Its important to remember that you are the one who chose to have the surgery, not your family, and remember your reasons for doing so. Your family will continue to eat what they will and you have to be strong and keep your "eye on the prize"! My husband had chinese for supper last night and I said that sometimes I hate that I cant eat what I want. He said, " do you hate that you have lost over 50 lbs in 3 months?" Of course I dont! We will FOREVER have those feelings but our reasons for having this life changing surgery should outweigh them. Best wishes and hang in there. Be nice to your family! They are the only family youve got!