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Totally agree with the above most. Especially if she did him wrong an dumped him, if she has a problem with it then she ain't a good friend.

He doesn't do all the house work he never does dishes sometimes does clothes I think that's my other issues he doesn't do the house husband thing. If I'm the one working he should be doing all of it and me some on my days off. But he is not.

Where to begin this might be lengthy but I need outsiders opinion. I been with my boyfriend six years he has worked off and on but mostly hasn't worked. I love him and he does some house work and helps with our 2 kids. He is a good man to me but as I am getting older I want things like a nice house and to live comfortable. He has a GED but no education beyond that. I have a college degree and support all of us and I'm just sick of it. He lost his license and has been driving my car and all I can think if he gets pulled over or wrecks it I have no money to fix it or get it out of impound an I work an hour away so I need my car. It's 300 to get his lose de back so once I start making money again since I been off for surgery I will have to pay it. He isn't known for his good driving or lack of crashes. He has been looking for work but not as much as I would be if I didn't have a job. He has changed a lot since we first got together he is a way better man but I'm sick of supporting him but I love him and have told him he needs to find work to help out. My question is am I being shallow cuz money is the issue? I'm sick of working so hard and not getting ahead and I went to college to better myself and not be broke, what should I do? I want all opinions nice or not.

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Good job, I mostly smoked at work and had quit the day before surgery and had not smoked for 4 weeks bought a pack last week and smoked my first day back at work and thought to myself what am I doing I could get a bleeding ulcer and this is so unhealthy. I want to be healthy so no smoking for me. You sound like yer making better choices its hard.

How frustrating its only been a week for me and I'm going mad, a month ugh. At least yer clothes are getting lose, your probable gaining muscle ya know it weighs more then fat with how your working out. I find it hard to even work out 3 times a week.

Yeah it's frustrating and I'm nauseous and tired and I called in to work today kinda regretting surgery the last couple days but I know it will get better trying to be positive. I think I hate my job too right now.

That last post was for Lester.

Guys lose so much faster then girls which I hate but if ya exercise and eat what your suppose to I bet you'll have it off in less then 6 months. That's just what I think though best wishes to you.

Ugh so I got down to 236 a week ago and went back up to 238 and have been there all week. Been working out getting my protein an water in not eating anything I'm not suppose to I knew this time would come where I would stall but ugh it's a poopy feeling to know yer doing everything right and not losing weight. Have lost 32 pounds in 4 weeks which I know is awesome but ugh come on scale. Been trying to do more with myself makeup an doing my hair which I didn't do before to feel better, it's amazing how much the scale has over you. Been debating throwing my scale out and just forget weighing myself.

Yeah my pre op nurse says it leads to bleeding ulcers I stopped the day before surgery went a whole month without smoking and bought a pack on my way to work the other day and had a few but quit again today it's so not worth it, I want to be healthy inside and out.

Yup getting all my protein, I should of went back at 6 weeks now that I'm back to work and realizing how much mental and physical work I have to do I'm just not ready yet but it's to late have already started back. Will do the best I can to make it through I need the money to I am the only income in my house and had no short term disability. Just got my bill from the hospital have to pay 744 dollars for surgery and hospital stay, to my surprise without insurance it would of cost me close to 43000 thank you health benefits.

You need veggies I been getting mine in through V8 Juice, protein is important but so are veggies and fruits. So eat it blend it juice it but u need it.

I agree your body lets ya know when ya need a break

4 weeks ago

So I have been at work for 5 hours and feel like poop. Suppose to do a 12 hours and no way can I to nauseated and fatigued so I told them I am going home at 8 hours, gunna see if I can do just 8 hour shifts the rest of the week. I work in a ER as an RN and let me tell ya if ya don't have energy your screwed. Going to see my doc tomorrow about my fatigue.

Yeah I'm totally opposite no energy at all, I suffer from chronic fatigue have lost 34 pounds was hoping my energy would of gone up with some weight loss but not yet.

I went and bought some Prilosec today and will beta king twice a day hopefully it works I go back to work in 4 days so I'm am screwed if this doesn't help ugh

So the feeling of my stomach eating itself is getting worse it actually starting to hurt and make me nauseous. I don't know what it could be it doesn't get better with food or worse. Been taking my Zantac every day so I would think it to be stomach acid issues. I'm just kinda lost....

I been dumping the last 15 Mins man does this suck , pray for me

Maybe your losing fat but gaining muscle at the same time and muscle weights more then fat.

I was told not to drink 5 min before eating not 30 that seems like a little to much time to me, your pouch shouldn't hold fluid for longer then 5 mins I would think.

What kind if birth control where ya using?

You probable should talk to your Surgeon and Primary Doctor about this, esp lower legs going numb that is not normal.

I conquer today and the last couple days have sucked for me I'm tired unmotivated to do anything and have a HA non stop, hoping like I don't feel like this forever.