able to reach both goals.

This was my tray. Nothing much. Just broth and Jello.

Just keep pushing. I'm going to pick up some liquid protein shots today so that I can start to trey to meet my protein requirements. I'm going to try Body Fortress from Walmart. It's 26g of protein in only 2.9 oz. I'll keep working on the fluids.

I'm still struggling with getting all my fluids & protein each day but it's increasing everyday. I'm hoping today still be the day I am able to start meeting all my requirements. My biggest fear is dehydration. I'm not worried yet because I do see progress on a daily basis.

I'm 4 days post op and I have to say a lot less sore than day 1 but still sore. Try holding a pillow in front of your stomach when you get up. Also I found that if I rely more on my arms than my stomach muscles to get up it is a lot less painful. Hope this helps.

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