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twoplusone227

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  1. As a matter of fact, I have one in right now. It comes out on Thursday at my first follow-up appointment. I'm dreading that "weird" feeling and what they'll do to close up the area. Yikes!!

    From what I understand, it's there to drain the excess Fluid (saline) that's put in the abdomen during surgery. It's gross; but easy to care for. I just can't wait to get it out.

    Good luck!


  2. Hello everyone.

    I had my surgery on Oct 1st and, I think I'm doing as well as expected.

    I have a question for the recently sleeved. I'm having what I would describe as internal tremors or chills. In not sure if this is normal. I should mention that I still have the drain in my side until my first post-op visit. It's secure; but I can't help but wonder if the chills are related to the drain or if I have pneumonia. This would be worst case scenario.

    Is anyone experiencing the same?

    Thanks for your feedback.


  3. Hi everyone. I feel really awkward about asking this one; but here goes.

    My surgery is this Monday, the 1st. Yay! And I just got my period yesterday. Boo! First, I never thought about this before. But, can I still have surgery. I'm thinking blood loss. Yikes.

    Also, they have me cleaning myself with those wipes the night before and the morning of surgery. Do I need to explain more? I can't imagine not properly grooming before surgery. Any advice? Sorry.


  4. Good for you!!!! That's a big step. I am on day 6 of preop and I feel good. Empowered actually. I want this so bad I keep remembering what I've read on here.Skinny will feel better than the food slip-up will taste. I find it difficult when feeding the kids...not eating or tasting the leftovers from their plates. Being focused does make me notice all these little things I wouldn't count before.

    Forgot my lunch and snack shakes at home today. Thank goodness there's a GNC near work. I ran over and bought some prechilled Lean Protein shakes. Pheww.

    I had that happen on day 1 and ended up going home and microwaving a piece of

    unseasoned boiled chicken because I was so famished. But, fortunately, I've been doing well for the most part.

    Thanks for the support! And, yes, I'll have to imagine the "world" on the other side since I've never been a skinny mini. Lol

    awk


  5. Hi there! Day 7 of pre-op and it's been quite a struggle for me; mentally for the most part. However, I do have one good thing to report.

    I just left costco with my Protein supply. But, that's not the good part. I didn't ****** up any samples! Yay! Or pizza. Yay! I was so afraid to go because I didn't believe I could say no to them.

    With that said, Oct 1st can't come soon enough! Lol


  6. You're 4 (more like 3) days away. Congrats!! I'm just closing my 4th day and I'm feeling the same way. My surgery is Oct 1st. Rather than sulk in the corner, I'm trying to face my fears by continuing to cook, for the family, foods I can no longer eat. It's so depressing.

    But, adding to your point, does taste testing count? Will that compromise the shrinking of the liver? Good question. I'd also like to know...

    If I made my own Soup and blended the solid veggies down until liquid, is this okay for the pre-op liquid diet or is it strictly broth?

    Cheers!


  7. I'm having the vsg on the Fort Carson Army base. He said the recovery tends to be easier. I have large breast and he said with the 5 incisions I would have a incision at the top of my tummy and I figured that would suck because my boobs rest on my belly where the incision would be. He's done several single incision surgeries and I'm confident that I wont have any problems. Plus he said that none of them developed hernias' date=' so I'm confident that I more than likely wont either.[/quote']

    Hey there. Ask your surgeon to talk to the surgeons at Walter Reed in Bethesda, MD about learning the single incision method. Lol. I'll be getting my sleeve done there on Oct 1 and I'm dreading the pain from the incisions and going home with the drain. Yikes!

    Best to you


  8. October 1st surgery date here in Houston at park plaza hospital with dr. Sherman Yu of TLC Surgery. Start my 14 day liquid pre-op diet on Monday. I'm down 28lbs since August 2nd and shooting for another 15lbs before surgery. Still have questions... Avg nights stay in hospital and work days missed? Any suggestions for a post op shopping list? Its great to read all the October posts! Good luck to everyone!!

    Oct 1st here too! Yippee!! I'm embarrassed to say that it's been like "the last supper" for the entire weekend; like my last meal that I'll ever get. Lol. Like you, I'll start my pre-op diet tomorrow and I'm trying to stay optimistic about it. You asked about avg night stay and missed work days. I was told that I'll be in for 3 days and will have a note for up to two weeks of leave. The missed days will likely depend on my progress. My surgeon says that its common to feel extremely tired after the initial recovery period and, of course, you'll be on medication.

    Hope this helps. Congrats and a speedy recovery!


