Thanks Tiffykins and Bonnielass for your replies I don't need to lift my children because they are 7 and 4. The problem for me will be that they will want me every five minutes so I will be up and down all the time. I'm going to have to work on their waiting skills prior to my admission! I'm glad that my surgeon insisted on making me wait the twelve weeks before performing the sleeve op. At the time I was disappointed but now I am grateful. I have a little hospital anxiety which I am going to have to deal with?when I had my band put in I developed post-op pneumonia with pleural effusions. I had drainage tubes coming out of my back to remove the fluid caught between my rib cage and my lungs. My lungs went septic and one collapsed. I was in ICU for four weeks and permanently on CPAP. It was a nightmare and I honestly thought I was going to die. When I had the band removed I also got post-op pneumonia but the anesthetist gave me an IV with Kflex antibiotics to help reduce the severity. It worked well and I only had it mildly and was able to go home after 3 days. I'm hoping my sleeve op goes well. My op is on March 23rd and I'm really going to try over the next few weeks to stick to my pre-op diet and exercise as much as I can to open my lungs. I'm hoping that the fitter and healthier I am when I go in, the faster my recovery will be :thumbup1: