I'm sorry yes alot may disagree with what in about to say but I agree with all the above, TRuE there is alot if great advice on here but alot of times I stay so stressed out now reading the bad that has happened an plain scared to death : is this gonna happen to me and when is my feelings a majority of the time. Please don't get me wrong I have leaned ALoT from this sight more than I ever would I just need to learn to listen to my own band an stop comparing to others. I also have a problem of worrying for the people that have problems I feel like they are family now. If I offended anyone this want my intentions at all !!