Mrs.Rogers

My husband is pretty fit as well. He does like over 100 push up an sits up and everything a day and in just like dam I can't do one lol he does em when I'm not hone I think so it doesn't make me feel worse. I ask for a referal she practically said no and lectured me about my weight. I have an appointment tues to get physical n results from all my blood work and see how that turns out and ask for a referal again. I was told by a doctor that if my doctor doesn't give me a referal I can sue her because it is against the law if a patient asks for a referal your doctor must give u one. So im gna remind her of that so I will get my referal. I want to get this process going.

I'm beyond irritated with my doctor that's the person that should help and she juat makes me feel like **** n i should hide in a hole!! I'm gna call my insurance and see what doctors are available. That can help ke in this process cuz i don't need tge added stress of being put down for being a large female

And she has never helped just always told me I need to lose weight ..well no **** doc I've been trying and she hasn't helped never would give me a meal plan won't refure me to a nutritionist nothing to help me to lose weight but always tells me my problematic are my weight!? Wtf.. idk how to get a new doctor..

Thank you all for your advice, I'm glad I joined this site and am able to connect with people who have give threw what I am going threw now. I have talked to my husband and as hard as it was I'm glad its over lol he is supportive 100% and I'm so thankful for him. He understands that I am happy just not fully I've struggled with being a large girl all my life and after trying diet after diet and hour after hour of excersizing and seeing no resaults and trying to just b happy isn't how i want to live. I want to b healthy to my fullest and be able to keep up with everyone I'm 22 now 60 I want to b able to have children and be able to live healthy with them and my husband. and even now that I have made this decision an my husbands support I have to get my doctor to c my view cuz now that i have talked to her about my choice I can tell she thinks in trying to have the easy way out even though she has been my doctor for six yrs and knows everythibgive done and haven't lost weight she just doesn't support me and changes the subject. Any advice for that!? She made me get all kinds of blood work done thinking its my thiroid or diabeties but I've had all that checked out not to long ago. I just feel so helpless

I just joined and hve been trying to figure out the same thing

He has always been a man that is interested in bigger girls. My weight doesn't bother him but I still have my own feelings that it does. But I know that that is just my own insicurity. I don't know how to bring up the subject I've built up so much on I don't care about my weight blah blah blah, ya know all the fake talk trying to convince myself it doesn't matter. But it does.

I have just recently decided to finally talk with my doctor and get on with the process of seeing if my last option is in fact an option for me. After trying so many different ways to lose weight and failing every time. I'm a newly wed and even tho he makes me the happiest woman alive i still find one subject impossinle to talk about..my weight!! Does anyone have any advise on how to talk to him about this comfortably and without feeling weird!? I know I need to talk to him about it before making my final decision.