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I have made a deal with myself...if I gain 5 lbs I go super strict for a few weeks like I did for 22 months to lose the weight. Had I done this my whole life I would have been in a better place than under a knife.

Vomiting and the band are a lousy combination. Make an appointment to see you physician ASAP

Missy said it best... I agree. It's never too late to recommit. How bad do you want it?

Based on your first post I mearly suggested you might need more time. It wasn't meant mean spirited.... But that still doesn't explain why you are feeling the way you are. It's normal to be nervous...with or without family support. You are about to take a drastic step. Just relax, follow your drs orders and everything will be fine. Maybe seek out someone on this forum close to your age and stage of the journey for some one on one sharing and support Best of luck!!

best wishes for a successful surgery.... And I live in Florida...beautiful this time of year in case you want a cleaning vacation.

For the first few weeks I was full after a cup of liquid... Once healed I moved to about a cup of food at every meal and no more than 1000 calories a day..... It worked like a charm. I think it's too early to be worried about how you feel...your body is still recovering

Didn't your dr tell you when to start the liquid diet? It's the hardest thing I have ever done but the results were terrific..I lost 22 lbs on the 2 week pre op.... And I had a successful surgery. You must put forth this effort now or put off your surgery until you are more stable. Because not following instruction after you are banded can cause harm to your band. What you are feeling is normal. But remember your life isn't all about food and when you are through with the losing of your journey you will thank yourself on a daily basis. Best wishes to you!!!

There are very few things I cannot eat.. Skins on fruit or meat arent good for me... rice as much as I love it isnt a good choice for me but many others do well with it.... Tough meats are just too much effort but other than that.... I can eat anything. I just dont chose to fill up on breads and Pasta but I do have them on occasion. You might try making a week's worth of menus which change up your selections. Its a good tool to plan your meals anyway so as to track your calories.

My pleasure... I know how hard it is in the beginning...but know that it will come together

I saw my dr once a month after surgery and for 22 months during my losing stage. Having him out of state would have been very inconvenient for the monthly appointments depending on how far you would have to travel. I was self pay since my insurance didn't cover the procedure or aftercare but my appoints cost $25 without and $50 with a fill. He has gone up to $50/$100 now... But $180 is outrageous in my opinion.

My dr gave me the same advice about the one cup rule but he also said I should have no less than 1000 calories...so I would check with yours just to be sure. You will lose eventually on 600 but that's really starving yourself....

Get back in a work out routine? The means I would have had one.... Wich I didn't or I wouldn't have been fat. LOL sorry that just struck me funny. In any case my dr said about a month.

That is very low... Does that include the food? Is that what your dr suggests? In time you will lose but right now at 600 ... it's storing everything you are eating and holding on to every calorie. I am asking because its common once you get off liquid to gain a little because your body is finally getting fed and it's storing all the food. But to only eat 600 calories... Seems low. I would ask the dr how many you should be taking in.

I could care less what they call it. Reconstructive, Plastic, cosmetic, elective... I was against it from the start. Every other time I lost weight it wasn't an issue.,.., of course every other time I didn't lose 224 lbs!!! Fast forward to the end of my losing journey and see how i changed my mind...check out my tummy tuck pics and you will understand why I did it and paid hard earned cash for it. Was it vain... Maybe. Am I embarrassed about it...absolutely not. Would I love to do my thighs and arms....yes. Will I... I don't think so because I am not at the point of hating it.... I don't love it but I can live with it...unlike my tummy and tubular flaps I used to call breasts. Having the procedures I did really made me feel like I finally had the body I worked so hard to get.

How many calories are you eating each day..total including liquids?

My tt, breast lift and augmentation done the same day was 13k. I think the tt alone was about 7k all inclusive.

We just cancelled our premium stations because the cost didn't justify the entertainment... And saving $50 bucks a month makes more sense. and we still have a bizillion other selections to chose from.

The dr might know better because I cannot think or any correlation between eating and your port. The port is just a vehicle to transfer saline to the band and isn't located near or on your band..... I would ask at your next appointment or call the office if you are concerned Best wishes

You already have a tool implanted.... Why isn't it working? If you eat the proper portions, weigh and measure your food and stick to a low calorie diet ,....it should work. What is different?

Sounds like gas to me.... It gets better..... I promise But if you are worried...call the dr... They will know

I personally feel that any designer plan which costs money isn't any better than basic nutritional info I can get on line . Also I tracked my calories with my phone ap which made me realize the right and wrong foods to eat.... And since I am not a joiner of those sort of things it's not the best resource for me. If you feel you need to have the structure then I would say to go for it but the Internet is a free bottomless pit of information about menu planning.... And the phone ap is also free ..

My dr is in Tampa as well.... Best wishes for a successful surgery!

Very exciting...glad you were able to recover the ring. I almost lost mine out the window of a car and immediately decided it was time to get it sized... I went from an 11 to a 7 Congrats your your pending nuptials and the weight loss!

Just because times come up doesn't mean you have to induldge. My losing stage was 22 months and I might have had 5 drinks during that time..not because ii wanted to but because I didn't NOT want to lose that day!!. Most often I drank Water with lots of lemon in a pretty glass. No one cared. As far as fast food... Usually I would select a salad...maybe with grilled chicken on it or in times where the choices are limited like taco bell.... I would have a chicken burrito and eat the Insides with a fork. Way too many calories in the tortilla. As for burger places... Some now offer chicken without the breading so that's a good choice...or check out the kids meals and stay away from the bread. Life doesn't stop because you are dieting.... There are always good choices to make.

The port incision was the largest...and it was about an inch. By the time I was 6 months post op I couldn't see any of the 4 incisions....they basically disappeared