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As a matter of fact, I have one in right now. It comes out on Thursday at my first follow-up appointment. I'm dreading that "weird" feeling and what they'll do to close up the area. Yikes!! From what I understand, it's there to drain the excess Fluid (saline) that's put in the abdomen during surgery. It's gross; but easy to care for. I just can't wait to get it out. Good luck!

Hello everyone. I had my surgery on Oct 1st and, I think I'm doing as well as expected. I have a question for the recently sleeved. I'm having what I would describe as internal tremors or chills. In not sure if this is normal. I should mention that I still have the drain in my side until my first post-op visit. It's secure; but I can't help but wonder if the chills are related to the drain or if I have pneumonia. This would be worst case scenario. Is anyone experiencing the same? Thanks for your feedback.

I'm alive! Though very sore and completely doped up, I made it through. More to come. Hope all of my fellow 1sters are coming along nicely. God bless!

Okay October 1st sleevers! Let's get this started. We're on our way to a healthier and thinner life. Woo Hoo! I have to be at the hospitl at 8:30 and I'm nervous as heck. But, I know that God had my back and all that I'm working toward is not in vain. We'll chat on the other side of surgery. Best of luck my fellow sleevers!

Hi everyone. I feel really awkward about asking this one; but here goes. My surgery is this Monday, the 1st. Yay! And I just got my period yesterday. Boo! First, I never thought about this before. But, can I still have surgery. I'm thinking blood loss. Yikes. Also, they have me cleaning myself with those wipes the night before and the morning of surgery. Do I need to explain more? I can't imagine not properly grooming before surgery. Any advice? Sorry.

Thanks for weighing in everyone. I needed this assurance as my day quickly approaches. Congrats to you all and here we come October 1st sleevers!

I had that happen on day 1 and ended up going home and microwaving a piece of unseasoned boiled chicken because I was so famished. But, fortunately, I've been doing well for the most part. Thanks for the support! And, yes, I'll have to imagine the "world" on the other side since I've never been a skinny mini. Lol awk

Hi there! Day 7 of pre-op and it's been quite a struggle for me; mentally for the most part. However, I do have one good thing to report. I just left costco with my Protein supply. But, that's not the good part. I didn't ****** up any samples! Yay! Or pizza. Yay! I was so afraid to go because I didn't believe I could say no to them. With that said, Oct 1st can't come soon enough! Lol

Congrats and a speedy recovery!

You're 4 (more like 3) days away. Congrats!! I'm just closing my 4th day and I'm feeling the same way. My surgery is Oct 1st. Rather than sulk in the corner, I'm trying to face my fears by continuing to cook, for the family, foods I can no longer eat. It's so depressing. But, adding to your point, does taste testing count? Will that compromise the shrinking of the liver? Good question. I'd also like to know... If I made my own soup and blended the solid veggies down until liquid, is this okay for the pre-op liquid diet or is it strictly broth? Cheers!

Oct 1st here too! Yippee!! I'm embarrassed to say that it's been like "the last supper" for the entire weekend; like my last meal that I'll ever get. Lol. Like you, I'll start my pre-op diet tomorrow and I'm trying to stay optimistic about it. You asked about avg night stay and missed work days. I was told that I'll be in for 3 days and will have a note for up to two weeks of leave. The missed days will likely depend on my progress. My surgeon says that its common to feel extremely tired after the initial recovery period and, of course, you'll be on medication. Hope this helps. Congrats and a speedy recovery!

Hi there. Looks like your surgery is right around the corner. I was waiting on the sidelines, until TODAY! I'm right before you, Oct 1st, and reality is slowly setting in. We have a similar starting weight too. I wish you the best in your surgery, in your recovery, and in your new life!! Cheers!

So did my husband, the Dickinson part. Wow!

Look how small this world is! I'm from JC, born and raised. I'm now in Virginia; but miss NJ so badly. What school did you go to? I went to school in JC and Bayonne. JC stand up! Lol Alicia

I'm in the waiting zone too and I can't stand it. I could probably understand it if I were waiting for appointments. But, I got through all of the requirements rather quickly. I'm pretty much waiting for the doctors to catch up. One never put notes in my record, then went on vacation, so I had to see another Cardiologist. Then, my Psych wasn't a Psych. She signed off on my surgery; but wasn't authorized to because she's a LCSW. So, I ended up having to go back to see an actual Psych and now I'm waiting for his notes. It sucks b/c I thought I did everything right and met with my surgeon 3-weeks ago to get my date only to be sent back to the drawing board. I feel your pain. The wait is agonizing! Good luck!

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I think it's great that you're brave enough to take control of your life. You'll be equally as brave going into the surgery and coming out as you begin your journey. Haven't seen too many men on the forums; but I know they exist. Thanks for sharing and sending prayers up for you for a speedy recovery! Best to you!

The best is, recenty, I've started to reply to these things sternly saying, "Reserve your comments for someone else. I don't want to hear it." And his response is, "Ooh! Why are you do sensitive?". I give him a blank stare and think of saying, "Because you're an idiot and your words hurt my feelings." Instead, I just walk away confidently without a word. Anyways, at the end of the day, this is my journey because it's my health. Yes, I'll need his help and support along the way; but I need to keep my goal in perspective. Good luck everyone!

I so agree with your post. It's not that my husband doesn't agree with the surgery. In fact, he says that he's happy that I'm taking control of my health. HOWEVER, he's the kind that says this, then turns around and says indirect comments that are in direct conflict with this. For example, prior to my revelation about the surgery, he would comment about people on TV or overweight people, in general, not having the will power to lose the weight. That overweight people make excuses for not losing the weight and that "skinny" people have just as hard a fight to stay in control of their health. Of course, when I tell him that when he talks about "those people", he's talking about me, he says, "You're different." Little things i forgot to mention... 1. My husband's never been overweight. In fact, he was a body builder, a personal trainer, and he's in the military (where they have to stay fit). 2. I've always been overweight. My current weight is 276, I'm 5'6 and addicted to sugar. So, you might say that in the area of health, we've always spoken different languages. I haven't scheduled my surgery yet (hopefully in the next two weeks); but I can't help but to feel alone in this journey. But, I know I've got to do this for me. That aside, all of the stories and posts I've read here give me the fuel I need to press forward. So, thank you!!

Good luck and the best to you on the other side!