You are very wise my friend!
I did have a lot of love around, very big family all live close by. Hub of 40yrs 11/10, two great daughters, three grandkids, but when no one was around (close), I worried a lot and became bored.
Head hunger kicked in and if icing was the only sweet treat, icing it was.
I finally got to the point in life where I started to worry about me. I knew I wouldn't be around for them, if I didn't do something about me. So 2012 began the year of me and I'm so much happier.
It goes against everything I ever believed. I believed in giving until it hurts, but came to realize, hey its killing you. There is a limit. Got rid of toxic people in my life and learn to say no, I don't want to do that.
Thank you for letting me unload on you!
It must be the moon.lol