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I have found there is a LOT of variation of size in misses clothing. When I was in womens clothes an 18w was an 18w pretty much the same no matter the store... now, I can wear anything from a 4 to an 8 American Eagle jeans in a size 8 look amazing on me now, and I am happy with that. My original goal was to get to 175 pounds, but I adjusted that when I hit that WAY faster than me or my doctors expected... moved my goal to be in the 130's somewhere and I'm now hovering in the mid 140's and I've been here for two months... at about a year I am thinking that this is where I will be naturally without trying to be concious of what I eat (because I'll admit- I eat what I want, when I want, just only a bite or two!) and I am ok with that. I would love to see the 130's but I had this surgery so I could live and love a normal life... and thats exactly what I have now. I eat with my family, go out to dine with friends, and unless you know me personally you probably wouldn't realize I've even had this surgery. Yes, I eat small portions, but I have figured out ways to not make it so obvious to everyone. I don't get sick hardly ever now (I did a LOT in the first 6 months) because I have learned what foods just don't sit well with me and I naturally avoid them. I love my post sleeve life, because I finally know what it is like to be normal.

I feltthe same way at 3 months post op. Now at almost 11 months post op I am starting to battle head hunger again... I know I am not actually hungry, but I often get the urge to snack... this surgery is a tool, not a quick fix. I am down 110lbs now. start weight 255 and currently 145

your surgeon sounds like a real jerk, and treating patients like that is going to kill someone. Yes, the first 6 months the weight just falls off with little to no effort, but you do continue loosing up until 18 months, though much slower. I lost about 80 lbs the first 6 months, and have lost almost 30 more. In total I have lost 110lbs as of this morning. your doctor is crazy about telling you to work out and burn that many calories. I don't even eat 1000 calories a day, why would I want to burn everthing I take in, your body still needs energy to survive. I would check into his stats... with advise like that he's going to kill someone.

Tami, Wow, thank you so much. This means a lot to me that my sister and I could inspire someone to be closer to their loved ones because to her and I family was the most important thing. I am so blessed that while her story was very short, my sister had a beautiful life. A husband that loved her so much, beautiful kids, and she was truly my best friend. I will miss her forever, gosh how I'll miss her. I thought I would share with you all the uligy I shared at her funeral, maybe that would let you all see a little more our bond, and the beautiful person she was. Over the past few days there has been one thing that has stood out to me, the leaves on the tree. Its so amazing to me that the leaves are at their most beautiful just before they fall, watching the leaves fall reminds me that while we all wish we could go back in time, time moves forward and we can’t change the past. The leaves turn bright vibrant colors, they fall, we muddle through winter and then there is spring. Today I want to say for Sherrie that we all need to look forward to spring. The most beautiful leaf on the tree has fallen and while we all wish we could have paused time to hold her forever, time is going to move on. We’re all in a state of shock and disbelief and like winter, we must muddle through. But- in all of this, I can promise there will be spring. Sherrie is my big sister, My only sister. Sherrie was my very first friend, my very best friend. She held my tiny hand when I came home from the hospital as a newborn, dipped my binky in honey and slept under my crib for nights on end. As we grew up sherrie has always been there to hold my hand. Sherrie was the tough one, the one who I could count on to be there no matter what the circumstances. She watched me grow up, taught me how to stand up for myself, and held my hand through every milestone in life. She was by my side when Savannah was born, and I will cherish the memory of her smile for eternity. I will miss my sissy with my whole heart, and today I send part of my heart to heaven with her. To Jason: I want to say thank you. You loved my sister for her, all of her. I know today that while her story was cut too short, she really did marry her prince charming and get to experience a fairytale love. I cannot thank you enough for loving her the way you do. None of us can take the pain from you that your feeling, but please know that we all love you so much and are all so grateful for all you did, and how you love my big sister. To mom and dad: You have lost a precious gem. There are no words anyone can say to make your pain go away, but I also want to thank you. Thank you for your loving, supporting, and encouraging her. Thank you for my sister. Sherrie loved you both so much. She made you proud. She was a wonderful mother, no doubt due to everything she learned from you two growing up. To my sisters beautiful childern: The most important thing I want the three of you to remember is just how much your mommy loves you. Bubby: You are your mommy’s miracle. She was young when you were born, but let me tell you bubby, the love in her eyes when she looked at you is indescribable. You gave your mommy wings, and for you she strived to be the best she could be. She is so proud of you, and will be watching and guiding you from heaven forever. Little Joe: You are your mommy’s spunk. You came into the world and the way you made your mommy smile, there just isn’t anyone who could make her smile like you. You made your mommy so proud, She loved to watch you explore, and learn and work that inquisitive little mind of yours. Mommy loves you so much and will always be with you. BooBoo- Oh boo, You are your mommy’s girl. Everything about you reminds me of her. Your smile, your big heart, your honestly, and your love… you get that all from your mom. Your mommy was over the moon excited when we found out you were on your way. She has big dreams for you baby girl, and I want you to always remember just how special you are. Mommy loves you. She is your guardian Angel and from this point forward you will never be alone. To all of our friends and family that have come here today, I thank you. Thank you for helping us send Sherrie to heaven with the love of her family and friends. Remember my sister, when you see the leaves fall each year. I love you sissy.

