It's very, very hard. I'm 4 weeks post op and I got so frustrated at the tiniest things. And I just wanted to eat, but of course I couldn't. It's a little analogous to how it feels to get dumped by an ex. Alone, hopeless, feeling like it will feel this awful forever. But I just kept telling myself that the way I'm feeling is normal, it gets better, and eventually goes away all together
I'm doing much better now, and I'm beginning to see changes in how I look, and the hard times seem like they happened years ago.
Hang on. What you're feeling is normal and very temporary.