  9. I know there is an October group here somewhere but I thought I would start this off by introducing ourselves!

    I'm 25 years old and from British Columbia, Canada. My surgery is set for October 2. My pre op ensure shake diet starts September 2 but I have started a week early for a head start ;) I am

    A nurse by profession and engaged but no kids. With my history of PCOS kids will come after I drop the weight. Starting weight: 280lbs Current Weight: 275 and losing everyday!!

    Hi there. Looks like your surgery is right around the corner. I was waiting on the sidelines, until TODAY! I'm right before you, Oct 1st, and reality is slowly setting in. We have a similar starting weight too. I wish you the best in your surgery, in your recovery, and in your new life!! Cheers!


  10. Damn the days seems so long. I cant wait for that day to b tomorrow. I got my secound appt on sept 6 and yes i will get my surgery date. But the wait is sooooooo looooonnnggggg. The lady that sckedules say end of nov beggining of dec. i mean as long as i can start 2013 on a new foot great.

    Who else is in this waiting room with me..

    I'm in the waiting zone too and I can't stand it. I could probably understand it if I were waiting for appointments. But, I got through all of the requirements rather quickly. I'm pretty much waiting for the doctors to catch up. One never put notes in my record, then went on vacation, so I had to see another Cardiologist. Then, my Psych wasn't a Psych. She signed off on my surgery; but wasn't authorized to because she's a LCSW. So, I ended up having to go back to see an actual Psych and now I'm waiting for his notes. It sucks b/c I thought I did everything right and met with my surgeon 3-weeks ago to get my date only to be sent back to the drawing board.

    I feel your pain. The wait is agonizing! Good luck!


  11. Not goin to lie scared out of my mind I'm a 30 male weigh bout 350 5"9 in height and a smoker trying to quit

    I think it's great that you're brave enough to take control of your life. You'll be equally as brave going into the surgery and coming out as you begin your journey. Haven't seen too many men on the forums; but I know they exist. Thanks for sharing and sending prayers up for you for a speedy recovery!

    Best to you!


  12. The best is, recenty, I've started to reply to these things sternly saying, "Reserve your comments for someone else. I don't want to hear it." And his response is, "Ooh! Why are you do sensitive?". I give him a blank stare and think of saying, "Because you're an idiot and your words hurt my feelings." Instead, I just walk away confidently without a word.

    Anyways, at the end of the day, this is my journey because it's my health. Yes, I'll need his help and support along the way; but I need to keep my goal in perspective.

    Good luck everyone!


  13. Some people seem to think that losing weight is easy, and that all you have to do is diet, and exercise.... My Hubby is one of them. Although, I am so thankful that he agreed to pay for my upcoming procedure, July 27th, I know that he thinks it's insane, and drastic, that I am having SURGERY to lose weight. But, then, I also know that he looks at me differently since having our child, and gaining this weight. I'm a stay at home Mother of a rambunctious two year old. I have no time to exercise. My child is constantly under my feet, or glued to my side. I LOVE my child with all my heart, but, I can't focus on myself since becoming a Mother. I've tried losing weight other ways, and it doesn't work. Anyhow, my point is that I think many of us have partners who aren't as supportive as they could be. I'd love to go into my procedure feeling like he supported me. But, I know that isn't going to happen. I have decided to seek counseling for us to start on after the procedure. I know it will be good for us, and for me. People who aren't overweight don't understand the difficulty we face feeling huge, not wanting to go anywhere , etc... I pray my procedure goes well, and that I'm back to my happy, positive, outgoing person , the person I use to be before gaining all this weight. I know that family and friends are going to criticize and judge me. So, I'm not telling anyone . Good luck with your Husband. Reading these forums, I see that we aren't alone in having less than supportive spouses. Best of luck to all who have had the procedure, and to those who are going to have the procedure! : )

    I so agree with your post. It's not that my husband doesn't agree with the surgery. In fact, he says that he's happy that I'm taking control of my health. HOWEVER, he's the kind that says this, then turns around and says indirect comments that are in direct conflict with this. For example, prior to my revelation about the surgery, he would comment about people on TV or overweight people, in general, not having the will power to lose the weight. That overweight people make excuses for not losing the weight and that "skinny" people have just as hard a fight to stay in control of their health. Of course, when I tell him that when he talks about "those people", he's talking about me, he says, "You're different."

    Little things i forgot to mention...

    1. My husband's never been overweight. In fact, he was a body builder, a personal trainer, and he's in the military (where they have to stay fit).

    2. I've always been overweight. My current weight is 276, I'm 5'6 and addicted to sugar.

    So, you might say that in the area of health, we've always spoken different languages. I haven't scheduled my surgery yet (hopefully in the next two weeks); but I can't help but to feel alone in this journey. But, I know I've got to do this for me.

    That aside, all of the stories and posts I've read here give me the fuel I need to press forward. So, thank you!!

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