So, Just wondering if any of you might be having the same issue. Since I am now down 109.5 lbs (from 255 to 145.5) since May 8th, 2013 I am having a really really hard time sitting. At all. any time I sit, no matter where it is my tailbone hurts so bad. I can sit threw dinner, but thats about as long as I can stand to sit. Even sitting in bed hurts so bad. We went to a movie Friday and I nearly cried when I stood up because it hurt that bad. Anyone else, any tips? My mom said when she was really thin she had this problem too, and she just took a pillow everywhere with her to sit on... but even that hurts! Please tell me this will get better! BTW here are my stats: Pre-OP- 255lbs size 18-22 surgery May 8th Currently 145.5 lbs and in a loose size 8 Goal: 135

Hi Everyone, sorry its taken me a while to update. We now have a definite cause of death. It was not labeled a "direct" result of the surgery, but it is related to her condition afterwards, for which she was offered little to no care until it was too late. I am not sure her husband will do anything legally, its all just so much for him right now. Last Friday we went and picked her headstone out, and ordered it. That was hard. We should have done it sooner, but we all just needed time, and I'm still not sure we're ready to see it "written in stone" but I want something marking her grave so her children and mine can have it for the future. I am trying to move on. I went two weekends ago and had her heartbeats and the words "let her go" tattoo'd on my left rib cage right under my bra line. It was an awesome experience, and seeing that each day lets me know she is always by my side. I am trying to get back to myself. I am now down to 145.5 pounds, wearing a loose size eight. I think soon I will move into the 6's. I am trying to get back into the swing of life, get back to myself and the way I do things. I made my house menu, did my grocery shopping for a full two weeks (I used to have a strict menu and shopping list, but since she died, we've just been throwing something together for dinner each night and its killing our budget) so, I got back to my normal way I run the house. I broke the plateau I was at (I had been stuck at 147-148 for a month) and I am trying to stay on top of work, family life, and trying to heal all at the same time. It's still hard. Harder than anything I've ever done. Ever. But- each day I wake up and I am thankful for the chance to live, the chance to kiss my kids, to tell them I love them, and to be with my family. If this has done nothing else, it has brought our family so much closer. Her husband and I are so close, and I pray we stay that way. Lord knows I need him. Her kids are my precious treasures. I just love them so much. So, thats where I'm putting my energy, into the family for now. I'll try to keep you all updated. Thanks for all your thoughts and prayers.

haha, it gets better but I can honestly say almost 10 months later my tummy still talks a LOT! its loud, really loud. It often gets to talking when I really wish it wouldn't... like work, or when hubby and I are spending some quality time together... nothing ruins the mood like the sounds of digestion!

