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lyyzza

Gastric Bypass Patients
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    lyyzza reacted to Rogofulm in Stall?   
    Congratulations! You may be a little early, but you have reached The Dreaded Week-3 Stall. It's perfectly normal, and just about all of us have suffered through it. You're not crazy, and your doctor didn't screw up. In fact, you might not lose any weight for two weeks or even longer. But don't worry – after that, the weight will start falling off if you stick to your program. And, the inches will continue to come off even while the scale isn't budging. Here's a good article that explains why it happens and why we all have to go through it. Hang in there. Pretty soon it'll be in the rear-view mirror and you'll be dropping weight again!
    (Apologies to BP regulars who have seen this repeatedly, but it's a big deal to those who are going through it!)
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    lyyzza reacted to SuzeMuze in Friendships and Gastric bypass surgery   
    @@leag78
    I've read through your post several times, and will offer my thoughts with the disclaimer that it's not my intention to offend anyone. At. All.
    While I do believe that some friendships/relationship will change as a result of bariatric surgery, I think the causes can be quite different. I can't say that I've had the experience of a friend suddenly becoming jealous or try to sabotage what I'm trying to do- in fact, they've been some of my biggest cheerleaders. Then again, I'm not a young person anymore, which may come into play as well. My circle of friends and I are comfortably nestled into our 40's, and none of us play the part of the "hot friend". At the risk of stepping on any toes here, it's my thought that if one of my friends suddenly became distant or resentful of me making a decision to live a healthier life, I'd question the friendship itself. If it's a friendship that's really special to me, it would definitely be worth having a heart-to-heart to find out where the insecurities lie. Truth be told, weight loss seems to bring out a lot of insecurities in other people, just as our weight revealed a lot of our own insecurities. Friends who were once close can become distant. Significant others can suddenly feel left behind, wondering if you'll "trade up" once you've lost your weight. I try very hard to remain cognizant that while my decision to have WLS was primarily for health reasons, there may be those who only focus on the physical changes that accompany it. I would hate to see anyone go through relationship changes that are negative- but we're worth being good to ourselves, and removing not only the "toxic" food from our lives, but also the "toxic" people who can't understand what we're going through, or feel threatened by our decision. Just my 2 cents
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    lyyzza reacted to mduffield in Post-Op Weight Loss - New Around Here...   
    Stalls are very common. Don't feel alone in that! Stick to your plan, take a break from the scale and it'll at work out. I'll 2nd measurements - they change even when the scale doesn't. Happy losing!
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    lyyzza reacted to Big_Mama in Post-Op Weight Loss - New Around Here...   
    Ugh the same thing happened to me. But I bet if you measure yourself and compare to your measurements before surgery you've lost a few inches. Stalls suck, but they do happen, unfortunately! Congrats on the 19 lbs in 2 weeks! That's great!!
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    lyyzza reacted to Djmohr in Post-Op Weight Loss - New Around Here...   
    It is very common. It is called the three week stall. As long as you follow the plan (protein, liquids and exercise when u are able), the stall will break.
    It can be frustrating so if it really bothers you, stay off the scale for a week or two. There will be many more stalls along the way.
    Good luck!

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