TinyMamiOf3kids

Also if they do try a nutrionist/dietician

Sorry ladies this is horrible. If you have a chance of dying can they revise the surgery?

I though your stomach stats the size if an eye forever?

Love your attitude

My husband got used to the weight gaining thru out the marriage but I don't think he loves it. He loves me but I don't think he would had thought my weight would get so high. I got surgery for my self. No one especially my hubby told me to lose weight. I did it for me & I'm saving to lift my arm-boobs-tummy tuck. I want to feel good about my self & being fat never made me feel good but I'm loving my self now. Hubby seems to love it also. I think the way I was behaving was pushing him away from me. I wanted no sex tmi sorry if he came in the shower I was like go away. I was wearing big clothes hiding my self. Would eat fast food in my car. Didn't want anyone to see me. I felt nasty. Now that I feel good I don't mind being nude having sex. My husband kisses me now it's been months of leave me alone with twice a month sex maybe. I think any men wants there wife more then ever looking good & feeling good about her self.

Let me check vita coco one hundred percent coconut water eleven point one oz 15 grams of sugar but remember I only had it once.

My surgeon didn't say not to drink OJ but it's like a little in the morning & sometimes evening & it's Water down OJ has fithy percent less sugar.

I like your way of thinking. I was 135lbs 15 years ago. No matter what other ppl say having kids put weight on me & lots of it. I always ate like no tomorrow,but not all day,but let's say there was hardly any left overs. Had kids thought I can continue eating like always. I started gaining weight. Got asthma within a few years. Had 2 more kids,and had a back injury at work. Gain more weight. Starting having problems with my knees. I decided I had enough of being fat. So if my husband is enjoying me losing weight I'm glad & happy. I'm sure he finds me attractive no matter what,but everyone looks better slimmer. My big stomach have always bother me so just imagine it gone. I will have the best sex ever.

Your welcome.. You fit in just fine When I started I jumped right in,and felt welcome & so many support up moments & down moments. It's a great group to be in. We all need people that been threw all steps of surgery. We get good ideas what to eat,and how to manage food intake. Look around check it out.

I'm also on popsicle,lipton soup ceamy cup soup Water down,carnation instand breakfast,water,OJ,diet snapple,sometimes coconut water. It's not easy and with this lack of food I'm surprise I'm not already skinny.

My stomach also growls for food. It's very normal. HUH! I want to be 125lbs already it's taking for ever. I know someone in this group lost over 20 pounds in 10 days like... Wish it was me,but I know everyine is different.

Didn't know which one to pick. Add me if you like.

The only blond lingerie I saw when I check the wall it said I'm a whore bla bla bla..... lolz i'm like must be the wrong blond. feel free to add me

True if your married there's no reason to be flirting,but also if your just thanking someone for saying your beautiful nothing wrong with that. Being friendly & nice can be confused for flirting. I was driving yesterday,and a guy let me make my left turn he could had kept going because I didn't have the right away. 30 pounds before I would be waiting there till there's no car to let me make a left turn. 3 guys try to talk to me & smile politly & kept it moving. I was 211 pounds feeling depress sad,and my husband always wanted me but I wasn't getting the attention I want. BAM!!! I lose 30 pounds in a short time,and men are checking me out. My husband wants me all the time. Who wouldn't feel good??? I'm not skinny yet,but I feel so damn sexy-attractice,and having people even let me make my turn as a driver. I feel like the hottest thing.

How nice. Nothing feels good then to get slim & enjoy it. I'm been a size 16 for a while. I wanna see size 13 hat's the smallest size I been. Anything smaller is a miracle.

You look really good.

Welcome & yes we have a lot of people on this group. All kinds of people in different weight stage. Some waiting others had the surgery. Some deny,and trying again. One thing about this group we are very active,and if you say "My foot hurts" someone will reply in less then 1 hour. We support each other because remember this surgery is forever,and if you never cheat you will be a success.

I think it is.

My scale been stuck at 181. Since Friday... Is it too early for me to be complaining? I'm like 9/10 days post up.

Alright sexy!

You have more strength then me. I'm forgiving,but only to a certain point. I believe in the saying once a cheater always a cheater,but I guess people are intitle to change. Do you think if he was put on a lie detector test he would pass? I been with my husband over 16 years,and OMG!!! we have issues like no tomorrow,but my cuca is good enough for him,and no need to go else where. I'm 9 days post-up,and what man waits 3 weeks for sex? If I don't give it to him I sure don't want him getting it else where. Since I now lost 30pounds the sex is just getting better. We can't get enough of each other. I feel so sexy & so alive... So wanted.. So needed... So delicious... lolz.. I'm sorry this happen to you. I hope my husband doesn't turn around with his jealousy like before. He can have me anytime so our marriage will only get better. I'm already a good wife cook dinner 7 days a week 3 meals per day,and I'm a good housekeeper. So hopefully we will have more fun when I'm slim. I'm tired of being fat.

Yes it's true

Well Summer, I don't think flirting is an issue. Men think they know it all & can control it all. Just give him more sex that should keep him happy.

Thanks