Welcome!! I am new to this forum and just joined 2day! I am 30 years no kids and I am trying 2 prevent those things you mentioned from happening 2 me! I think u r a very brave women! I am getting mines done in Mexico and the only reason why I even considered getting mines done is because the doctor where I had my Tt done in Mexico had the sleeve done there at the hospital and I feel like if he was able to put his trust in the surgeon there and get it done with all the other option he had then I feel safe with getting mines done as well! Goodluck:-)