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Roserie

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  1. What did everyone's full liquid diet look like after surgery? I don't see my surgeon until the 8th so I'm following the diet according to my program. Saturday I can start full liquids. My main ideas were Protein Shakes, sf pudding, Greek yogurt, thinned oatmeal and cream of wheat (the last 2 were listed in my book on the full liquid sample menu but I've heard some people say this may be too hard to digest this early out). Is there anything else I could add in? It's only for a week and then I start a 2wk pureed diet. I can't wait for these foods, I'm feeling exhausted and weak on the Clear Liquids.< /span>


  2. I really find this so sad that this young girl is now retracting what she said because she feels some sort of guilt over coming out and telling what happened. It is obvious that the story is true and like many victims of sexual harassment she is being made to feel like it is her fault. I really feel for the OP' date=' I understand that she is an adult and she was not forced into this but this was a complete abuse of power on the doctors part, taking advantage of someone's vulnerability. This guy is pathetic and will not stop what he is doing because what was said has now been retracted. I really hope that his behavior does not escalate into something worse.[/quote']

    Please tell me how she isn't at fault when she slept with him 4 days after meeting him.....she is a grown woman and knew what she was doing. She is upset it didn't turn into a relationship like she wanted and in turn could have completely screwed this mans career. Ya, he shouldn't be a douchebag sleeping with different women while in a relationship but that doesn't mean he should potentially lose his job because neither of them could keep it on their pants. Makes me wonder how many other guys she has jumped into bed with and then screwed up their life when it didn't pan out.

    Latin people are generally more flirty than Americans. Just because someone is flirty doesn't mean they are a womanizer. She was the one that allowed it to go farther than it should have. Acting like it was sexual harassment is ridiculous. Should he have known better than to take it further with a current patient? Ya. Should she have not slept with some random guy she didn't know? Yup. None of us have seen the correspondence between them and don't really know who pursued who. They are both at fault. Just because he can't keep his junk in his pants doesn't mean he is a bad dr (everything I've read about him states otherwise) he is just a bad person personally. It's none of anyone's business what he does in his personal life as long as he isn't raping women and forcing them into things that they arent choosing to do.


  3. I lied. I took his flirting with me in TJ to mean more then it was. From these posts you can see how easy it could happen - woman are now saying he tried it with them because he "touched their arm" or "said they were beautiful" I don't want people to second guess the care they received. I know he flirts w everyone but I read it as more than it was and got it in my head that he liked me. I think We did have a connection and at a time where I was most vulnerable. I took this too far and it's spiralled out of control - i only wanted speculation and for him to know I was mad' date=' not everyone! I didn't want his name out there. But costing his career is too much , he is as I HAVE stated before, a very good Dr and I don't want to take that reputation away from him because of my bipolar behaviour ... I'm not a troll but also have no evidence he has slept w any patients. But this punishment doesn't fit the crime. I took it the wrong was and felt rejected and stupid when he set me straight. I just want to retract my claim we slept together and apologise to the other Drs and company because none of them deserved this backlash, i didn't think it through before I posted and didn't think about who else would get hurt by it.. I'm sorry to everyone effected[/quote']

    *blinks* really? The damage is done.


  4. Exactly' date=' what if this was one of your love ones would you still feel like this was really no big deal?[/quote']

    I would say the same thing to a friend. I don't think anyone should be sleeping with a guy 4 days after meeting him. He didn't bribe her and he didn't force her into it. They went out on a date, she let him in her pants and then he blew her off. That's like me going and dating one of the drs at my othropedic office, sleeping with him and when it didn't pan out I go tell his boss and try to get him fired.


  5. For shitsakes.. Have a little compassion? Not everyone is as experienced with ass hole men as you seem to be.

    I have compassion for women that are taken advantage of and forced into situations. Being that I was sexually assaulted when I was younger by someone who I trusted and made me believe it was my fault and that I wasn't allowed to tell anyone. For 2yrs I was held in fear of outing him. It wasn't until I was 25 that I told anyone. But willing doing something with someone that quickly after meeting someone is the fault of the parties involved.


  6. I didn't bother reading the entire thread but what I gather is you were incapable of keeping your legs closed and are pissed off you got played by some guy. Little advice, don't sleep with guys you hardly know and then get upset when he doesn't stick around.

    It would be one thing to come on here and tell people to watch out if this guy forced you to have sex with him, but he didn't. I'm sure this isn't the first time some guy has done this and probably won't be the last if you so freely give it up. You willingly slept with him, he turned out to be the typical jerkoff guy who just wants sex from girls. Move along and keep your cooter in your pants until you are in a committed relationship or don't get pissed when all a guy wants from you is sex.


  7. I am from Allentown as well. My surgeon was Dr Harrison at Lehigh Valley Hospital. I was sleeved 3-19. When I woke up in recovery the first thing they said was "happy birthday to the new you"! The OR and recovery staff were great.

    I love Dr Harrison. He is my surgeon. He did my endoscopy last week and was great the entire time. He will be doing my sleeve July 19th.


  8. I went and had spicy chinese the other night, though we really only eat it once every few months I wanted to have it one last time in-case I can't eat it in the distant future. I've read a lot of people have a hard time with both chinese food and spicy foods (I will be so sad if I can no longer stomach spicy foods) post-op that I wanted to enjoy it while I could. I plan to have fast food one last time, one last meal where I have a beer/appetizer/entree/dessert/coffee with my fiance at Longhorn Steakhouse and I'll probably have some m&m's and a pepsi before I start my pre-op diet at the beginning of July.


  9. They usually submit to insurance once you complete the program. For example, I had to do a 3mth program through Lehigh Valley weight Management. My last appointment with them was May 22nd. I went up against the review board May 30th. They approved me and then submitted to insurance and I was approved through insurance about a week ago. I met with my surgeon on May 30th and they scheduled my endoscopy for June 19th and my surgery for July 15th. This was the first available surgery appointment my dr had.

    Edit to add that the Lehigh Valley Weight Management center has a review board that meets at the end of each month, could be different approval process for different dr's.


  10. You only need an extra 300 calories in your first trimester, 350 in your second and 500 in your last to maintain your weight. Though the dr may be concerned about making sure the baby is getting enough nutrients to be healthy. I would discuss it with a NUT and see what they suggest. The weight usually falls off after the baby is born if you are breast feeding. I lost 30lbs in 2mths breast feeding after I had my son. Congrats!

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