I don't feel like this is "it" either. I have hit a plateau really bad lately. I haven't lost anything for about a month now...

I am 5-5.5 I hope to see 135, I think that puts me safely in the 130's with a little wiggle room. I need to start working out, I plan ot join a gym here in the next two week, just have to wait until my new tattoo heals

I had the same feeling in the pre-op area... almost got dressed and walked out... Everyone has to make an informed choice. Its a big decision. Nothing wrong with postponing to take some time to think about it if you think you need to. I would rather see someone wait a few extra weeks and make the right choice for them, then rush into something they regret.

Congrats! wehad our surgeries done around the same time and our start weights were almost the same too! I had my VSG May 8th Start weight 255 Current weight 148 Goal 130's (even if its 139, I want to see the 130's!!!) Congrats! What size are you into now? I started in a 20-22 (well, I was squeezing into an 18 but needed that 20-22!) and now I zip right into an 8!!!

I had a lot of pain and oozing from my wounds post op, come to find out I don't do well with the type of stiches they used so rather than them dissolving like they should, my body was "spitting them out" it was painful, and looked horrible. I went on a mild antibiotic just to be sure they didn't get infected, but after the strings came out they healed just fine

I have noticed I am treated WAY different in public. Sales people are nicer, I can go into any store and not get the "why are you in this store, you must be shopping for a gift" look... Thighs not rubbing together... or even touching for that matter. My jeans no longer start to wear in the thighs first. When I bought a size EIGHT jeans from American Eagle (my moment!) when my husband holds me... I feel small in his arms now. When my six year old hugs me and lights up and says "mommy I can hug you all the way now!" meaning her hands can reach all the way around me.. I still have a bit to loose, I am considered "normal" for the BMI range now, but I'd like to get into the 130's. I was 148 last time I weighed earlier this week so not too far to loose for my "end goal"!

you CAN safely get pregnant at this stage. I JUST got the ok from my surgon myself. She did advise me to wait until 18 months post op as there are no studies relating to the effect of pregnancy on your long term weight loss success before 18 months. I will be waiting until 18 months post op before we stop preventing. We are not even 100% sure we will have another, but at a minimum I will be preventing for the first 18 months. She did say there is no risk to me or the baby should we get pregnant now, just no guarentees on the long term success of the surgery at that point. I have reached my doctors goal plus some at this point. I am about 10 pounds away from my personal goal. I started at 255, currently at 148. My doctors goal was to be around 155, my goal is to get into the 130's. I am just over 9 months out, and I have two children as well. Mine are 3 years 10 months apart, and if we get pregnant right around 18 months post op my last two will be the same! I can't say much about having three as I only have two, but my sister had three (all two years apart) and when they were itty bitty it was hard because your out numbered all the time, but now that they are older its a breeze. She passed away from this surgery, so I have her kids a lot and they are teenagers. Having three is not an issue except they are expensive! lol.

I agree with a lot of post sleevers, at the three week mark I think we all felt some of what your feeling, but I can tell you I have had the picture perfect healing and results, and at almost 9 months out I feel normal again. I feel so normal that sometimes I worry that I'll gain all the weight back, but then I look at what I am eating and my portions and realize that while I am eating way less and making better choices I feel just as satusfied as I did before the surgery when I would eat. I will admit- I don't diet. I eat what I want, but I eat so much less of anything that at just over 8 months out I am down 107lbs. I went from 255 to 148 size 22 to an 8. I live a normal life, I go out with family and friends, I enjoy good food, just less of it! you'll get there, there are some foods I still have a hard time with but I naturally don't want them because my brain has learned that those things make me feel unwell so I don't crave them. Like Ketchup... I LOVED it before the surgery, and now I don't crave it ever because I know it makes my tummy hurt. Its amazing what your brain can do. Once your body adjusts you'll feel much better/